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What are you looking for ?????? Men and Women by litlebitoheaven at 8/17/2009 8:50:47 PM I am looking for answer's, I have met 2 men from this site, The both pursued me very aggressively, It was so over the top , They both appeared to be wonderful guy's so I thought, the 1st 1 was kind and loving and extremely romantic, We were in seperatable, From the 1st date he said I was everything he ever wanted and continued to romance me like nobody ever has, Yes I was scared but he promised me that he could never hurt me as he loved me that much, Well guess what on July 3rd he dropped me off and I never heard from him again ????? Could it be Bi Polor ??? Man # 2 the same thing only this 1 wanted to marry me lol alway's I love you I will do anything for you, I could never hurt you, Davina you are so wonderful and sweet, your everything I have been looking for , my prayer's have been answered, blah blah blah, I said numerous time's you don't know me enough to love me but he insisted he did.. I would say give it a month as that is what you all say and he said I will love you until the end of time , I am going no where, After time of dating him yes he did get to know me enough to love me, So then I thought well maybe he really does, He intruduced me to his family and friend's and told everyone he was going to marry me omg,I never did agree to marry him, we didn't know each other long enough to talk marriage I felt,But I cared about him, Then out of the blue he becomes distant and unsure but still say's nothing is wrong but something changed and I could feel it, is it me , Okay here is how I feel I know I am going to get a lot of crap about this blog and I am ready for it, However if I would get 1 comment that make's sense it would be worth it.. I am every thing I say I am, I would never hurt anyone nor do I find people disposable, So yes I am searching for answer's and no I am not whining I am trying to make sense of why some people find it so easy to be deceiving and to lie and hurt people.. What do you gain from that ? Confused ....... Here it goes Mark ..:

Comments
stevbb online now!	8/18/2009 2:08:36 AM u have to believe it will change and i'll do my best to make it happen
wiggywiggy	8/18/2009 7:18:28 AM When your life seems to good to be true it usually is. U have to see who is real and not real sort thru all the BS and find their true feelings. We are on here to find our soul mates Right! Or are U giving guys signals to make them think they are in love with you. What is wrong? Why cant two people love each other unconditionally, Love grows you must take care of it or it will die this goes for men and women.. You dont just meet someone and say your in love with them whats wrong with people!
litlebitoheaven	8/18/2009 11:25:02 AM I am not giving anyone the wrong impression read my profile I say ( it never work's when you start fast as it fizzle's out as fast as it started,) I am a real person with real emotion's and I don't understand WTH is wrong with people , maybe you missed my question or I didn't expleain it proper.
cheffytom	8/18/2009 3:22:17 PM Perhaps, you are being played so intently because you are prettier than about 90% of all the women here...so they probably feel if they go over the top, they can score with you and then once they realize its more than words that bring two hearts to union...actions cease! I'm sorry- but Davina, you have to turn your BS detector UP on HIGH- oh and be wary of men who are in love first two dates with you!!!
cheffytom	8/18/2009 3:25:51 PM and the other side of the coin....it just wasn't a match! but mostly its people who see a pretty woman, and think damnit- that would be nice to have- but do they want to keep it? not always! they will tell you false intentions to get that nookie darlin- you know that..mostly its stupid people who are not putting complete closure on the last mess, and they want to just jump from the pan to the fire with you...you are that hot~ lol
cr_1824	8/18/2009 5:27:20 PM I know what you are talking about Davina........ I've had guys do the same thing - had a great time , can't wait to see you again, bla bla bla... and never show thier face agin. WTF we are grown ups here. if you don't want to see me again just say so.
lonelyfor3	8/18/2009 6:09:15 PM I too know what you are talking about, I also met someone on this site, started dating, and I thought we were getting serious (at least I was). Was hard to for us to see each other because of work, kids,etc. One day I was working late and he could not reach me on the phone he decided he was no longer interested. Why? Like cr 1824 stated above if he met someone else or just got tired of me why didnt he just say so. So if you do find the answer could you please let me know.
brunner28	8/18/2009 8:04:09 PM perhaps they lacked confidence in themselves, therefore went over the top in falling in love, for they got attention from you and no longer were able to keep up with themself or you. They had self doubt more than likly and ran when it got to serious. Some call it puppy love or rebound Not sure other wise
ladiejane	8/18/2009 9:23:22 PM Sounds almost too familiar. I wonder......
colleenie49	8/19/2009 6:14:24 AM Some men just do not know what they want in life even if it is a pretty lady and some one that they say they are in love with they may say and show it but in the end they really do not know. it sounds to me that they are the ones that use women just to turn around and hurt them .that is why they react the way they do. It is ashame you went through all that you just have to move on and think positive the right one will come your way when you least expect it. and yes some men do lack self confidence in them selfs if that is then he has the problems not you just remember that.
justamystery	8/19/2009 6:24:29 PM OMG this exact thing happenedto me last month, GRRR
justamystery	8/19/2009 6:24:42 PM OMG this exact thing happened to me last month, GRRR
litlebitoheaven	8/19/2009 11:35:06 PM Wonder what his name was ? Curious but when all is said and done I will have my say , I want to Thank everyone that has responded this far, I appreciate all that everyone has wrote, Wishing everyone the best on here and watch for those damn PLAYER'S If you want to be a player play it right and here is what I say to you.. ( Never take anyone for granted, Hold every person close to your Heart because you may wake up 1 day and realize you lost a Diamond while you were so busy collecting Stone's ) ; ) Like someone said to me Rose's bloom around Thorn's.............
thebrian	8/21/2009 8:01:36 AM hi davina. i know we havent talked in awhile but believe me u are such a special lady. these guys are fools and one day they may realize that or not. it really doesnt matter cause u will find love again....brian
honst101	8/22/2009 12:42:17 PM well miss davina i got called out of town im really frigging proud of you your right and god help these people its no dam game here im deleting the marrieds still i mean really girl i like your style you helped me to straighten up and remember i have morals and i have to stand by those or i suffer as i know you have to i wonder if your really the only single woman here you always have a great peresonality and i enjoy your conversation your friend always and hopefully more mark h
grousedoggin	8/23/2009 10:38:42 AM We have talked before about guarding your heart. What exactly were thet looking for; a replacement or just piece of a**. It's hard for anyone to judge anyone just from profile. Goal, for me at least, is to get to know somebody 1st and foremost. Hopefully you'll find someboady true. Be true to yourself. Love yourself for who you are. Realize you don't need anyone to 'complete' you. Expect the same from others, esp honesty.