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What do I want? by georgiananagail at 10/25/2009 9:09:08 PM Haven’t blogged before, well formally anyway. I tend to express my feelings to a few lifelong friends via email. I’ve been divorced for six years now. I’m starting to think that maybe I like living alone. My marriage was bad for the last ten years. Now, when I meet very appealing men, I make dates and immediately start looking for a reason not to keep them. Two amazing men who would have made incredible changes in my life eventually gave up I miss spooning; I miss someone knowing your thoughts without words; I really miss late night conversations but I don’t think it’s going to happen for me again because again and again I make men who want to love me “buddies” rather than lovers. Afraid of commitment? Maybe, but I like to think these men were not right for me and that I’ll be like a sixteen-year-old in love when this one amazing man comes into my life. I believe absolutely that this will be the best time of my life if I do I right. That's my hope.

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whisper1	10/25/2009 9:13:45 PM No need to try to self analize or find excuses or reasons or trying to second guess yourself. When the right man comes along you and he will both know it. Until then dont stop dating, or meeting guys and there is nothing wrong with having male buddies. Lots of times love comes from being good buddies.
flirty_me_1	10/26/2009 3:39:36 AM Good Morning Georgiana, blogging can be a lot of fun. Hope you enjoy your experience. What I like about it is I can delete or edit it any time I like. Hope you have fun, Come join us in the groups, if you have not posted there.
catsmam76	10/26/2009 3:48:19 AM Goodmorning ladies,blogging is indeed a fun time and a great way to be noticed.(of course that's not what I'm doing here)
jennyann71	10/26/2009 4:25:56 AM Come and join we blogging gals and guys and I assure you much fun and a lot of class act"""people that will """""" delight you.
foreveralady	10/26/2009 6:18:33 AM GEORGIANA, I wonder if it is that we are afraid of losing yet another person in our lives. In the past I used to do that,and sometimes I still do.My kids say I'm too picky,but what do they know??--lol
lkavour92	10/26/2009 6:55:17 AM Georgiana, I think I have to agree with Whisper, friends are nice to have and it's so nice to be able to chat with someone about events in your life,and get a man's perspective. Can these "Guy" friends turn into romance? possibly, but I'm not holding my breath.
rosesandsmiles	10/26/2009 7:41:32 AM One never knows what the subconscious mind holds until the moment it arrives, then we have to deal with it with the conscious mind and hope that we make the correct decision.
bklynbabi	10/26/2009 12:30:04 PM Welcome to the blogisphere! If you do this right you'll make tons of friends, have a healthy outlit to express yourself & who know's what kind of like minded fellows you may meet, right? Word of advice, there are some drama queen, negative kill joys in our mist so beware not to get sucked into their phsycosis & you'll surely have a blast & learn alot as well. Good luck to ya, hope to see more of your blogs
redneckchic52	10/26/2009 12:39:28 PM There are a few jerks but dont let them stop you,have fun and make friends,who knows one of those friends may be your dream come true
rockgar	10/26/2009 2:25:03 PM don't worry and don't settle - what you want is the same thing we all want - that freakin head over heels, can;t wait till the next time we see some one. I have made some great friends here but only friends - looking for the girl that knocks my socks off and hope i do the same for her!
sangee	10/26/2009 7:23:29 PM I sincerely believe that seeking a partner in life should be like mapping a journey ,Most of us know what we do not want, but I wonder how many of us know exactly what we want. I am now looking for those answers, I have been divorced for a long time and find all those excuses when I know that my heart, mind and soul are all screaming for me to find that soul mate that I have never had, thought I had a few times but not. best of luck in your search
georgiananagail	10/26/2009 9:17:37 PM Are blogs in one central place. I appreciate your responses and would like to see yours. I hang out in the political forums so much I'm not familiar with the rest of the site.
rockgar	10/27/2009 5:55:22 AM I visit the blogs from Gachat - it is at the top of the page - I comment when I feel like it - you can go to an individuals blog from their profile! GARY
morles	10/30/2009 7:14:30 PM According to your Blog...It doesn't sound like you are being fair to your dates....But who am I to Judge as I do not know you...I will say you are a very pretty lady...but won't judge a book by it cover...