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Where am I losing you?
by blue1025 at 9/27/2009 6:47:28 AM


Seem to get quite a few responses on my page--eventually they get my email or phone #. Problem is after a few messages or calls... vanished.

Still new to this online dating thing & not sure how to get to the next step.

Example: was supposed to meet up with this new guy yesterday we've been talking online/text never talked on the phone about 6 mos-finally schedules worked (or so it seemed) to meet up, wasn't biz for the nite, though everything a go. I live almost 2 hrs away he suggested come his way , I suggested meeting somewhere closer for me, then NOTHING. WTH??? Another guy texts, calls , 2 call back then never does. Any suggestions on what I'm doing wrong?


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jmoneymartinez



9/28/2009 9:22:51 PM

You are not doing anything wrong, they just want you to do most of the work. They may not be serious about the relationship.

sanchitod
9/29/2009 12:46:51 AM

your not doing anything wrong half those guys probably have girlfriends or wives
laketha



9/29/2009 4:50:22 PM

well girl I'm a female so you know I got ur back on this. I fill if a guy is interesting in you no matter where are if he want to see you and it can't happen he will meet to your destination but if not then don't worry about it keep your option and open and keep it movin and don't pay it no mine don't mention anything to him about it show no concerns see that's what a man wants us to do run down sweat them hell no don't do it if he wants more you'll kno cause he will show u and with that other guy talk to him it's nothing wrong with talking talk to all of them and see who's the best for you your a beautiful woman so whatever you deserve to be treated like a queen as well and if you can't get that f**k him I'm keeping it real with you.
quicksylver



9/29/2009 7:25:01 PM

Some guys are very serious... Will be in country in about a month, wanna have dinner... I will pick you up, but you have to pick the restaurant..*S*