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What do you say.... by bevyea at 11/4/2009 9:58:27 PM How are you suppose to respond when he tells you there is no room in his life for you? He realized that he couldn't wake up next to you every morning. There were lots of other pointless statements but... Ahhhh, why would you even tell someone that, unless it was just to be hurtful? I said sweetie, do what you need to do for you. I'm good don't worry about me. Was that wrong? There is a very long story behind this and if you read my blogs, you can probably piece it together. I'm just curious what you guys think about this. I'm okay that's it's finally his idea so it can be done. I just wonder why he felt the need to trash me. mmmmm...

Comments
cajun2x4	11/5/2009 2:24:07 AM Here's what you say to a man says stuff like that... "OK"... then turn and walk away, and if another woman was involved, "Competition is for games only!"
yorkiedad1	11/5/2009 3:43:01 AM The same thing I said to my wife when she said "I don't care for you any more as much as you care for me". I just said "I don't hate you I just hate what you did to us" and signed the papers and went on my way. Thank goodness an amicable separation. Still semi-friends.
jennyann71	11/5/2009 5:46:20 AM That was a very hurtful statement and I am sure it hurt you deeply and I would start looking around for some one that did have room in their lives for you and would be so grateful that such a wonderful lady could love and want them.
catsmam76	11/5/2009 5:53:14 AM I am sure I don't understand the need for spite,protecting himself from something,or a smoke screen from the truth.....doesn't matter like Jenny said find someone that has "room" in their life for you.....
rosesandsmiles	11/5/2009 7:25:29 AM Bev, I really like the idea that you rode it through until it became his idea to end the marriage, that way you were prepared, and spared much of the hurt. Why he felt the need to trash you, If you haven't figured that out by now, you probably won't. Just move forward and enjoy the rest of your life, hopefully with someone that will love you unconditionally.
bevyea	11/5/2009 6:20:06 PM and the search begins. This was a boyfriend not a husband...thank goodness. He came on very strong, actually we were high school sweethearts. He didn't want a life time commitment.. Thank you all for the constructive comments. You've helped me more than you could even know.
claudius5	11/6/2009 4:58:10 AM There are times I am sad that compassion, empathy and understanding of another's feelings are taken for granted and discounted. What a cruel thing to say and I know it pained you. You have a sense of worth and I know you will be ok. Thanks for sharing and live large.
badbevo	11/6/2009 7:23:45 PM What else can I say that hasnt been said already. There is definitely no room in a relationship for rudeness. I must say that it is good that you found out now than later.
larrymartin	11/7/2009 4:41:07 PM Well, Bevyea if you are as nice of a lady as you seem here then that guy made a mistake he'll likely regret later when he finds as we age it get harder and harder to find a good mate. Plus your sexy too.
302sbc	11/8/2009 1:56:29 PM im sorry