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Naked pics advice! by openminded22 at 6/12/2009 7:46:10 PM So how many of you have ever had relationships or sexual relationships with co workers. Well I work ina mans world. I am a dispatcher so I see and interact with numerous males everyday. Well yes, I have had few secual relationships with some of my employees. I recently sent some naked pics of myself to a coworker. He laughed and we both joke about it everyday. Nothing more wanted from him and vice versa was just done in fun! Well his ex girlfriend got online and saw my pics and went bizerk calling my phone and blowing up my txt messages. So I didn't lie I told her up front that I sent them and I wasn't going to fight, the guy and I were both aware of what was going on. And that we would never sleep together it was just for fun and show. So now the girl is threating to post my pics all over ....now what do you do? I know could this story get any longer or interesting? What would you do and I would appreciate any advice given, only rule no name calling or etc....

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blondy42	6/12/2009 7:52:19 PM Did you really think those pictures wouldnt get around?????
berryrj2	6/13/2009 7:13:40 AM I think you’re a very beautiful lady, the picture idea may not have been the smartest, but all you can really do is admit to him and yourself that those shouldn’t have been taken, knowing that neither of you were dating or anything. Did you know he had a gf/wife?
openminded22	6/13/2009 3:16:52 PM It was his x girl friend, and I knew they were over...and yes, not the smartest thing, but hey what the hell? Mike the guy isn't the one threatning to spread them, he is not like that, and this i know first hand!
jacksgal	6/14/2009 7:36:57 AM Tell her if she posts them she will be sued
openminded22	6/14/2009 5:29:32 PM Thanks jacksgal that was the kind of advice I was looking for!
berryrj2	6/15/2009 7:12:37 AM i agree with jacksgal but.. the judge will as why did you take the pictures in the first place.. thats the only thing that sucks anymore is to many people are taking nude pics and sending them via cellphones.
nighthowl50	6/17/2009 8:29:00 PM if it scares her off that is good but if it doesn't....by the time you sue the damage will have been done.
proseparty	6/21/2009 2:30:37 PM Now a day it is not a big thing to see those kind of pictures on the internet. You probably can't sue, unless she attachs your name, etc. with it. There are a lot of people who don't post pictures because of people using them, etc. How good are your pictures? (just adulting!)
openminded22	6/21/2009 3:54:11 PM Well good news its all been settled, Mike the guy delted them all from his email before she could get them and post them, and whatever now his physco ex is out of picture. He's happy and were still friends! Thanks everyone for your help and suggestions
bigbubbac	6/25/2009 4:41:20 PM wow learn something new every day
mbcarter	8/11/2009 4:52:10 AM hi..you sound great..if you did take the pics thats your business...but i don't think theres anything wrong...but it does depend on the picture..and if they were done in good taste,,i would have to see them before judgeing..lol