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boys will always be boys by momsoon2be at 11/13/2009 10:16:03 AM yeah, i cant believe the lows that some guys go to after you nicely tell them you arent interested...some jerk posted a blog of half facts about me... Ugh... Drama! I thought we were trying to be adults.... I wrote a rebuttle cause i was pissed at the rude comments and accusations.... was that wrong to do?

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smokestack37	11/13/2009 11:03:55 AM Some people see rejection, "tell them you aren't interested" as a personal insult or attack. Then in turn feel they need to "get back" at the person who caused them greif and disapointment. The secret is not to take rejection, or lack of interest as a personal attack. After all, most of us want to find our one and only. Here is my motto for such situations. "There is someone for everyone, not everyone for someone." Cause quite frankly if everyone was attracted to one person, it wouldn't be fair to everyone else. Also on a personal note, if every woman in the world was attracted to me, I would find that extremely scary. LOL. It's best to ignore the bad apples and move on.
momsoon2be online now!	11/16/2009 12:17:38 AM he just continues to bash, so do other people....but there are quite a few that have my back, just rea some postings...lol, but its too drama filled, and so is he i just dont want to feed into it, but it also makes me want to defend myself too....aggravated
smokestack37	11/18/2009 11:28:04 PM I think you are wise in not feeding into it. Defending yourself is a normal reaction. Just don't fall into the trap of defending yourself against everyone.