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jayd1038
Pittsburgh, PA
23, joined Nov. 2010
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Is it wrong?
This girl is stunningly beautiful, in great shape, seems super nice. So far she seems like a great girl for myself because I feel like we have a lot in common so far.
She looks more like 21 or so and acts it too, I don't look 24 and probably act a year or two younger anyhow. We are both in school and have a few years left.
Is that reasonable because some people I know said it's weird and some said it doesn't matter.
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| 3/5/2013 10:23:33 PM |
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e_llicit
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
44, joined Apr. 2012
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^^^this^^^
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| 3/5/2013 10:23:44 PM |
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hbguy311
Huntington Beach, CA
35, joined Aug. 2010
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18 year olds shouldn't be dating anyone period.
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| 3/5/2013 10:23:54 PM |
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bastermater
Sulphur, LA
26, joined Nov. 2012
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Nope she's of legal age and if you both care for each other who cares what others think 
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| 3/5/2013 10:25:15 PM |
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tellitlkittis
Los Angeles, CA
62, joined Nov. 2012
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Nope. It's not wrong. Hope it works for ya.
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| 3/5/2013 10:26:35 PM |
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mercedes01
New South Wales
Australia
96, joined Jan. 2010
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It's your business.
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| 3/5/2013 10:26:40 PM |
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stobil
Gallatin, TN
35, joined Nov. 2009
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If she's 24 and you're 18, it's ok.
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| 3/5/2013 10:26:55 PM |
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misterwunderful
Devon, PA
45, joined Feb. 2013
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If you want the unspoiled fruit, you gotta go to the tree.
Just make sure she's really 18 though
Don't get Hansened.
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| 3/5/2013 10:27:25 PM |
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jlt122977
Branchville, NJ
38, joined Feb. 2013
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Well lets put it into perspective.. When your 84 & she is 78 who is going too give 2 shits...Enjoy your selfs (young jerks) 
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| 3/5/2013 10:29:22 PM |
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ldroftrollops
Goshen, IN
36, joined Mar. 2010
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You're gonna do way stupider shit than this. ..ride it out
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| 3/5/2013 10:35:21 PM |
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jayd1038
Pittsburgh, PA
23, joined Nov. 2010
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If it helps my cause any she is Canadian and here on a track scholarship, so in Canada she is almost old enough to drink and gamble
Plus I mean how many guys 30+ have gone to strip clubs and gotten lap dances or drooled all over some young 18-21 year old girl... haha.
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| 3/5/2013 10:40:27 PM |
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naya25
Chicago, IL
28, joined Feb. 2013
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...is she really 18 or are you not telling us her REAL age???? Is she really a child in high school sir???
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| 3/5/2013 10:41:18 PM |
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xray6
Jacksonville, FL
28, joined Mar. 2012
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IS IT EVERYTHING I EVER DREAMED OF....
DOES SHE HAVE PINK NIPPLES?
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| 3/5/2013 10:41:20 PM |
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moundsofjoy
Milwaukee, WI
48, joined Feb. 2013
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No, it been going on forever.
She's 18 and your 24. Not a big age difference.
this
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thelostgirl
Ann Arbor, MI
24, joined Sep. 2011
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It's fine.
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| 3/5/2013 10:45:15 PM |
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ohdannyboy59
Arlington, TX
56, joined Sep. 2012
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When you're 60 and she's 54, it won't seem like such a big deal.
Of course, you'll already have dumped her for a younger woman, so ...
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| 3/5/2013 10:46:36 PM |
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poisonivy69
Conroe, TX
29, joined Jan. 2012
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Hey if that's what floats your boat go for it but in a couple of years she's gonna be history in your life
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| 3/5/2013 10:47:54 PM |
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jayd1038
Pittsburgh, PA
23, joined Nov. 2010
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Age at this point= maturity, therefore there is a huge difference. You're talking 6 years difference. That's a lot of time between high school and the real world at 24.
I would not only steer clear, I would be leary.
Also, if she were my daughter, I would be very concerned about your intentions. Seems you're more intrigued by her looks more than anything. A possible piece of arm candy as I see it.
Stick to your age group and let the little girls grow up.
ETA... My daughter is 13 and has been mistaken for 18 many times. J/S
That's the thing, I was seeing a 19 yr old a little before, and her maturity level was very 19. This girl however, she legitimately seems more mature than her age.
Plus I will be very honest, some to do with me and some to do with my life, I am immature for my age I admit that. I have only lived on my own for 6 months much like her.
I am concerned about her parents and what they would possibly think, but I'm not worrying that far ahead I mean I don't even know for sure she would be interested in dating me lol.
I do not just only like her because of her looks, she has a lot of qualities to her that I admire so far... I still need to get to know her better though regardless.
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| 3/5/2013 10:49:34 PM |
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jayd1038
Pittsburgh, PA
23, joined Nov. 2010
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...is she really 18 or are you not telling us her REAL age???? Is she really a child in high school sir???
No she is really in college her with me in Ohio. She is even a soph. by credit level even though it's her first actual year here. She graduated in 2012, I graduated in 2007 so our class level is only 5 years.
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| 3/5/2013 10:49:54 PM |
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cococharms1976
Intercourse, PA
39, joined May. 2012
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I say you cant, so you cant
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| 3/5/2013 10:57:48 PM |
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bitsybon
Jacksonville, FL
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| 3/5/2013 10:58:29 PM |
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2wheelpilot
Beatty, NV
48, joined Oct. 2010
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Don't get Hansened.
-chip
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sofetch12
Willingboro, NJ
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Use whatever reasoning you need to, to make yourself feel comfortable about that dating scenario. She is 18 and of legal age, you afraid of what others will have to say? Its none of their business. If you 2 like one another, then enjoy the company. Your both adults who can make your own life choices.
Best of Luck 
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dontmeanharm
Aesch
Switzerland
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Nope she's of legal age and if you both care for each other who cares what others think
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| 3/6/2013 12:09:14 AM |
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jayd1038
Pittsburgh, PA
23, joined Nov. 2010
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This is one of the rare times where you like a lot of the answers/advice you see!
 
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| 3/6/2013 12:13:56 AM |
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danny3098
Virginia Beach, VA
39, joined May. 2012
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im 36 and ill date one,and i have in the very recent past (dont look so surprised) im certainly not gonna let love slip away over a number if it presents itself
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| 3/6/2013 12:19:11 AM |
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th6231
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
68, joined Jul. 2007
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Jesus Christ--what difference does it make what anyone else thinks---do what you want to do...!!!!
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taketwotak2
Wenatchee, WA
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If you find you have that much in common with an 18 year old while in your mis 20s i am slightly concerned but hey, nothing wrong with it minus the huge maturity/personality gap that occurs from late teens to mid 20s.
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| 3/6/2013 12:29:57 AM |
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thecorvetteking
Austin, TX
45, joined Dec. 2010
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She's probably more mature than you anyway
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| 3/6/2013 12:42:22 AM |
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danny3098
Virginia Beach, VA
39, joined May. 2012
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if you dont do it i guarantee one of them "friends" that found it odd will be all over her like white on rice
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| 3/6/2013 12:56:01 AM |
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nene_bug
Midland, MI
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Anybody under the age of 21 shouldn't be in a serious relationship. When your 21 your gonna be at the bar shtfaced and see at least one person that looks act and seems better than the person your with your gonna fnck them n ruin your relationship.
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| 3/6/2013 12:59:54 AM |
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taketwotak2
Wenatchee, WA
28, joined Jan. 2013
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if you dont do it i guarantee one of them "friends" that found it odd will be all over her like white on rice
This kinda logic is how incest started lol...
I'm pretty much with Nene on this one since its a proven fact in most cases.
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fratpablo
Pico Rivera, CA
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go for it?? 
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| 3/6/2013 1:07:18 AM |
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possible_31
Brazil, IN
35, joined Sep. 2012
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Jayd buddy go for it. Age is just a number. Im using that remark very maturely too. I dont mean anything that is illegal for everybody that was about to say something else.
Its true I think, Women mature much faster than guys do. Heres the final thing Im gonna say. You will never know until you find out. Were all made to fall and recover you know? Good luck. Whats meant to be will be.
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| 3/6/2013 1:29:06 AM |
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naya25
Chicago, IL
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No she is really in college her with me in Ohio. She is even a soph. by credit level even though it's her first actual year here. She graduated in 2012, I graduated in 2007 so our class level is only 5 years.
If she's really in college who cares! Lol. Your friends are probably just jealous of you
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| 3/6/2013 1:32:19 AM |
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heatherruss
Wharton, NJ
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I was 18 when i was 13 and i looked it. Are you both going to the same school? Than you maybe safe. If the ages are what they appear to be, that age difference is nothing
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| 3/6/2013 1:32:40 AM |
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possible_31
Brazil, IN
35, joined Sep. 2012
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Im 32 and Naya is 25. I wouldnt think twice about dating her. Shes probably more mature than I am, even though shes younger. No one would even question us either. See my point? Were 7 years apart. No big thing at all.
I was just using you as an example Naya, well that and I thought you were attractive.
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| 3/6/2013 1:34:10 AM |
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calthropstu
Phoenix, AZ
36, joined Aug. 2012
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I see nothing wrong with it, and 90% of the worlds population would see nothing wrong with it. It's only a small subsection of western society that sees this as a bad thing. Mostly religious and feminist nut jobs.
Have fun, and don't get caught buying her alcohol.
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| 3/6/2013 1:36:34 AM |
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carbonv
Faqus
Egypt
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You're gonna do way stupider shit than this. ..ride it out
Yeah...I agree, ride her ..errrr I mean ummm uhhhh 
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| 3/6/2013 1:38:29 AM |
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possible_31
Brazil, IN
35, joined Sep. 2012
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I see nothing wrong with it, and 90% of the worlds population would see nothing wrong with it. It's only a small subsection of western society that sees this as a bad thing. Mostly religious and feminist nut jobs.
Have fun, and don't get caught buying her alcohol.
I agree with you on so many levels, its that bible belt community that makes "some" feel as if they farted in the bathroom they should be scorned for it. Its crazy
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| 3/6/2013 1:40:09 AM |
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taketwotak2
Wenatchee, WA
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Im 32 and Naya is 25. I wouldnt think twice about dating her. Shes probably more mature than I am, even though shes younger. No one would even question us either. See my point? Were 7 years apart. No big thing at all.
I was just using you as an example Naya, well that and I thought you were attractive.
The age gap isnt such a big deal as you leave the 20s but we're talking bout a teenager here. Most have bout 5 years of stupidity before they become semi functioning adults. Thusly i try to steer clear of anyone younger than 25.
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| 3/6/2013 6:27:51 AM |
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scarlettxxx
Mesa, AZ
52, joined Oct. 2011
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Wow....You both are adults now. No, nothing's wrong.
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| 3/6/2013 9:45:07 AM |
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theseeker75
Ionia, MI
40, joined Feb. 2013
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In this works nite a days you have 18 yr old girls marrying 60 yr old guys an it's alright so who carea if either is young or old as long as both see of legal an mentally of age it's natural it's been going on for centuries
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| 3/6/2013 9:54:22 AM |
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fly0010
Fort Worth, TX
36, joined Sep. 2012
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You have our blessing
May the forces be with you
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| 3/6/2013 9:55:42 AM |
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jjay1970
Syracuse, NY
45, joined Oct. 2011
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Don't ask us. Ask her parents. Or aren't you a gentleman?
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| 3/6/2013 10:10:20 AM |
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nicholosaurus
Henrico, VA
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As long as it's legal and consensual.
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| 3/6/2013 10:42:16 AM |
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pedalthatbike
Rohnert Park, CA
36, joined Dec. 2012
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I was 32 dating a 22 year old.. Well, we really werent dating
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| 3/6/2013 10:52:32 AM |
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metalshadow6
Dillon, SC
35, joined Feb. 2013
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Is it wrong?
This girl is stunningly beautiful, in great shape, seems super nice. So far she seems like a great girl for myself because I feel like we have a lot in common so far.
She looks more like 21 or so and acts it too, I don't look 24 and probably act a year or two younger anyhow. We are both in school and have a few years left.
Is that reasonable because some people I know said it's weird and some said it doesn't matter.
It is legal and if you two work together then it is not wrong.
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jjay1970
Syracuse, NY
45, joined Oct. 2011
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I must confess.
When I was 17 I had an awesome fling with a 24 year old latina. She was awesome!
I guess I must recuse myself from this thread.
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| 3/6/2013 11:01:09 AM |
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
52, joined Jan. 2013
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Would you date a 12 year old when you were 18?? 
there's your answer!!
she might be "mature for her age" either way then you're not mature enough!
Give it a shot, I dated a 27 year old when I was 17, but then I figured out why that's not really healthy, but not until about 35 yo so you're in the GREEN ZONE!! (or red zone however you chose to look at it!)
[Edited 3/6/2013 11:02:34 AM ]
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dark_angel666
Walls, MS
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If she's mature go for it.If she's not mature mind wise forget about it.
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| 3/7/2013 11:40:53 PM |
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dark_angel666
Walls, MS
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If she's mature go for it.If she's not mature mind wise don't even waste your time.
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| 3/7/2013 11:44:02 PM |
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sissy_hi
Flower Mound, TX
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The age gap isnt such a big deal as you leave the 20s but we're talking bout a teenager here. Most have bout 5 years of stupidity before they become semi functioning adults. Thusly i try to steer clear of anyone younger than 25.
I have to say I agree with this
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| 3/8/2013 6:46:53 AM |
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kclady41
Kansas City, MO
46, joined Jun. 2011
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6 years is no big deal if she was 24 and you were 30. 18 is too young
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| 3/8/2013 7:19:34 AM |
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enamel
Warrenville, IL
58, joined Sep. 2012
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Don't do it! That's a 25% age difference. Why, when she's 45 you'll be 60. And when she's 60, you'll be 80 and if not dead, decrepit.
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| 3/8/2013 7:21:59 AM |
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pdforone
Litchfield, OH
64, joined Jul. 2010
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You're gonna do way stupider shit than this. ..ride it out
LMAO!
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| 3/8/2013 7:23:02 AM |
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fing_americans
Houston, TX
48, joined Dec. 2012
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Is it wrong?
This girl is stunningly beautiful, in great shape, seems super nice. So far she seems like a great girl for myself because I feel like we have a lot in common so far.
She looks more like 21 or so and acts it too, I don't look 24 and probably act a year or two younger anyhow. We are both in school and have a few years left.
Is that reasonable because some people I know said it's weird and some said it doesn't matter.
It's fine, I dated a 17yr old when I was 25...of course 16 was the legal age in England so it wasn't an issue.
Forget the maturity bullshit, your dating her, not marrying her...it's irrelevant.
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ooghostoo
Beverly Hills, CA
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I fail to see the big deal here. One advantage, I think, to being young? Is the fact that your allowed to screw up and learn. You have plenty of time left. Also? The older you get, the more the age gap dminishes. Shes legal. Your legal. Problem? Absolutely not..... -Ghost
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| 3/8/2013 9:02:34 AM |
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lipbiter12
Seagrove, NC
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I personally would say 24 is the MAX limit. Honestly, I really feel that 21 is at that age.
Obviously beyond 24, you're reaching creepy/jail bait territory.
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| 3/8/2013 9:05:32 AM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
58, joined Jul. 2010
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For cryin' out loud give her a promise ring an when you break up tell her to pull it out and give it back.
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