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love, part 2 by pretty89 at 4/23/2009 12:38:00 PM If any of you read my blog titled "love" this is a continuation of it. Put all that to the side. He took advantage of me, used me, walked all over me like I didn't exist. Long story short he got with someone else the day he left me. If he truly loved me he would think twice about moving on so soon. It's even worse that he thinks a few months for me is not enough when waiting to find someone else. Well excuse me Mr. Criticism look who's talking. He's the one who decided to wait less then a day. I've never yet gone less than a few months between guys so he has no room to tell me what he thinks is wrong. He blames our breakup on my attitude. Everyone fights, disagrees, and has moments where things don't seem right. My ex saying he doesn't want to be with me because of a mental problem is almost the same as if I said I didn't want to be with him if he was in a wheel chair or some other physical challenge. It's just my opinion but it can still hurt some people just as much to be rejected over mental health as it is to be rejected over physical health. So, if the day comes that I move on with someone else and he comes running back to me, he needs to realize that he was the one who ended our relationship, not me. If he thinks things can just fall back into place, all I can tell him is "Sorry but I thought you made your choice. Now I'm the one who's moving on."