4/11/2013 12:42:29 PM |
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marieyg
Boston, MA
22, joined Nov. 2011
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I have such low self esteem that I know thats why im still single.
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4/11/2013 12:44:04 PM |
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jjay1970
Syracuse, NY
44, joined Oct. 2011
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They can screw ok. Issues typically outside the bedroom though.
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4/11/2013 12:46:22 PM |
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zach_n7
Oakland, IA
25, joined Mar. 2012
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I don't mind being supportive or giving a pick me up to something, but if it is a constant compulsion then it can suck the life out of you. Have a friend who has really really low self esteem and knows it, boosting their confidence constantly is exhausting sometimes.
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4/11/2013 12:47:01 PM |
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metalshadow6
Dillon, SC
34, joined Feb. 2013
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I have such low self esteem that I know thats why im still single. Not a turn off but I do try to help them get their esteem up. After all, you a pretty young lady, men must be blind in your area if they are not asking you out.
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4/11/2013 12:47:14 PM |
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stl1
Saint Louis, MO
61, joined Jun. 2007
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I like to encourage them by complimenting them on their sandwich making skills, beer fetching skills and BJ skills.
I'm just a nice guy like that.
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4/11/2013 12:47:15 PM |
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maggiemagpie
Santee, CA
43, joined Mar. 2012
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Then fake confidence! Sheesh, having no confidence and announcing it is like putting up a kick me sign on your back. Getting kicked a few times won't bring you more confidence. J/s
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4/11/2013 12:48:27 PM |
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gallo_again
Los Gatos, CA
46, joined Mar. 2013
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You should meet sunrize/icy!
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4/11/2013 12:49:04 PM |
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doktorabstracto
Cocoa, FL
55, joined Aug. 2010
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I have such low self esteem that I know thats why im still single.
Don't blame self-esteem. That's a symptom, not a cause. But being needy of approval and assurance sure does get old. Especially if we don't really think that highly of you, for whatever reason. And that's where self-honesty and -improvement come in.
The big lie foisted on the young is, all you need is to feel good about yourself and then All Good Things will appear on silver tray. Well, forget it. Wishing doesn't get you jack, and neither does believing in the Self Esteem Bunny. You want it, work for it.
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4/11/2013 12:49:11 PM |
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mrld_ii
Stockton, CA
54, joined May. 2011
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@ OP:
Here?!? On DH?!?
The men L-O-V-E women with low self esteem; means their work's already done for 'em.
But you already knew that, even before starting your thread, huh?
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4/11/2013 12:49:41 PM |
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mrlickzher
Owensboro, KY
36, joined Mar. 2013
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Lmfao joe ur freakn retarded....that was funny....but sooooo damn tru......ur still a cross dresser though...
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4/11/2013 12:50:28 PM |
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007_shark
Ocala, FL
38, joined Sep. 2011
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I run. Such a turn-off. Everyone likes to hear compliments now and then, but to have to give them constantly, like previously stated, is exhausting. Low-self esteem in a relationship = clingy, jealous, emotional roller-coaster. No thanks.
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4/11/2013 12:51:38 PM |
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mrlickzher
Owensboro, KY
36, joined Mar. 2013
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I dont go for no women unless her nose is in the clouds.......but im friends with all women....
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4/11/2013 12:52:11 PM |
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jjay1970
Syracuse, NY
44, joined Oct. 2011
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Marie, you are very attractive (and young).
There are many resources available (books, DVDs, therapists, etc.) if you want to work on your esteem issues.
In what ways does your low self-esteem manifest itself?
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4/11/2013 12:53:06 PM |
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cococharms1976
Intercourse, PA
38, joined May. 2012
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No matter what you got to strut
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4/11/2013 12:53:30 PM |
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mrlickzher
Owensboro, KY
36, joined Mar. 2013
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@007im runnin all ready mr oo......
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4/11/2013 12:53:45 PM |
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islandqu33n
Lake Oswego, OR
28, joined Sep. 2011
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Is this your way of fishing? LoL! Just teasing you, OP
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4/11/2013 12:55:45 PM |
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avgjoe42
Lubbock, TX
34, joined Feb. 2013
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I think Yr good for a one night stand/ego boost but maybe I would be better off not being a jerk and keep my distance. Women and self-esteem issues .....you need to love yrself before you can love any man. That's the truth concentrate on Yr positive qualities
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4/11/2013 12:55:56 PM |
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mrlickzher
Owensboro, KY
36, joined Mar. 2013
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Thats rght coco preach....no matter who u are..u gotta be the best lookn person u kno......u gotta own u or nobody else's gonna buy it.......im still runnin oo7......lol
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4/11/2013 12:56:23 PM |
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jjay1970
Syracuse, NY
44, joined Oct. 2011
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4/11/2013 1:00:55 PM |
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mrlickzher
Owensboro, KY
36, joined Mar. 2013
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Im ur biological father joe....u just disappoint ur daddy wearing lipstick. ....oh yea..(do ur feet still hurt joe)......??? I toldher u prolly just took ur pumps off!!!!!!......now go back and think of somthing clever whilebi fix my lemonade o'le chap.......
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4/11/2013 1:01:55 PM |
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mrlickzher
Owensboro, KY
36, joined Mar. 2013
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Nope but ur momz mouth is still full......
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4/11/2013 1:05:13 PM |
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mrlickzher
Owensboro, KY
36, joined Mar. 2013
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Ur mom luvz wild life joe...makes her mouth water...
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4/11/2013 1:10:02 PM |
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mrlickzher
Owensboro, KY
36, joined Mar. 2013
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Later tater..my work is done hear..........lickzher skipz out the room...
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4/11/2013 1:11:43 PM |
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bitsybon
Jacksonville, FL
57, joined Jan. 2010
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Low self esteem and daddy issues.
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4/11/2013 1:13:47 PM |
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alls_fair
Thorlákshöfn
Iceland
95, joined May. 2011
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Low self esteem and daddy issues.
Put her in my harem. I will convince her that the REAL problem is M-E-G-O issues...
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4/11/2013 1:14:53 PM |
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bitsybon
Jacksonville, FL
57, joined Jan. 2010
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Chip
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4/11/2013 1:21:20 PM |
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celtics978
Lowell, MA
26, joined Mar. 2013
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u have to be open with a big heart
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4/11/2013 1:25:47 PM |
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ez2remembername
Austin, TX
55, joined Apr. 2013
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Nobody is as bad or as good as they think they are.
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4/11/2013 1:28:45 PM |
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rexmal
London, ON
61, joined Mar. 2013
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Get yourself checked out by a psychiatrist. Schizophrenia starts in late teens, early twenties, and low self-esteem is one of some of the early signs of the onset of the disease.
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4/11/2013 1:29:08 PM |
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pscott1272
Jacksonville, FL
42, joined Apr. 2013
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I don't know why you have a low self esteem you VERY pretty!
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4/11/2013 1:30:17 PM |
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fiery_beauty
Antioch, TN
56, joined Nov. 2010
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Get yourself checked out by a psychiatrist. Schizophrenia starts in late teens, early twenties, and low self-esteem is one of some of the early signs of the onset of the disease.
Wow...that's kind of a far-reaching diagnosis. I was going to suggest she might be confusing low self esteem with depression.
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4/11/2013 1:30:21 PM |
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pscott1272
Jacksonville, FL
42, joined Apr. 2013
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lmao
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4/11/2013 1:31:40 PM |
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petulant_muffin
Fredriksberg
Sweden
43, joined Mar. 2013
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I don't know why you have a low self esteem you VERY pretty!
Geez, where to even start with a comment like that?
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4/11/2013 1:31:46 PM |
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citizentee
New Orleans, LA
33, joined Jun. 2012
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I like to encourage them by complimenting them on their sandwich making skills, beer fetching skills and BJ skills.
I'm just a nice guy like that.
Your so not funny dudeeeeeee
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4/11/2013 1:32:26 PM |
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
51, joined Jan. 2013
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instead of relying on other's to most likely leave you feeling worse about yourself, get busy, do something you're good at and that brings you satisfaction and feeling good about yourself. Find something anything, if it's a deeper thing from childhood get help.
That's the thing about SELF confidence and SELF esteem it's NOT called "OTHERS" esteem, it comes from within, like so many other worthwhile "feelings" like happiness, etc. To get one seems you've got to collect the "set"!! Good luck kiddo!~~mama Ginny hugs~~
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4/11/2013 1:33:29 PM |
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jjay1970
Syracuse, NY
44, joined Oct. 2011
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Geez, where to even start with a comment like that?
I know right? Esteem has little do with looks and lots to do with conditioning.
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4/11/2013 1:33:39 PM |
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mustangwriter
Boerne, TX
54, joined Nov. 2009
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My booming voice and Elizabethan ways usually runs 'em off.
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4/11/2013 1:35:25 PM |
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citizentee
New Orleans, LA
33, joined Jun. 2012
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Wow...that's kind of a far-reaching diagnosis. I was going to suggest she might be confusing low self esteem with depression.
Lol wow yeah she must know someone with that issue....**whispers** may be her
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4/11/2013 1:38:56 PM |
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mustangwriter
Boerne, TX
54, joined Nov. 2009
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Crap....PB is acting weird again.
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4/11/2013 1:40:33 PM |
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jjay1970
Syracuse, NY
44, joined Oct. 2011
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That old guy's face was pretty big.
I've been deleting the URL tags and just using the old stuff between the IMG /IMG tags.
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4/11/2013 1:42:15 PM |
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
51, joined Jan. 2013
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another is volunteer work! it's more difficult to sit on the pity potty when you're helping other's less fortunate than yourself!!
Rexmal! don't go worrying the girl!! She's a little young for a schizophrenia disorder they normally don't pop up on the "norm" until 25 yo. Male onset is generally the one we see before the age of 25..... if there was any form of abuse experienced as a child get psychological help for that...or you'll be 40 asking what's wrong with everyone else and your life will absolutely suck!
Depression is just like any other medical disorder, your body isn't making something or processing a chemical correctly and might need some help, just like you take medication for high blood pressure, no more stigma to it than that!! "get help" does NOT have to be a "bad" thing!!
If you don't like your life change it!!! that's the marvelous thing about the human condition, is that we can affect how we live and experience life.
Good luck gal!
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4/11/2013 1:48:50 PM |
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petulant_muffin
Fredriksberg
Sweden
43, joined Mar. 2013
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another is volunteer work! it's more difficult to sit on the pity potty when you're helping other's less fortunate than yourself!!
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This is true, and is the reason I started doing it. Not exactly altruistic, but you're right--it really does help when we are feeling down. But once you do it regularly and grow to care about the people you're helping, your reasons change.
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4/11/2013 1:53:01 PM |
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
51, joined Jan. 2013
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yeah I help out with the Houston Food Bank and Children's health issues, and when I get my fat a** in there and help out those who don't have food to eat or not sure where a roof over their heads is going to be there tonite, you get "REAL" about your silly issues and real fast!! I've done that for as long as I can remember, it's more an obligation for me and it really seems (not so altruistic too) but I get way more than I give that's for sure! !Not in something tangible but in the best possible way ever!! I'm hardwired that way, it's why I love what I do for a living, cooking, etc, bringing folks joy rocks my world!!
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4/11/2013 1:56:59 PM |
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petulant_muffin
Fredriksberg
Sweden
43, joined Mar. 2013
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When I was living in Vegas and helping at the women and children's shelter there, one of the ladies was telling me her story. She mentioned that people always think to volunteer or to donate during the holidays, but the rest of the year people forget about them. That always stuck with me.
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4/11/2013 2:04:36 PM |
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stl1
Saint Louis, MO
61, joined Jun. 2007
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Your so not funny dudeeeeeee
So...I guess you can't give a good BJ?
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4/11/2013 2:05:15 PM |
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jjay1970
Syracuse, NY
44, joined Oct. 2011
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Who do you have to kill to get a pretty cop to fondle your package?
Ahhh, the old impersonate a cop, handcuff him and steal his wallet routine!
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4/11/2013 2:08:31 PM |
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sllagni_ekim
Clinton, MA
26, joined Apr. 2013
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i dont know what you mean by what do i think of them besides i think they should find ways too boost them if there esteem is that low seek therapy i have low self esteem i think im wierd looking but hell we all accept who we are right? everyone is beautiful in there own way including you i see nothing to feel low about i think your beautiful
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4/11/2013 2:11:39 PM |
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heatherruss
Wharton, NJ
38, joined Jan. 2013
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Its not an attractive qualities but it can be repaired......train your brain!!
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4/11/2013 2:16:25 PM |
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sofetch12
Willingboro, NJ
27, joined Nov. 2012
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Idk why you do OP. You're a cute girl, seem like you have things going for you, you live in a great American City (Boston is my fave to visit - Lots to do, and pletny of young kids your age).
Start thinking positive, do things that you like and that make you happy, work on it each day. It may seem as though you're faking it at first, but it confidence will naturally come to you. Just keep your head up and be happy that you have such a beautiful life to live.
Best of Luck
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4/11/2013 2:18:43 PM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
58, joined Apr. 2006
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Marie, Your 19, and always incontrol of yourself.Don't let anyone tell you different.People will pry for more info,just to take advantage.Smile life is good,You don't have to have a boyfriend.Join a group of something you injoy.It's amazing when your not looking, something suprising happens.I have found when you talk with anyone,male or female, always smile, never look down and always give eye contact.No one needs to know your working on you....amazing results
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4/11/2013 2:20:27 PM |
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esmeraldar
Toms River, NJ
66, joined Jan. 2009
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Since you are only 19 you have plenty of time to work on building your self esteem. Don't let dumb guys get to you.
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4/11/2013 2:23:30 PM |
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serendipity_002
York, PA
51, joined Mar. 2013
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I have such low self esteem that I know thats why im still single.
You are 19. Self esteem can be built upon via life experiences. You have a considerable amount of living before you will be relationship ready.
Good Luck
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4/11/2013 2:36:39 PM |
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jjay1970
Syracuse, NY
44, joined Oct. 2011
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Here's an off the wall thought - ever think of taking comedian lessons?
Dan Nainan
Age: 31
City: New York City
Occupation: Comedian
Pay: $328,000
A former Intel engineer, Nainan took a comedy class to overcome stage fright; catch his act at danielnainan.com.
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