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is it to much?
by chellybgirl at 1/8/2010 10:06:00 AM
often times im asked "what do you look for in a guy" I usually try to keep the list short because I don't want to seem like im asking for much. so I give them a short to the point answer. sweet, sense of humor, and thoughtful. but I want to know if im wrong for wanting more.
I mean is it to much to ask for a guy who does not call me sexy? I know most girls probably like that or if they don't they don't speak up about it but I don't. I don't want a guy to look at me and think sex. im not an object of pleasure. is it to much to ask for a guy who can make me feel like the prettiest girl in the world. don't get me wrong I think I am pretty but I want a guy who know that and is not just telling me to "get some." I don't think all men are dogs....just a few of them. and those few use that "oh you are so beautiful" line to get some....
and is it to much to ask for a guy to know exactly why he likes and or wants me? I get so sick of hearing "I like you because you are different" or "because you are a nice person" and "because you are pretty". come on tell me something I don't already know....something not as obvious. I want to know something that you would actually have to pay attention to notice about me.
is it too much to ask for a guy who likes me to actually try to be with me. and be with me...I get so sick of hearing "I like you but im not ready for a girlfriend" or "I really want to be with you but im not sure I can be faithful" (although I respect his honesty) and my favorite " I want to be with you but I don't want to hurt you" (umm you are hurting me now stupid).
is it to much to ask for a guy who is sweet....like texting me randomly to say he misses me. or calling me just to hear my voice...or falling asleep on the phone at night because he doesn't want to hang up.
I don't think its to much to ask for a guy with a sense of humor...I mean no one wants to be in a boring relationship with a boring person. I want to be able to have pillow fights and trying to beat each other on the game (don't matter what system I like them all) and calling each other silly names at random times. I want a guy who can make me laugh. some one I can argue playfully with and he wont get mad instead have a smart or funny comeback to what I said. a guy I cant be sad around because he knows just how to cheer me up. a guy who wants to go out and have fun...it could be to the zoo or the park. or some place that he knows we will have fun...not always wanting to sit at home and watch TV. I want a guy I can watch the football game with and he wont ignore me the entire game.
is it to much to ask for a guy who wants to hear what I have to say and actually listens? who wants to know what I think and wants to know about me and actually remembers what I say.
is it to much to ask for a guy who is thoughtful?. like on holidays he actually does something. he don't have to buy me nothing but at least make a card or hang out with me instead of ignoring me on valentines day (I hate that holiday anyway) because you didn't have money to buy me nothing. (umm you could have at least gave me a hug and kiss and say happy valentines day! or happy birthday!)
is it to much to ask for a guy who will want me even though I have flaws? a guy who wants me even though I don't look like the girls on magazines and TV. a guy who wants me even if im clumsy and if I snore in my sleep. a guy who wants me if I don't wear heels and tight jeans instead I wear comfortable shoes (even if they are not j's or whatever).is it to much for a guy to want me for me? and not try to change me?
if i sound picky or if you feel i am asking for to much frankly i dont care. yeah it may take me awhile to find him but i know he is out there. god made him just for me. i might have to go through some not so good relationships but after every relationship it just means im a step closer.
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