The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)

6/26/2007 2:09:13 PM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
paladinheart Woodside, NY 45, joined Jun. 2007	There are approximately 5 steps to making love to a woman. Personally these are my steps that i am sharing with you all and hopes that it helps. Let’s explore the 5 courses experienced when making love to a woman. The setting: When you are planning a romantic evening with your partner, the setting can be especially important for how the night will unfold. We are not just talking about the physical setting. Our Venusian readers tell us that the emotional setting is the most neglected area for women. Most women need to feel relaxed in order to be in the mood. If she is preoccupied with other obligations, or stress she may need to deal with these before feeling like making love. The simplest way to help her relax is by encouraging her to talk about the stress she is feeling. Ask her honestly about her life, her day, and the things that are on her mind. Show her you care about her by listening to her talk. Take your time. Keep in mind she may have a lot to talk about. Once she is able to release her stress she will be much more focused on you and your evening. If you truly pay attention to this area you will both be amazed at the heightened response you'll share. The actual setting is important too. If you have gone out to dinner or you’re having a simple dinner at home, the lighting, music, and overall ambience can help her to relax further. Light some candles and play some soft music. This will help her to focus her own desire to be touched, and touch in return. If you’re at home a hot bath can also help a woman to relax. Run the water, add some bubbles, and play some music. Give her the special treatment of time to get in the mood. All too often men forget that while their sexual desires are encouraging them to move faster, women need to warm up slowly. It is this slow process that connects a woman with her sexual needs. By gently stimulating her one step at a time, her desire to make love is awakened. Beginning to touch: Touching a woman can begin simply by touching her hair, her hand or other non-sexual parts of her body. Offering to wash her hair in the bath, or rub her shoulders is a soothing way to begin touching her body. By initiating touch in this gentle and loving way you are saying that the parts of her body that do not offer sexual stimulation to you are also important. When you are offering this non-sexual touch, you want to be sure to spend an equal amount of time doing this as you would with any of the other activities involved with making love. Keep in mind that on Venus, women offer equal attention to all activities. If you give a woman flowers you get the same number of points if you give her a dozen roses as you do when you give her one. If you spend 5 minutes rubbing her back and 15 minutes having sex, she may leave the experience feeling that the sex is what was important; not the whole evening. Begin kissing her slowly at first, keeping your desire to devour her in check. Women are particularly stimulated when their many erogenous zones are kissed, nibbled, and suckled. Before removing her clothes you can kiss her mouth without tongue, and then with tongue. Kiss her neck, ear lobes, shoulders, and upper chest. The long process of kissing her before removing clothes will continue increasing her arousal. A man should remember that to increase a woman’s pleasure he needs to delay direct stimulation. It will take longer, and sometimes it will seem as if nothing is working, but her eventual pleasure will be even greater. Removing her clothes: When you begin undressing a woman, it should be slow and enticing. Unless you are having steamy sex, when you make love to a woman remove her clothes one article at a time. Keep in mind that sometimes leaving something on can also be erotic. Begin by teasing her. Remove her blouse but not her bra. Continue kissing and caressing her through her bra, until she is ready for you to touch her breasts directly. Use slow, rhythmic back and forth movements to stimulate her breasts. You can circle the breast with your hands or your mouth. Slowly her nipples will become erect, indicating her arousal. After stimulating both breasts like this, you can remove her bra. Removing a woman’s bra can be quite tricky. If you are not sure how to do this it can be an awkward moment. The best way to learn how to do this is to practice when you partner is not at home. Practice fastening and unfastening the clasp so the next time you have the chance the movement is smooth and fluid. Remain at the upper half of her body until you have caressed her fully. As you sense her longing increase, begin to slowly move your hands toward the lower half of her body. Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
6/26/2007 2:09:45 PM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
paladinheart Woodside, NY 45, joined Jun. 2007	Pt.2 Increasing her desire: To increase the desire she is already feeling, as you begin moving south surprise her by teasing her a bit. Using your hands rub over her clothes while kissing her nipples. When you do this you are stimulating her on multiple levels and her arousal is growing. A man should begin to touch between her legs only when he thinks she is already wet. Sometimes it’s good to first touch around the lining of her panties and gradually move them aside to touch her directly. It can be very exciting for a woman if he doesn’t suddenly pull down her panties but instead explores with them on for a while. Instead of taking them off, he can begin touching the inside edge of her panties from front to back. Exploring her buttocks and then moving back to touch and feel for her wetness before exploring further. Eventually he can remove her panties and explore her inner thighs, circling her whole vulva and eventually touching her clitoris. Often the clitoris is the most important missed part of a woman’s body. Women write to MarsVenus.com asking for advice on how to encourage men to not only touch her clitoris but to touch it longer than they do. The truth is that upwards of 98% of the orgasms women experience come from direct stimulation to the clitoris. Failing to stimulate the clitoris is like trying to help a man have an orgasm without touching his penis! Most women reach orgasm after having their clitoris stimulated for 5-20 minutes. Depending on your intention, you may choose to bring your partner to climax before or after you make love. For some men, their ability to spend 20 minutes focused on a woman’s clitoris is greater after they have experienced orgasm. Our advice is to try it both ways and see what works best for you. Stimulating a woman’s clitoris can happen orally or using your hands; both are effective. Again, your partner may have a preferred way and you can explore her body trying different techniques. The key is to give her enough attention to bring her to climax. I have heard from many women whether on the streets or on the subways that men don't spend enough time on them. One trick to helping a woman achieve maximum pleasure is to bring her close to orgasm and resist the urge to push her over the edge. Women experience more intense orgasms when they are stimulated and brought to the edge of orgasm and allowed to relax. Once this happens one or two times, when she finally does have her orgasm it is much more powerful. Each time she gets close her longing and desire increase, and when she is finally able to release that energy, the built-up desire makes the orgasm even more powerful. Joining together: Once a woman has had an orgasm her body is the most ready for a man to enter her. A woman’s longing to join with her partner is her primary concern, so it doesn't matter to her if the sex lasts for 2 minutes or 10. If a man has not had sex in a while, his desire may overwhelm him and the process ends quickly. If this happens, a man can stimulate his partner until his erection returns and begin again. Because many women are able to achieve orgasms with little refractory period this can be a wonderful time to bring her to climax again while he is preparing to enter her for a second time.
6/27/2007 8:16:21 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
newlife4me2 Sioux Falls, SD 52, joined Jun. 2007	Damn, I'm speechless except to say I've never seen it written more concisely and every single word is trud.
6/27/2007 8:25:19 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
professer2 Saint Petersburg, FL 62, joined Jun. 2007	........is this one of my reports?
6/27/2007 8:26:03 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
professer2 Saint Petersburg, FL 62, joined Jun. 2007	Morning Newlife, hope you having a nice mornin
6/27/2007 8:28:35 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
newlife4me2 Sioux Falls, SD 52, joined Jun. 2007	Thank you, and YES I AM. I plan on living my life with every morning being a good one. Oh, I know I'm gonna get kicked in the face here and there but that doesn't mean I have to wallow in the mud.
6/27/2007 8:30:35 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
professer2 Saint Petersburg, FL 62, joined Jun. 2007	Good to hear it ,New, thats a good nickname
6/27/2007 8:33:14 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
newlife4me2 Sioux Falls, SD 52, joined Jun. 2007	Well, it certainly applies completely to what is going on right now for me. I've got two choices, roll over and play dead and let my life be over, or stand up and grab a new life with both hands and hit the ground running. I bet you wouldn't have a difficult time guessing which one I picked.
6/27/2007 8:38:58 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
catyia5 Bronx, NY 48, joined Jun. 2007	The proper way to make love to a woman, Professor sexology 101, read it. The proper way to make love to Catyia, CAT 101, isn't published. I prefer a man that will adventure with me in writing our own cheat sheets, proper and improperly!!!!!!!! Catyia
6/27/2007 8:41:24 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
professer2 Saint Petersburg, FL 62, joined Jun. 2007	.....what about making an addendum to CAT 101 heheheee [Edited 6/27/2007 8:41:50 AM ]
6/27/2007 9:08:35 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
paladinheart Woodside, NY 45, joined Jun. 2007	To me this is a way you both respect and cherish a woman when making love to and letting her know that she isn't a mere trophy or object to be used and discarded. This is the way you show her that you care about her too that you think about her feelings and needs. You want her to know that it's equal terms that you enter into this venture together.
6/27/2007 9:45:50 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
certainty225 Franklin, TN 46, joined Apr. 2007	Just my humble opinion, but if you dwell on the perfect experience too much, you will most likely fall short. I'm going to speak in guy terms for a second, but here's my general idea.......you've got to have a "court presence" like Michael Jordan. Go with the flow and always react to a woman's body. You've got to see what's happening around you and possibly change your flow every now and then. One thing's for damn sure......if you pay attention, she'll tell you what you're doing right and what she could do without. You've just got to LISTEN...............
6/27/2007 9:50:02 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
catyia5 Bronx, NY 48, joined Jun. 2007	Paladinheart, I understand your point of view. However, the title and signature (Professor sexology 101) implies that there is a standard applicable to all women. Is there an improper way to make love?? I can agree with physical stimulation overall, but each person is unique in responsiveness. The proper way to make love to a woman can only be determined by that woman. My opinion is that I would prefer a man to make love to ME. Not because of what he read, his buddies tell him, his past experiences, or some research. Focus on the woman, the woman you are with, and not the "woman" mentioned in the rule book. I can only imagine someone that follows those guidelines literally only to have a woman say that she wasn't satisfied. What then?? Catyia
6/27/2007 10:00:37 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
certainty225 Franklin, TN 46, joined Apr. 2007	What then? Then he feels incapable, insecure and will probably never approach a woman again.....just kidding, but, really, you never want to have to wonder whether or not you satisfied a woman. As I said, LISTEN to the body!!!
6/27/2007 10:02:07 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
certainty225 Franklin, TN 46, joined Apr. 2007	p.s. You really think a lot of yourself........I bet that's a real turn-on for women...NOT!
6/27/2007 10:20:52 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
paladinheart Woodside, NY 45, joined Jun. 2007	Yes, i believe there is a wrong way although many women and men would feel otherwise. Personally, i am one of sensual,erotic, and tenderness whenmaking love to a woman. I understand that many women and men might like the roughness , the aggressiveness, the kinkiness of grabbing hair and pulls it while spatting on woman's faces. Calling them sluts and wh*res in the middle of sex.. Understandable sex play of talking dirty. To me personally that's the same as degrading and demeaning a woman with aggressive and violent tendacies that is also like a simulated rape. I only posted as the topic the proper way cause this is how i feel a woman should be made love to. Whether you agree with me or not that is your choice of fore-thought or opinion. One who think more about himself then other is a selfish tendacy which part of the human trait but, can be controlled. So, sorry i don't think more or myself. I tend to think of the woman needs and wants and how she might or wish to touch, held,caress and even cuddled. My post is based on the research i have done over the past 3 years of either having a relationship or even talking to friends who which their men could be understanding like me. I don't know catyia from adams but, i'd bring her chocolates, a bottle of vodka and roses.
6/27/2007 10:23:52 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
paladinheart Woodside, NY 45, joined Jun. 2007	Catyia, how about a dozen red roses and either salsa or merengue music, a nice candlelight dinner, a Movie, maybe if there's enough time i'd take you to the Copacabana. Afterward,A Kiss on the hand as i lead you back to your place and wish you have a peaceful night. I would slip you a note stating:"For words, like Nature, half reveal And half conceal the Soul within." Then, i slowly walk away to see what would happen. [Edited 6/27/2007 10:29:27 AM ]
6/27/2007 10:28:09 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
saytrs Chicago, IL 62, joined Feb. 2007	Oral .....Oral.....Oral. Love it and lots of it. Good kissing is also essential. Make her reach climax before you do. Thats the way to make love to a woman. [Edited 6/27/2007 10:30:28 AM ]
6/27/2007 10:34:10 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
catyia5 Bronx, NY 48, joined Jun. 2007	Paladinheart, That was very sweet, I liked the salsa and merengue part. We all have our different opinions. There is no right or wrong. We can express our own thoughts, listen to others, intelligently debate, and respect each other above all. Catyia
6/27/2007 10:49:46 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
queenofhearts61 Seymour, IN 71, joined Mar. 2007	I agree Cat that the opening sound like directions for assembling a bike. I am and like spontaneity and that would not necessarily be the same each time. I don't come with directions and in many ways I am not like other women.
6/27/2007 10:57:18 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
catyia5 Bronx, NY 48, joined Jun. 2007	Queen, Fedex yourself to The Bronx. I adore ya!!!!! P.S.---you can borrow my hoop earrings Catyia
6/27/2007 10:58:14 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
paladinheart Woodside, NY 45, joined Jun. 2007	I know you must here this alot Catyia especially from men givving cat calls. I am not saying to score points, get in good with you. I am merely stating a fact and Catyia: Eres realmente hermosa
6/27/2007 11:08:44 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
catyia5 Bronx, NY 48, joined Jun. 2007	Palad, Eres desmasiado generoso. Soy una persona humilde y simple, no me llenes de gasolina....LOL Aprecio muchisimo platicar contigo en una forma respectable. Gracias por el apoyo. Catyia Hope no one wants to deport me for this
6/27/2007 11:21:46 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
paladinheart Woodside, NY 45, joined Jun. 2007	Here's the funny thing no Offense catyia i wish i could understand all those words ye speaketh to thou. But, alas my fair and enchanting lady i am of Asian-hungarian and native american indian heritage and i only speaketh few and abroad words of many such and there on language but, no quite fluent in them. But, too leave you with this one and this tells the tale of who i am (Por el amor de una rosa, el jardinero es servidor de mil espinas)
6/27/2007 11:26:40 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
paladinheart Woodside, NY 45, joined Jun. 2007	I am of a spontaneous nature all i was trying to get across was to let ladies know that there are still some men who knows how to be gentle and romantic. There are guys who like to make love in a romantic and passionate way. Yes, spontaneous plays a big part of it too. And, if you read my profile you find out that i am more about the woman then myself. Respect,understanding,companionship,love and much more is what i am about. Peace... P.S No offense to the guy who said I think to much about myself... Maybe you should re-read and closely observe that the focus was on how to pleasure a woman more. Thus, it should translate into i think more of the woman's need then my own.
6/27/2007 11:28:14 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
paladinheart Woodside, NY 45, joined Jun. 2007	This is woodside,Queens signing out time to hit the gym bye y'all catch me later when i talk about erotic stories maybe i'll suprise you all with a unisex story...hmmmm...lol. [Edited 6/27/2007 11:29:16 AM ]
6/27/2007 12:47:23 PM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
krupa Abilene, TX 48, joined Feb. 2007	Sometimes just a hard core cro-mag style humping has it's place too. Let's face it! Not every time you make love are angelic cherubs showering your bodies with rose petals and playing harps......They only do that for Republicans. Love is nice .....matted sweaty hair is nice too.
6/27/2007 12:49:29 PM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
metu Auburndale, FL 55, joined Apr. 2007	I'm swooning, K!
6/27/2007 12:50:52 PM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
krupa Abilene, TX 48, joined Feb. 2007	Swoon Baby Swoon! Just the hopeless romantic in me! Hehehehehehe
6/28/2007 7:00:25 PM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
bevyea Sanger, TX 64, joined Jun. 2007	Hot....breathing deeply...(&^%#@^ *^&& $^% $%^%...wooossh....
6/28/2007 7:24:41 PM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
paladinheart Woodside, NY 45, joined Jun. 2007	krupa, sometimes the handcuffs,whipcream and cherries are better to.. There's an old saying:" When a pastry chef makes a mess he got to clean it up. But, when no rag is available.. Hell, with it. Besides it's whipcream and cherries... hmmm... could always use my tongue.....heheheheh
6/28/2007 9:43:06 PM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
krupa Abilene, TX 48, joined Feb. 2007	You are preaching to the choir Brother Paladin!!!!!!! Preach on!!!!!!!!!
6/29/2007 12:45:58 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
jewel1959 Antioch, CA 57, joined Jun. 2007	certainty has it right.. listen to our bodies and youll never go wrong.. If more men did more women would be satisfied.
6/30/2007 2:57:55 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
bram40m Brampton, ON 51, joined Feb. 2007	If Im making love to a woman why would I care whats going on in me I,m there to make her. And I hope she is the same for me. then just let it all come together and you become one, Don't need on lessions on that one. By the way has anyone heard from dckie. If you do can you tell her get her a* over here?????
6/30/2007 9:16:24 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
krupa Abilene, TX 48, joined Feb. 2007	As long as the woman is shaking from her earth shattering orgasm and trying to catch her breath while fumbling for a cigarette....I know that my job has been done properly!
6/30/2007 9:37:55 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
matthuntingdon Huntingdon, TN 29, joined Jun. 2007	Krupa, Give me some insite on how to be the perfect lover, If you can certainly make a woman have a "earthquake orgasm" Whats your secret? P.s. Your my hero lol
6/30/2007 9:39:05 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
metu Auburndale, FL 55, joined Apr. 2007	Haha! He's mine, too!
6/30/2007 9:42:53 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
matthuntingdon Huntingdon, TN 29, joined Jun. 2007	Right on Metu, We learn alot from krupas insite and wisdom
6/30/2007 9:46:36 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
metu Auburndale, FL 55, joined Apr. 2007	Yea, we'll call it "Wisdom"! LOL
6/30/2007 9:48:06 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
matthuntingdon Huntingdon, TN 29, joined Jun. 2007	or "sexual conquest"? lol
6/30/2007 9:52:47 AM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
matthuntingdon Huntingdon, TN 29, joined Jun. 2007	P.S. Krupa i see your from Abliene, I had a sexual conquest in the back seat of my car with my ex in the Dairy queen parking lot at the edge of town long story short, It was too cramped to enjoy ourselfs fully, "I wont do that again"
6/30/2007 1:02:08 PM	The Proper way to make love to a woman (Professor sexology 101)
krupa Abilene, TX 48, joined Feb. 2007	Sad news Dude! Last year they closed that Dairy Queen! Now it is a shop for rustic redneck art works. Want to know a secret? It is all about the confidence brother. If you take your time...without going too slow....and make sure you concentrate on getting the girl to squirm you got it made! Oral,oral,oral. Don't neglect the breasts but don't think that they aren't sensitive either. You know damn well what a light flick across the nuts will do.....Ouch!!!!!! No reason to think they aren't less sensitive. All ways look her in the eye when you/she orgasms. It should be just as much fun as it is work homey!

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