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The Deciding Factor..... by gamerman17 at 2/25/2013 4:55:15 PM , good evening ladies and gentlemen. Hope you had a good day today. Today's topic focuses on what certain people look for within a relationships. Having a discussion turning in to somewhat of a debate regarding whether the building of substance within a relationship, something meaningful, is more important that sexual intercourse within one. Some people tend to believe that sexual intercourse is the single driving factor within a relationship because, according to them, it's an intimate connection. While yes, I believe sexual intercourse is important at some point unless it's a platonic relationship, actual substance or meaning within a relationship should be built up first to make the ultimate culmination of affection which is sexual thatm uch more meaningful. From our debate, it seems that to them buildup is irrelevant and that great sex covers all of that. They have a right to their opinion even if I don't necessarily agree with and to me, strictly my opinion, it comes of more as them being horndogs that trying to establish something meaningful. What is your stand on this matter?......gamer Blog brought to you by the great Terry Bogard

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beachlover83	2/25/2013 5:09:24 PM Well, you generally spend most days or your time more out of bed than in bed when in a relationship. So, in my view? You need to be able to communicate on a whole bunch of topics. Sexual intimacy and good communication are likewise very important to define the relationship, but if the attraction is mostly physical, I don't think the relationship has much hope for lastingbover time. Just my opinion...
gamerman17	2/25/2013 5:14:09 PM @ beach , precisely my point. something of substance needs to be built and that happens as you pointed out through talking and building up your connection that you two have with each other. Not saying that sexual intercourse isn't important depending on the type of relationship that you have, but again as you pointed out. if the relationship is mostly physical with nothing to build upon it will crumble. And i concur with your opinion. It seems I'm somewhat trapped in a sex driven society.....gamer
pegasusnflight	2/25/2013 7:34:50 PM ove is a tricky emotion. There are some things that feel like love but they are much too superficial to be the real thing. Real love takes time and doesn't happen over night. Here are three things that people often confuse for love. Lust Lust is the feeling that is often mistaken for love at first sight. Lust is an intense and sudden attraction to somebody you hardly know. It is mistaken for love because the attraction is so strong. Lust can feel like love because the feelings of attraction are strong and all-consuming. The emotions stirred up by lust can feel very real but they are based on a fantasy. To love somebody you must know them well but many people fall in lust while they are still strangers. What people in lust fall for is a fantasy of what might be and reality can get lost in the excitement. Overwhelmed by physical attraction people in lust can't keep their hands off of each other. They think about each other constantly and talk about one another all the time. Lust is a happy feeling brought on by passionate attraction. If you are inexperienced in matters of the heart it is very easy to mistake all that passion for love.