What's a woman really saying

2/8/2011 7:07:45 PM	What's a woman really saying
mraffable Jamaica, NY 32, joined Dec. 2010	what's a woman really saying when you say something nice about her looks and she say "awww thats so sweet" what is she really saying? when you ask a woman can you be my girl etc and she says "i don't know" what is she really saying when you buy a woman expensive gift what is she really saying when she say "aww you shouldn't have" or " awww you really did this for me" or that was so sweet of you i ask this because i want to understand good women better because the majority i come across won't hurt your feelings even if you beg them. Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
2/8/2011 7:33:11 PM	What's a woman really saying
milo1234 Jacksonville, FL 51, joined Aug. 2008	I think they are all saying....You are in the "friend zone".
2/8/2011 7:39:34 PM	What's a woman really saying
gjlover Grand Junction, CO 53, joined Aug. 2010	She is saying that she likes getting to complain about all the other men she is sleeping with, that are not you. That don't have to buy her anything. If this is all coming from the same person.
2/8/2011 7:40:11 PM	What's a woman really saying
sazyy Victoria Australia 51, joined Mar. 2010	when i say that's sweet ,,it means it was a nice or cute thing to do or what ever i said was sweet .... no hidden meanings... when i tell i a guy he shouldn't have it really means thanks but you shouldn't have coz it wasn't necessary ...again no hidden meanings ....... its simple stop making things so complicated
2/8/2011 7:41:30 PM	What's a woman really saying
jammil Valdosta, GA 34, joined Apr. 2010	Unless she pays you a compliment back, you're friend zone material. She'll open up her legs for someone hotter than you tonight WHILE you're messaging her.
2/8/2011 7:42:57 PM	What's a woman really saying
sazyy Victoria Australia 51, joined Mar. 2010	Quote from jammil: Unless she pays you a compliment back, you're friend zone material. She'll open up her legs for someone hotter than you tonight WHILE you're messaging her. wot rot
2/8/2011 7:45:03 PM	What's a woman really saying
dorval Danville, IL 98, joined May. 2009	@ OP............so are you saying that you want a woman, after being such a sweet guy, to hurt your feelings and you beg her to do it.............I'm lost You do something nice for a woman, her words should indicate to you that you have made her very happy...........is it really that difficult.
2/8/2011 7:48:29 PM	What's a woman really saying
jammil Valdosta, GA 34, joined Apr. 2010	No, he's saying that women enjoy the things the "good" guys do while boning and therefore respecting the guys who don't do any of it. Past experience in droves here.
2/8/2011 7:58:48 PM	What's a woman really saying
demetrios2 Cincinnati, OH 60, joined Dec. 2010	aww you shouldn't have means that when she finds another man and you bring all of this up she will remind you what she told you "aww you shouldn't have"
2/8/2011 8:37:33 PM	What's a woman really saying
blue_eyze73 Smithers, BC 44, joined Feb. 2011	{what's a woman really saying when you say something nice about her looks and she say "awww thats so sweet" what is she really saying?} SHES SAYING - "Its nice of you to say BUT why cant you be the man who is more origional,I've heard that a hundred times before!" {when you ask a woman can you be my girl etc and she says "i don't know" what is she really saying} SHES SAYING - "well I dont really want to; but why dont you spend some money on me and I can see how I feel after a while" {when you buy a woman expensive gift what is she really saying when she say "aww you shouldn't have" or " awww you really did this for me" or that was so sweet of you} SHES SAYING - "awww you really did this for me, that was so sweet of you to realize I am a goddess who deserves to be treated as such" If she does say "you shouldnt have" she either doesnt like it, feels a little guilty because she doesnt care for you the way you care for her or she is a lying sack of fakeness. OR there is a .05% chance she really cares about you and doesnt think you should be spending that kind of money on a gift just for her. But dont count on it.
2/8/2011 8:54:59 PM	What's a woman really saying
mraffable Jamaica, NY 32, joined Dec. 2010	i have avoided the friends zone for seven years this has nothing to do with me i always hear women say these words and never know what they really saying
2/8/2011 9:40:36 PM	What's a woman really saying
lookin4ones Hurst, TX 57, joined Oct. 2010	Quote from mraffable: i have avoided the friends zone for seven years this has nothing to do with me i always hear women say these words and never know what they really saying No hidden messages. If you need clarification ask the person who said it.
2/8/2011 9:49:57 PM	What's a woman really saying
pwin_here_n_now Lemon Grove, CA 47, joined Oct. 2007	Mraffable: As a woman upon recieving a compliment my response would be very similar or a simple Thank you for the compliment. If recieving an expensive gift? A you shouldn't have... Really does mean you shouldn't have because it is too expensive or doesn't feel appropriate. Here's the catch - The responses from a woman if she has feelings for you will be different. They will be more original, expressive and may even be followed with a hug, kiss or both (some physical contact) confirming that your acknowledgement of her or the gift you just gave her, touched her heart. When you find the right Lady for you... You will no longer be confused as to her response and searching for the meaning behind her words. You will see it her eyes and feel it in your heart. Peace! P.Win
2/8/2011 9:50:59 PM	What's a woman really saying
gnu2knoxville Maynardville, TN 50, joined Nov. 2009	Treat her like a lawn chair...fold her up right and store her accordingly. Let her ask somebody else this shit.
2/8/2011 10:05:28 PM	What's a woman really saying
mischiefmanaged Bellevue, WA 47, joined Jul. 2010	if its the same chic she means youre nice and should really stop. do you know how to help her feel the way you want her to feel? or are you just guessing?
2/8/2011 10:19:42 PM	What's a woman really saying
badcatjack Wilmore, KS 45, joined Jan. 2011	When you grow up and KNOW when she's your girl you won't have to ask, "will you be my girl" And you also will never buy expensive gifts for her till you understand that part.
2/8/2011 10:20:28 PM	What's a woman really saying
walkaholic Kent, WA 50, joined Mar. 2010	Quote from pwin_here_n_now: Mraffable: As a woman upon recieving a compliment my response would be very similar or a simple Thank you for the compliment. If recieving an expensive gift? A you shouldn't have... Really does mean you shouldn't have because it is too expensive or doesn't feel appropriate. Here's the catch - The responses from a woman if she has feelings for you will be different. They will be more original, expressive and may even be followed with a hug, kiss or both (some physical contact) confirming that your acknowledgement of her or the gift you just gave her, touched her heart. When you find the right Lady for you... You will no longer be confused as to her response and searching for the meaning behind her words. You will see it her eyes and feel it in your heart. Peace! P.Win P. Win is right in my opinion....Of course we men want that big hug and kiss or some big acknowledgement.... I have learned a lot of things in my current situation that I am in. With this subject, no matter what it is, whether I tell her she looks great, by her a gift or whatever it is, I know how she reacts to things... I know her well enough now to know that I am not going to receive that over reaction like we want to recieve, but I can tell by the look on her face and the tone of her voice.... Just because she doesn't kiss me or hug me at that moment, things usually seem to happen later. We had a HUGE discussion Super Bowl day, and I simply sat and listened to what she needed and followed through with her needs. You tend to get a reaction on things like the emoitional needs rather than the physical needs or compliments. JMO
2/8/2011 11:23:44 PM	What's a woman really saying
nicegirl1969 Clifton, CO 48, joined Jan. 2011	Don't find hidden meanings in everything...when I say awe that's sweet, that's what u are...if I say I don't know, it means I'm not intto you and don't know how to tell you without hurting your feelings...
2/8/2011 11:24:26 PM	What's a woman really saying
pwin_here_n_now Lemon Grove, CA 47, joined Oct. 2007	Quote from walkaholic: P. Win is right in my opinion....Of course we men want that big hug and kiss or some big acknowledgement.... I have learned a lot of things in my current situation that I am in. With this subject, no matter what it is, whether I tell her she looks great, by her a gift or whatever it is, I know how she reacts to things... I know her well enough now to know that I am not going to receive that over reaction like we want to recieve, but I can tell by the look on her face and the tone of her voice.... Just because she doesn't kiss me or hug me at that moment, things usually seem to happen later. We had a HUGE discussion Super Bowl day, and I simply sat and listened to what she needed and followed through with her needs. You tend to get a reaction on things like the emoitional needs rather than the physical needs or compliments. JMO Good evening work! You nailed it on Men want to be acknowledged. Good on you for listening and following through with her needs.... However, I only partially agree with your final sentence. Yes we do react to all of the above. Hope things are well you and your gal! Peace P.Win
2/8/2011 11:27:02 PM	What's a woman really saying
pwin_here_n_now Lemon Grove, CA 47, joined Oct. 2007	Quote from badcatjack: When you grow up and KNOW when she's your girl you won't have to ask, "will you be my girl" And you also will never buy expensive gifts for her till you understand that part. Nicely said in a Man kind of a way - short and succint! Peace P.Win
2/8/2011 11:32:32 PM	What's a woman really saying
walkaholic Kent, WA 50, joined Mar. 2010	Quote from pwin_here_n_now: Nicely said in a Man kind of a way - short and succint! Peace P.Win P. Win, we had a great weekend together... Never stayed together but had a great 2 days together...Decided to just let things happne with no pressure. If we talk we do, and if not we aren't going to get uptight, just like today... What I meant on my last sentence, IMO I think men will get more of a reaction if we react to her emotional/physical needs rather than things such as gifts and compliments. I have recently learned that. But that is just this woman. As we've dicussed, each situation is different. That's what people need to grasp!!! P.Win
2/8/2011 11:59:31 PM	What's a woman really saying
pwin_here_n_now Lemon Grove, CA 47, joined Oct. 2007	Quote from walkaholic: P. Win, we had a great weekend together... Never stayed together but had a great 2 days together...Decided to just let things happne with no pressure. If we talk we do, and if not we aren't going to get uptight, just like today... What I meant on my last sentence, IMO I think men will get more of a reaction if we react to her emotional/physical needs rather than things such as gifts and compliments. I have recently learned that. But that is just this woman. As we've dicussed, each situation is different. That's what people need to grasp!!! P.Win Good to hear you all are moving forward with less expectation and had an enjoyable time together! I get what you are saying, now, in the last sentence.... but I am here to tell you we still want compliments (its called flirting) and well thought out gifts won't be rejected either... but you are right on the emotional/physical needs being first! You are learning and you Rock! Peace my friend! P.Win [Edited 2/9/2011 12:01:11 AM ]
2/9/2011 12:05:17 AM	What's a woman really saying
hbguy311 Huntington Beach, CA 36, joined Aug. 2010	She is saying you don't have enough $$$$$$$$$$$$$$ to afford me. Move on with your life.
2/9/2011 12:10:48 AM	What's a woman really saying
shaneladd Bakersfield, CA 64, joined Dec. 2009	Quote from sazyy: wot rot sazyy, what does that mean, please.
2/9/2011 12:17:43 AM	What's a woman really saying
walkaholic Kent, WA 50, joined Mar. 2010	Quote from pwin_here_n_now: Good to hear you all are moving forward with less expectation and had an enjoyable time together! I get what you are saying, now, in the last sentence.... but I am here to tell you we still want compliments (its called flirting) and well thought out gifts won't be rejected either... but you are right on the emotional/physical needs being first! You are learning and you Rock! Peace my friend! P.Win Thank you for that compliment Yes I am the king of compliments, touches ETC.... But now I am learning that emotional/physical are most ladies first needs!!!
2/9/2011 12:46:08 AM	What's a woman really saying
pwin_here_n_now Lemon Grove, CA 47, joined Oct. 2007	Rock on dear! Peace P.Win
2/9/2011 12:51:48 AM	What's a woman really saying
suec0239 Billings, MT 71, joined Feb. 2008	Why do you assume that the woman means something other than what she is saying? I think if any woman is uncomfortable with a guy she lets him know it, and if she wants to take it a step further she will let him know that too. But what is the matter with it just the way it is? Am I missing something here?
2/9/2011 12:52:00 AM	What's a woman really saying
4evertrue2011 Fairfield, OH 44, joined Jan. 2011	Quote from sazyy: when i say that's sweet ,,it means it was a nice or cute thing to do or what ever i said was sweet .... no hidden meanings... when i tell i a guy he shouldn't have it really means thanks but you shouldn't have coz it wasn't necessary ...again no hidden meanings ....... its simple stop making things so complicated i agree 100% me personally,i say it cuz i mean it. No hidden meanings!
2/9/2011 1:36:38 AM	What's a woman really saying
mraffable Jamaica, NY 32, joined Dec. 2010	[Edited 2/9/2011 1:37:07 AM ]
2/9/2011 1:37:57 AM	What's a woman really saying
mraffable Jamaica, NY 32, joined Dec. 2010	Quote from hbguy311: She is saying you don't have enough $$$$$$$$$$$$$$ to afford me. Move on with your life. just another ignorant fool
2/9/2011 3:04:05 AM	What's a woman really saying
thunder_lover71 Mount Pleasant, MI 46, joined Sep. 2008	Quote from dorval: @ OP............so are you saying that you want a woman, after being such a sweet guy, to hurt your feelings and you beg her to do it.............I'm lost You do something nice for a woman, her words should indicate to you that you have made her very happy...........is it really that difficult. This is coming from a woman that has a man and is on here looking for another
2/9/2011 12:21:41 PM	What's a woman really saying
walkaholic Kent, WA 50, joined Mar. 2010	Quote from suec0239: Why do you assume that the woman means something other than what she is saying? I think if any woman is uncomfortable with a guy she lets him know it, and if she wants to take it a step further she will let him know that too. But what is the matter with it just the way it is? Am I missing something here? I think this post says it best. We all express ourself differently. That sounds like a "DUH" statement, but just like the OP is doing, we get ummmmm impatient or discouraged if one doesn't express theirselves the way we want them to. As I told P. Win, it's a matter of learning the person you are with....We can't change them to react or express themselves the way we want them to, we just have to learn who they are as a person. Then if we don't like how they are, it's our choice to either stay or go. I tell my lady friend things all the time. Not in a smothering way, but often enough to let her know I am really into her, and sometimes I get a thank you, sometimes I get silence and sometimes I will get a compliment back. It used to discourage me when I would get silence, but I started to compare each time she was silent, and it was me saying the same thing each time. She struggles with me telling her how SEXY I think she is. Now it kind of turns me on that she's shy when it comes to that. Like suec0239 said, we just need to let them be. They will let you know one way or the other if they're really interested or not, either verbally or body language. Again, I now believe that actions speak louder than words.
2/9/2011 12:27:25 PM	What's a woman really saying
1maybe2 Baxley, GA 53, joined Nov. 2010	Don't know,,, But if I buy my woman an expensive gift ...she knows she got to get off of some....without saying anything....
2/9/2011 6:02:40 PM	What's a woman really saying
sleepinginny Ticonderoga, NY 66, joined Jan. 2011	For me if I told you "that was sweet of you," it would mean just that. I liked what ever it was you said or did. If you asked me to be your girl and I gave you that answer it could mean a couple of things. One could be I don't know you well enough to give you a direct answer so give me more time. The other could be I like you but not enough to go the next step. I guess one thing is to ask her. If you bought a gift and she is not sure where you are in the relationship she could say you shouldn't have as a way of trying to figure out just how you are feeling about her or she might not be used to getting gifts and doesn't know what to say. I don't think it means anything negative at least it would not if it was me. I hope this gives you another perspective to look at especially if she tends to be on the shy side. Good luck and God bless!
2/9/2011 10:01:46 PM	What's a woman really saying
driver406 Saint Paul, MN 65, joined Oct. 2009	That's so sweet. She's heard it a zillion times before, but she's glad that you notice and think she's hot. Want her to be your girl and she says "I don't know"? LOW INTEREST LEVEL, not sure if she wants a relationship with you. Best move on, she'll break your heart. Buy her the expensive present? She's touched truly and it shows how much money you're willing to spend on her. Also, when the ocassion is appropriate she'll expect you to spend that much again. Spoiled women are demanding women and unappreciative.
2/9/2011 11:59:07 PM	What's a woman really saying
classicsilk Paulden, AZ 56, joined Jul. 2009	"awww thats so sweet" what is she really saying? She is say ' what a weenie"
2/10/2011 12:03:26 AM	What's a woman really saying
pwin_here_n_now Lemon Grove, CA 47, joined Oct. 2007	Quote from driver406: That's so sweet. She's heard it a zillion times before, but she's glad that you notice and think she's hot. Want her to be your girl and she says "I don't know"? LOW INTEREST LEVEL, not sure if she wants a relationship with you. Best move on, she'll break your heart. Buy her the expensive present? She's touched truly and it shows how much money you're willing to spend on her. Also, when the ocassion is appropriate she'll expect you to spend that much again. Spoiled women are demanding women and unappreciative. The fact is driver: he never should have given the gift in the first place, cuz they weren't at that place yet! A woman won't expect it if it is not given... Don't put women in the "I WANT" group. There may be some that do... but that is not me or most women! Open your eyes and heart! Peace P.Win
2/10/2011 12:14:24 AM	What's a woman really saying
harfordley Clarksville, TN 54, joined Jan. 2011	OP, Great question, I too have these commo issues with my lady. I quit answering the "what looks better?" question. That one always ends up in an argument!
2/10/2011 8:06:58 AM	What's a woman really saying
mraffable Jamaica, NY 32, joined Dec. 2010	The Man's Translation Guide: What Are Women Really Saying? We can't go out because I've got a boyfriend: I prefer my male cat and a half gallon of Ben and Jerry's to you. It's not you, it's me: It's you. I don't date men where I work: Unless they have a lot of money or are attractive and you are neither. I'm concentrating on my career too much right now to go out with anyone: Even something as boring and un-fulfilling as my job is better than dating you. I'm just taking a relationship quiz I found in Redbook...: I hate you and I'm hoping this quiz will help me figure out why I haven't dumped you already. Let's just be friends: I want you to stay around so I can tell you in excruciating detail about all the other men I meet and have sex with. It's that male perspective thing. I'm not telling you what's wrong, you should know!: Look at him Squirm! Hahahah! I have a big surprise for you that I want to reveal on the Jerry Springer show.: I intend to publicly humiliate you by revealing that your penis was so small that it drove me to have lesbian three ways with your mother and your sister. I am VERY into women's rights! I am woman hear me roar!!: I'm not getting a boob job, a nose job, wearing make-up, doing my hair, and developing a personality just to get a man. I'll just have to make do. Do you think I need to lose 10 pounds?: I want you to prove that you love me by lying and saying that I don't need to lose 10 pounds when I actually do. That's despite the fact that I flipped out last week and yelled at you for a solid hour about how relationships are built on honesty. I think you're a little too old to go out with me: Having sex with you would be like having sex with my father. I don't want to take a chance on ruining our friendship by going out: You physically repulse and disgust me. I would rather become a nun than have sex with you. You deserve someone better than me: I had no idea you'd turn out to be such a hopeless dork. Going out with you was the most embarassing thing I've ever done. Tell me the truth, do you think she's prettier than me?: Despite the fact that I'm asking you to compare me to a super model you must lie and say I am more attractive than her or you hate me an
2/10/2011 10:44:47 AM	What's a woman really saying
atonable Stirlingshire, Scotland United Kingdom 46, joined Jan. 2011	women are completely illogical as I shall clearly set out to prove with the subtle intricacies of a skull analysis - carried out by my good self and my cat and misquoting solon As the Greek Filsofer Solon, the magnificent slippered one, said “ to know a women's mind is to either embrace the abyss( which is most likely constructed of shoes) or be hurled into it on a whim”. So there you have it folks holy writ stuff with shoes. I spake much trucisisty and dont yous not know it m'ladys. So in conclusion I haven't the foggiest

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