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Living Single??????????
by rosesandsmiles at 1/2/2010 8:09:41 AM
Because you are living alone, no one to compliment or complain, have your habits/ways of doing things changed?
Do you wear that beat up old sweat suit to sleep in because it's comfy, who sees you anyway. Or do you wear nice sleeping garments,just for you.
Do you find yourself crashing on the couch rather than the bed, the TV is there & it is just easier. Do you sleep with 1 pillow clutched in your arms, to feel closeness. Or do you prefer to cuddle up in your bed & thankful now you have the whole bed to yourself. Do you spend more time sleeping, because you don't think about being lonely when you are asleep.
Do you cook real meals for yourself, or do you stock up on frozen, pop in the microwave meals, or use order-in often. Do you sometimes eat strange things like a big bowl of icecream & cookies, bowl of cereal for dinner just because you can no one else to worry about.
Do you slump around in an old pair of jeans & sweat shirt all day, you aren't going out & no one to see you, or do you get dressed as if you were going out because it makes you feel good about yourself.
Do you find yourself being more critical of others, such as, you see a nicely dressed, well built man with an overweight, slumpy dressed woman and wonder what he sees in her & think I am dressed nicely , fairly pleasing to the eye, why don't I have someone & likewise for the men when you see an attractive well dressed woman with an overweight slumpy man, do you ask yourself the same question. 
Do you go out shopping & buy something you really don't need, but feel the need to try to fill the void in your life with something.
Have you developed a habit of talking to yourself. Do you engage in a conversation with a stranger, maybe in the grocery line, just to have someone to talk to.
Or, just maybe you are a self assured, glass half full rather than half empty individual who have adapted well with your situation and have formed no new good or bad habits living single.
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