<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"><channel><title>Sex &amp; Dating</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Forum-8.htm</link><description>Discuss issues related to sex. Serious discussions only.</description><lastBuildDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 15:24:42 GMT</lastBuildDate><language>en</language><item><title>what position</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-345245.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-345245.htm</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 15:24:42 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>butt05</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[what position does women prefer their man be in for them to cum ? and does it matter?::crazylove::]]></description></item><item><title>is there any women</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-345240.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-345240.htm</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 15:18:18 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>butt05</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[is there any women who doesnt mine masturbating butt naked while their man looks also what is consider  nice breasts size please]]></description></item><item><title>The new and the old</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-345200.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-345200.htm</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 13:51:52 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>talkalot2u</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[I am so sick of most men getting in touch and openly ask for sex.  Then they want to know if I have cam.  Most want me to see them masturbate. I don't mind the honesty and I do find it complimentary,but some things should be private. Is that the new thing? Just people out for sex.

Back when I was dating it was always a real date.  It was not just a booty call or if it was I didn't know it and sometimes I did have sex even on a first date.  I was wooed,(as we use to say),and treated very good....(more)]]></description></item><item><title>i what fuck  friend</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-345104.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-345104.htm</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 10:14:07 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>kji123</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[i what fuck friend  is bad  yes or no  tell me what you think ]]></description></item><item><title>Who's a nimfo or who just loves n having sex as often as they can</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-345061.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-345061.htm</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 08:07:36 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>zeus696969</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[I love sex do u agree? n having it with multiple people different ways and feels for doing it, safe of course condums,tests wateva way u might feel comfortable portecting yourself, but wat im trying too realy say who would like too have sex with a 5'10 195lb puertorican from NYC!!!hit me up]]></description></item><item><title>would a guy ever have sex with a girl when her period is on ?</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-343990.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-343990.htm</guid><pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 05:57:01 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>wifey09</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[I think it is so gross but other don't think so  ]]></description></item><item><title>Women and good sex</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-343761.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-343761.htm</guid><pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 17:21:31 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>epnynydate</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[I read somewhere that women know that good sex is hard to find - once they have it, they will not let go easily. Is this statement true?]]></description></item><item><title>What do you think about</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-342435.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-342435.htm</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2009 22:51:58 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>ricki1951</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Cross dressers?   Are they born with this problem, or is it just a turn on, do they have difficulity in not knowing what they want to be.  My Painter has been married for 21 years and he is a cross dresser, and his wife thinks it's a big turn on.  Could she be Bi-sexual?]]></description></item><item><title>how to stop your woman cheating</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-342175.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-342175.htm</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2009 14:45:59 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>brightonbest</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[An old friend told me that the way to stop your woman cheating was to give her a regular orgasm.  What do you say guys?

x]]></description></item><item><title>He said what!?!?!</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-341152.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-341152.htm</guid><pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 14:57:37 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>leahnhaylin</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Ok so I met this guy and dated him for a bit. Then one night we decide to sleep together. Everything was going fine until he flipped me on my stomach and grabbed my hair and neck to the point I couldn't breath and then said you've always had a fantasy to be raped haven't you? I was shocked! I didn't do anything about it. I let him finish and when he left I stopped answering his calls. Now I did tell him I'm into hair pulling and hands on my neck but not to that degree! Not to mention I am a rape...(more)]]></description></item><item><title>A Man's kiss as an aphrodisiac</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-340751.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-340751.htm</guid><pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 18:55:08 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>hopein08</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Ladies - I just read in this months Cosmo at the library that a sloppy kiss from a guy is actually an aphrodisiac for a woman.  There was more to the article ofcourse but basically that just because a guy might be all about those real wet kisses his saliva has now been discovered to be filled with stuff to turn you on.

<img src='http://i673.photobucket.com/albums/vv99/HarleyBabe12/Hugz-Kisses/wetkissesforyou.gif' />

<img src='http://i40.photobucket.com/albums/e233/MaddieMaturin/Imatges/kiss.jpg[/I...(more)]]></description></item><item><title>Sexual Compatibility: What Makes It? What Breaks It?</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-340470.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-340470.htm</guid><pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 10:05:55 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>steve41868</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[I grew up in being taught that sexually compatible is a farce or unimportant. My soon-to-be-ex (I call her my "Current") and I are calling it quits because we are not sexually compatible (among other things - see my other thread <i>Separated And Having Sex?</i>). She came into the marriage with a lot of varied sexual experiences with a lot of varied men (30+ easy). I entered our marriage having had sex with only one woman - my ex wife. She swears that we are not sexually compatible - and that so...(more)]]></description></item><item><title>Have you ever been to a sex party, group sex, orgy etc?</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-337965.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-337965.htm</guid><pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2009 15:51:09 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>lakeside64030</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[1)Have you ever been to a sex party?
2)what was it like?
3)would you do it again?
4) what would you do differently?
5)any advice for a straight man wanting to check out that lifestyle?]]></description></item><item><title>Dating a transsexual?  Would you want to know?</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-336974.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-336974.htm</guid><pubDate>Mon, 07 Sep 2009 18:05:35 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>specialmisslady</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[One of my girlfriends is a transsexual and she always has a date...But she does not tell the men that she used to be a man...

She's a nice girl, has everything a woman has and she looks feminine...But she still has some suspicious features...

The men that she attracts are men that I would normally be attracted to...

I don't know if they can tell the difference or if it even matters to them???

 
I say this because a guy she rejected tried to get my phone number afterwards, but I poli...(more)]]></description></item><item><title>Kiegels good for men too</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-336847.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-336847.htm</guid><pubDate>Mon, 07 Sep 2009 13:42:01 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>sensiblehowlie</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Kiegels help to strengthen a womans' muscles, creating a "tighter" feel.  Guess what they do for men?  They make you thicker and stronger, build up your "staying power", creates greater intensitiy in orgasms and is a great, healthy exercise for your prostrate.  We've become so hooked on just buying pills...but Kiegels are a very OLD source for bettering your all around sex life and health.  Try em...their easy.  I'm up to 500 a day.]]></description></item><item><title>Women kicking a guy in the balls</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-336265.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-336265.htm</guid><pubDate>Sun, 06 Sep 2009 11:45:21 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>rick4301</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Okay ladies have you ever kneed or kicked a guy in his balls?? And would you do it to a guy?? Also how severe would you do it if you had a chance??]]></description></item><item><title>Do black men get bigger when they get erect?</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-334775.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-334775.htm</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2009 14:10:15 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>bigsillygirl</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Stupid , I know, but I was told that black men only get hard not bigger.  I've been seeing a black man (my first) and I would like to know more about his body and how it works before we get intimate, So that I can be at my best for him. but I don't want to ask him this type of question.

Another stupid question, why are white men turned off by a woman that has had sex with a black man, it don't rub off. Or is that something else that I'm naive about? Are there a lot of black men out there with...(more)]]></description></item><item><title>Natural smell or freshly washed?</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-333790.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-333790.htm</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 17:01:05 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>specialmisslady</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Whenever I'm about to have sex, I always get in the shower but one time I didnt and it was awesome...My friend at the time said he liked it better because I felt warmer, wetter and smelled natural :D.... Normally my skin is squeaky clean and smells like Dove....


What do you prefer, natural or freshly washed?  

Have you ever noticed a differnce?  ]]></description></item><item><title>Do women understand when</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-333338.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-333338.htm</guid><pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 19:08:04 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>garfield25801</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[DO WOMEN UNDERSTAND WHEN A MAN IS NOT ABLE TO GET HARD? IT HAS HAPPENED TO ME A FEW TIMES AND IT UPSETS ME TO NO END AND I KNOW IT HAS SOMETHING TO DO WITH PRESSURE OR STRESS.  I WANT TO GET HARD LIKE I DID WHEN I WAS A TEEN BUT THAT WAS WAY TOO MANY YEARS AGO.  CAN A WOMAN BE TURNED ON IF A MAN CAN NOT GET HARD BUT STILL EATS THEM OUT AND MESSES AROUND FOR HOURS?  I HAD A FEW WOMEN TELL ME NO BIG DEAL.::yellowbanana::]]></description></item><item><title>Role Playing</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-331396.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-331396.htm</guid><pubDate>Fri, 28 Aug 2009 04:51:31 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>libra115</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Just curious.....has anyone engaged in serious role playing? 

If so, tell us about your best experience.  ::signplease::

]]></description></item><item><title>How important is the climax(s)</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-330844.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-330844.htm</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 06:36:08 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>kinkycapitalist</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Do you climax every time?  Is it a waste or disappointment if you don't?  Is one enough?  Are 47 too many?  Is the climax more important then the intamacy of pleasing one's partner?  Is there an emotional reward equal to or as important as a physical one?  Do you prefer, "climax", "orgasm" or "cum"?

<img src='http://i217.photobucket.com/albums/cc253/mskmj/bam/kink.jpg' />]]></description></item><item><title>Is sex always better if you keep having to chase it?</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-330588.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-330588.htm</guid><pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 17:37:56 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>loveis09</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Guys do you still need to chase it after you've gotten hit off good several times?  ::signwtf::]]></description></item><item><title>Separated and having sex?</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-329158.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-329158.htm</guid><pubDate>Sun, 23 Aug 2009 23:05:39 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>steve41868</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[I'm separated from my wife of 5 years for about 10 days now. Her idea, not mine - but I agree with it. She cheated with two men, one she only kissed, but the other she went around all the bases with. We've both agreed to see other people, but we still live in the same house because of finance issues right now, and because we don't want to over-burden our 4 year old (who is already losing her 18 year old brother to college on Wed). I do not know if we will "work things out" or not. Infidelity is ...(more)]]></description></item><item><title>Let's Talk About Erectile Dysfunction</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-327919.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-327919.htm</guid><pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2009 16:04:53 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>libra115</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[I've been dating a very nice 58 yr old man and we have finally become intimate. Unfortunately, he has ED. He takes Cialis but still can't become hard enough for penetration, which I miss....and I've tried EVERYTHING. 

He satisfies me in other ways but I still wish I could feel him in me. Any suggestions?  ::signplease::

]]></description></item><item><title>Would you have a labia reduction or vaginal restoration?</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-327388.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-327388.htm</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 15:30:03 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>ndnprncess</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Would you, or do you know anyone that has had a labia reduction or vaginal restoration?   Is this type of plastic surgery just a little "over the top?"

My niece was having marital problems, so she flew to LA and had a labia reduction and while they were at it, she had her vaginal walls tightened.  I guess she felt the pain, that she went through was worth it.  I personally know she couldn't sit down for over two weeks.]]></description></item><item><title>Naughty Piercings!!</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-326560.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-326560.htm</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2009 01:36:19 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>jenamp88</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Men and women... what do you think of hood or clit piercings on a woman, jacobs ladder or prince albert on a man...  or pierced nipples for men or women? Turn on? Turn off? 

If you have em, do they make sex better?]]></description></item><item><title>Sexually, which profession turns you on the most?</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-324536.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-324536.htm</guid><pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2009 12:47:09 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>im_single_again</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Firefighters -- that'll do it for me ::crazylove::]]></description></item><item><title>Women with tongue piercings...</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-323975.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-323975.htm</guid><pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2009 11:53:38 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>im_single_again</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Why do so many guys find this attractive? It's just a piece of metal going through a tongue. 

My guess is that guys admire this for sexual reasons  JMO

And for this reason, I refuse to get my tongue pierced. I have to admit that I once thought about it and convinced a friend of mine to go with me & get hers done. I decided NOT to go through with it, but she did hers anyway. 

It seems like when she and I go out (shopping, traveling, dinner parties, etc.) -- guys are always fascinated by ...(more)]]></description></item><item><title>Dating and herpes</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-323594.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-323594.htm</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2009 17:58:31 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>1devine1</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Why don't people fess upi they have it?]]></description></item><item><title>Cool benefit of sperm for women</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-321854.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-321854.htm</guid><pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 19:51:27 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>julymorning07</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[I was watching the program 'Manswers' this weekend and they said the sperm contains a hormone that has anti-depressant properties to it.
Personally it made sense to me.  I thought it was the act of sex I was addicted to, but it seems it's the leftovers, lol.

The hormone is supposedly absorbed through the vaginal walls.  Can't do that if you use a condom, and I suppose it helps to lie there for a few minutes before cleaning up.
I haven't googled this phenonomen yet to make sure it's factual,...(more)]]></description></item><item><title>unwanted, too soon, sexual tension</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-317864.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-317864.htm</guid><pubDate>Mon, 03 Aug 2009 15:20:21 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>outback2451</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[ok... I am fresh out of the cannon.. celibate for a gazillion years and I have started dating.  Asked my doctor for advice and I cleverly decided that i would wait MONTHS before having sex with anyone.

so now. I have been out twice with the same man and we have been talking on a daily basis for several weeks and guess what?  yup I am ready to jump him.

I am scared to even kiss him because I do not want to lose perspective, let loose my wild child and take things too far too soon.  Both of ...(more)]]></description></item><item><title>STD and HIV testing--BEWARE</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-316756.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-316756.htm</guid><pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2009 14:25:19 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>jerry525</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[There is way too much trust, confidence and assurances placed in test results.  Here’s why.

The most common tests are for Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Hepatitis B, Hepatitis C, Herpes 1/2, Syphilis, and HIV.  Let’s say that your next partner's test results come back negative.  Woopee!  Now you can go at it with no concern, right?  Wrong.

Even if those tests and results were a fresh as this morning, neither you nor your partner know for sure that the results mean the person is ‘safe’.  Here’s the ...(more)]]></description></item><item><title>does size really matter?</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-315476.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-315476.htm</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2009 00:36:24 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>randyrocks420</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[im not gonna lie, im not the biggest but does it really matter?]]></description></item><item><title>You waited and waited... and then the sex was HORRIBLE!</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-315115.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-315115.htm</guid><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2009 13:10:54 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>mjkittredge</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[I think we've all seen the threads about how long to wait, about sex on first dates, waiting until marriage for sex. Ect ect. All these different opinions about when to have it, why to have it, why it's a bad idea to do it at a certain time or not.

What I want to know is: How long have you waited in a relationship before having sex, and then when you finally did, it was just plain lousy? Were you able to 'fix' it, get it to a level where it was acceptable, or even great? Or did it stay bad an...(more)]]></description></item><item><title>Let's Get Real</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-314202.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-314202.htm</guid><pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2009 19:06:51 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>mizunderst00d</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[When you decide to ask a girl you are dating(slowly falling for) about her past sexual activities, do you really expect to hear that what she does with you in the bedroom she hasn't done it with anyone else? And why is it so hard for you to accept the truth after you ask the question? She's the type that won't lie to you. Hide anything from you. That's why you want to be with her right? ::signwtf::

Ok...let me give you a question you can actually respond to. All the men out there reading this...(more)]]></description></item><item><title>Guys...is sex in the bag?</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-313001.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-313001.htm</guid><pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2009 15:13:43 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>ndnprncess</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Guys, when you plan a date (or hook-up) do you plan every aspect of that date, with the ultimate objective of having sex?]]></description></item><item><title>Are you rusty and need a recharge?</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-310433.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-310433.htm</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 18:15:47 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>maryg2</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[so if you have been in a relationship/marriage for a long time and been w/the same partner obviously all that time (at least we're assuming u have) and then u r out and about back to dating, do u find yourself thinking that u might be a little rusty when it comes to having a full-fledged sex life again? 

for a couple reasons, having a different new partner to learn all those quirks again and also as time has passed by, maybe you're a little apprehensive wondering if u still got what it takes?...(more)]]></description></item><item><title>Monogamous Relations Must Resurface</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-307899.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-307899.htm</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 23:56:59 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>hellodollie</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[One on one relationships must resurface.
Seems none of the males I meet at church, at the supermarket, and on these sites realize they they can catch STI/STDs by having multiple partners.
I have been celibate for over a decade and want a good, wholesome relationship, but all the guys are just trying for a quickie, and well i don't know what they-you all want after that, but it is not a good, none cheating woman apparently.
Do any of you guys want a one on one relationship?
Can you be for rea...(more)]]></description></item><item><title>What all women should know?</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-307739.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-307739.htm</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 18:17:07 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>funnct1965</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Why is It so many women check that a man must not have contacted women for a intamate encounter?Or be looking for women for a intamate encounter? Nature alone makes us select that option in our search.After all we are men. Curiosty should not kill the cat in real life. 

Now I know I don't speak for all men but I know I do speak for a large percentage of us. Men are real simple creatures to figure out. 

First I'm sorry sex is not the only thing on our mind More like ten percent. However wit...(more)]]></description></item><item><title>sex and grief</title><link>https://datehookup.com/Thread-307573.htm</link><guid>https://datehookup.com/Thread-307573.htm</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 12:49:34 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>julymorning07</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[This is a tad more serious that the other topics I see on here, but it's the appropriate thread.
I don't know exactly where to start on this, guess I'll just dive right into it.
This past Saturday my Persian cat that was born here where I live 13 years ago was hit by a car either the neighbor or someone going to their place in our private driveway, and left dead there without contacting me or anything.
I was overcome with grief.  I've had alot of harrassment from these people the past couple ...(more)]]></description></item></channel></rss>