Who Actually Wants To Have A Sexual Encounter?

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jennyann71	10/5/2009 7:30:51 AM If I found the one that I have been waiting for all my life then my answer is YES.
catsmam76	10/5/2009 7:36:31 AM Very dangerous territory for a man here,but heck you only live once and I don't think like I did when I was a younger man.My answer would needs reflect Miss Jenny's.........Like I said I don't think the way I did when I was younger.
windy_linda	10/5/2009 7:39:29 AM Sex ??? WHAT IS SEX ???
rosesandsmiles	10/5/2009 7:51:39 AM windy, we both could probably relate to jenny & cats, if we encountered that special one. You know where our our hearts and souls intertwines.
windy_linda	10/5/2009 7:57:50 AM I'm sure we could, but I'm starting to think true love is a Fairy Tale.
pretty_moonpa	10/5/2009 8:08:39 AM Thats me raising my hand.....Just because I havent had IT..and seem to have lost IT somewhere ...you will know when I find IT as you wont see me......and my friends will say.......wipe that smile off your face
pretty_moonpa	10/5/2009 8:18:27 AM I dont judge anyones sexual habits or appetites if they are consenting adults......I'm just NOT into casual sex...there just has to be something special.....like THE KISS
anne654	10/5/2009 8:42:20 AM I'm with moon, it has to mean something to me or I don't do IT! I am long past the days of sowing my wild oats, and I prefer to wait for the right one. If I do not find the right one, that is okay too, I will not have compromised my values. JMHO
grits03	10/5/2009 8:53:09 AM That's not my goal, but not out of the question... Not a prude, just particular!!!!!
catsmam76	10/5/2009 8:57:59 AM Give louie points for honesty,the younger version of me would have agreed but I too am wanting something more that casual at this point in my life....
456johnny	10/5/2009 9:30:39 AM even though im not out looking for sex and im not a runaround pig, I agree with Louie. i think if you know someone and are comfortable with them then casual sex is ok. I for one will not turn down casual sex under those circumstances. common the one you turn down you can never makeup again the rest of your life.
mountain_gal	10/5/2009 9:31:04 AM Yes I would be darn particular also. Don't want anyone that has sex with half the world. Kinda stupid with all the crap you can get from others. Gee Louie wonder if that is what your aunt was referring too. lol
alrose	10/5/2009 10:17:03 AM Sorry, the sun would have to set! I do not believe in casual sex. It would have to be someone I cared for and I'd hope he felt the same way. That very strict upbringing and the threats of mother superior still ring real loud in my mind!
rosesandsmiles	10/5/2009 10:55:03 AM Great aspects and values from everyone, I'm with all the ladies though no casual sex, to dangerous. I hear you anne my days of sowing of wild oats have been over. However respect all the men's sexual appetites.
waltaz	10/5/2009 1:37:43 PM We all know what good sex is but we've lost our partners for whatever reason. Now we are lonesome but we are afraid to commit to another person because what happens if the sex is not good. Well it's about communication and learning every thing about each other. Like a musical instrument its practice practice practice. We are old people and things might not work the way they used to. Moon's kisses are just the beginning. "IT" is worth the effort. You will know the right person.
456johnny	10/5/2009 1:52:58 PM Remember, along with sex comes hugs, kisses, embrasses etc. and we all need that.
sisterofmany	10/5/2009 2:14:37 PM But you can have the hugs and kisses without the sex. The sex comes after you get to know the person, the hugs and kisses comes while getting to know the person.
the_brock	10/5/2009 2:39:25 PM Oh boy am I gonna stick my foot in it on this one. 1st let me say it is a double edged sword. Sure we all would like to be with someone, but on what grounds? 1 night stand, friends with benefits, LTR, just "doing it" so ya dont go crazy? Darn sure may beat masterbation, lol. Id say as long as you and them have some kind of social "agreement" beforehand, hell, lay back and enjoy it! You only go through life once!
pretty_moonpa	10/5/2009 2:55:19 PM GO brock GO.....Spoken like a true manNow you would have to prove to me your staying away from Truckstop Annie......or is it Mary??? Or ......oh well you know where I'm going here
miss6042	10/5/2009 3:35:33 PM I would LOVE to have a sexual encounter!!! But I dont have the right man with me.. So guess I will wait..I have to say the men wont get called names with their casual sex..
mountain_gal	10/5/2009 3:36:46 PM well guess I am even more old fashioned than I thought. Sex to me comes with loveing someone and wanting to be with them, not just because I am getting old. Oh well, guess all has their own opinions. I will keep waiting on the special someone. If I die first, so be it.
grits03	10/5/2009 3:36:58 PM 10/5/2009 3:31:14 PM Education here girls! Men, some woman, CAN'T have the hugs and kisses w/o sex. Hugs and kisses "can make a grown man blue", and that ain't no song by Crystal Gale!!!! it's a pretty normal response. I wouldn't tease a guy unless I meant business. It's not fair, really, but some of us don't realize what we're getting into.
pretty_moonpa	10/5/2009 3:39:30 PM Oh please.......Blue Ball is a town in Pa. If every guy I JUST hugged and kissed walked around blue aomeone would have invented special undies....or cream...or something Call me a tease or whatever you want but I dated a lot w/o giving it up before getting married. Of course I never dated anyone whos hands didnt work so I never got any complaints....welllllllllll none too seriousI know I dont need an education....
jasie52	10/5/2009 3:42:01 PM IT is a wonderful experience but I personally prefer to be in an exclusive relationship. Whatever trips different folks for different strokes...casual sex to me is a quickie with no leftovers. And I love IT's leftovers
rosesandsmiles	10/5/2009 3:47:35 PM grits, sister, moon, and all women's responses I can relate and appreciate every one's responses. grits waltz, johnny, and brock and all the men's responses, should make all of us women, realize we are (WOMAN)
grits03	10/5/2009 3:48:19 PM We're all teases Moon, it's fun. Let's ask the guys. Do we provoke you with a kiss? I mean, there's gotta be that certain kinda kiss. There is for me!!!!
rosesandsmiles	10/5/2009 3:50:16 PM jasie, I like the left overs to
pretty_moonpa	10/5/2009 3:50:52 PM haha If I get THAT Kiss there will be no one worrying about color...
grits03	10/5/2009 3:51:25 PM Thanks Roses. Sorry if I get out of line...
456johnny	10/5/2009 4:05:07 PM grits, a kiss does not provoke me and the blue thing left me years ago. but a kiss, a hug etc. can and will make me feel horny and i will go as far as you will let me. if i feel im being teased then im out of here, pronto. im toooooo old to play games but im not to old to have sex. i guess a man gets turned on a lot faster than a women and ill let it go at that
pretty_moonpa	10/5/2009 4:07:53 PM You did find,,,,
jasie52	10/5/2009 4:12:39 PM I would have to disagree with johnny..some women can get "turned" on just as quick as a man. I do agree teasing can be cruel and is why communication is so important. This topic is so complex...interesting blog!
grits03	10/5/2009 4:14:51 PM Bottoms up! Just kidding. Love ya' Moon! And you know it!!! Thanks. Johnny. I'm not a gamer. I just get that reaction more oft than not. I guess I better practice the un-kiss...
rosesandsmiles	10/5/2009 4:27:45 PM grits you're always in line and right on time
rosesandsmiles	10/5/2009 4:34:08 PM Woooooooooh I agree with you to jasie. communication because I certainly don't mean to tease. Hmmmmmmmmmmm (cold shower again)
456johnny	10/5/2009 5:59:30 PM grits, a unkiss is cruel and unusual punishment. keep kissing its fun
sassy_lassy	10/5/2009 7:09:16 PM I will just state my opinion on this and that is all it is. I love to cuddle,hug and kiss and I,too,will get caught up in the moment, I just will not allow myself to get to that moment without caring deeply for that person, I mean ,if I just meet someone , i sure as heck would not jump into bed with him, that sure is a scary thought.. I do know men see things differently and thank goodness they do.
rosesandsmiles	10/5/2009 7:40:08 PM sassy
456johnny	10/5/2009 9:42:42 PM i wouldnt just jump in bed with someone on the first date. i said if i knew someone and was comfortable with them, then i think casual sex is ok.
heathepwatyawho	10/6/2009 4:07:05 AM The question is "Who doesn't want to have a sexual encounter?"
pretty_moonpa	10/6/2009 4:46:22 AM heath......lots of people dont want a sexual encounter......what they WANT is a healty sexual RELATIONSHIP...AND......remember we are talking people in their 50's on up to ......well I saw a 90 something on a dating site once......
jasie52	10/6/2009 4:50:56 AM
pretty_moonpa	10/6/2009 5:06:44 AM oh and heath......the ruies state........you cant go on a blog and change the question you have to start your own blog gm jasie.....we are early birds lol and still cant get the worm
rosesandsmiles	10/6/2009 6:57:06 AM moonpa, As usual, correct and just on time
jasie52	10/6/2009 3:07:13 PM moonpa..true but we keep on trying, that is what counts..maybe the next round
grits03	10/6/2009 4:21:53 PM Don't leave without me, K girls??????
cajun2x4	10/7/2009 4:32:28 PM The act of loving making comes natural between two loving people,but sex...even animals can do that.
bayourose	10/7/2009 8:21:27 PM I agree with Heath, the question wasn't about casual sex, it said 'sexual encounter'. Nothing wrong with sex ... if the moon & stars are lined for two consenting adults, then the excitement & experience is wonderful.
au1972	10/8/2009 5:04:13 PM I'm always ready for sex from a physical and functional standpoint. However, casual sex is no fun. I'm looking for a long-term person with a real heart for me. Give things time to come out and see if the relationship has true potential in an all around way. What makes sex really good is when the couple really likes/loves one another. Other than that it's just mutual masturbation.
di2981	10/8/2009 5:49:05 PM Sex to just have sex - no way. Sex with someone I love would be ecstasy.
rosesandsmiles	10/9/2009 10:55:57 AM Thanks every oneGreat answers
catsmam76	10/10/2009 9:52:58 AM Say Miss Rosesw as she shyly peeks around the corner....Hmmm make you wonder whar she's up to over there.....
rosesandsmiles	10/10/2009 2:45:12 PM If I ever quit laughing I will explain Actually I hid my dad because I was being so naughty
jasie52	10/10/2009 6:09:10 PM I need a hug and a kiss after this blog