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When sex is not too good! by rosesandsmiles at 2/23/2010 7:41:56 AM You've been getting to know someone, dating them for awhile and finally it's that big night and the big moment finely happens together but it's not very good. Realizing that the first time with a new woman, even rookie's make mistakes. So you might give it a second chance on another day, and even a third attempt, yet it's just not working, in fact, it's pretty awful, what would you do about that, especially if you liked the person, enjoyed their company and it was turning out to be a good relationship except for the SEX part!!!!! Has this every happene to you? Or what would you do?

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jennyann71	2/23/2010 7:44:43 AM I would teach him how to make Love,,,Women do this all the time for the guys we love as we are born navigators ....Good Luck and Happy Moments.
pretty_moonpa	2/23/2010 7:47:23 AM If you are refering to yourself....what are YOU doing? Sounds like sex is important so why are your needs not being discussed....even during sex...Is there nothing good about it??? If the relationship is really good otherwise I would sit down and talk about it...and DONT tell him whats wrong with it from the git go...tell him what makes YOU feel good..perhaps he was with someone that didnt care and just wanted it over with and doesnt realize how a woman reacts when sex is good GOOD LUCK
maggy63	2/23/2010 8:01:51 AM Rose, yes its happened to me.I cared enough about him to just let it go.Life is too short, i'm not going to let that happen again. I will teach him how to make wonderful love together.Moon , your right about the last part of your blog.
maggy63	2/23/2010 8:03:20 AM THAT IS WHEN I FIND MY MAN!
jennyann71	2/23/2010 8:05:44 AM there is nothing better than a non verbal"""" sex kitten"""" that is in love with her man.Ask any man?
catsmam76	2/23/2010 8:06:01 AM SEX...What is this sex thing you speak of?I have a distant dim memory of the word but have forgotten what it means.....
ladygonewild	2/23/2010 8:06:17 AM Hello , I have this exact thing happen to me .I really, really like the guy, we have been dating 6 months and just got into a intimate relationship ,He is very nieve when it comes to sex , So I am teaching him , and hopfully it will work out .I have thought if it does not what will I do ? I want excitment and satifation .. I lived with out it and we not settle for less now .
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 8:09:28 AM Moonpa, discussed during sex, uuuuug, it's over with before I can even moan. Really for me I would rather just go with the relationship. He talks big, like he is the greatest lover in time.
flirty_me_1	2/23/2010 8:09:35 AM Tell him what you just said. Tell him what you want. TELL HIM, TELL HIM..If he doesn't take it well. Then maybe he is just a friend and not a lover. I would feel the same way. Buy him a book. Write it all down for him to read. Believe me, some men have not ever known what women want in a relationship. If he always did it for himself..then he has lived in a box and not paid attention. Good Luck, but the lack of a man taking care of his woman has broken many relationships. Good Kissing, then go from there. I encourage you to not settle. Demand as you deserve and you deserve sexual satisfaction.
ctprincess	2/23/2010 8:13:30 AM Simple...teach him.
pretty_moonpa	2/23/2010 8:13:40 AM roses....WHAT??? And your letting him get up?? EXCUSE ME...Get back here "darlin" and let me show you what turns ME on...seriously roses ...start with the foreplay...dont let him go for the home run without hitting all the bases...I know this sounds trite...but I have to keep it clean.....or tell him that being you are new to each other you want to explore sexuality all over from the BEGINNING as that seems where he is at....
catsmam76	2/23/2010 8:14:38 AM Any man worth his salt should be ready to do his best,if directions are in order so be it shut up and listen.Put the vaunted male ego away and tend to the lady's desires and if she's so kind as to direct you you're a lucky man.After all a woman who is getting what she desires is much more passionate then one getting a lick and a promise........ Satisfied woman = happy man.....
maggy63	2/23/2010 8:17:09 AM so true cats!
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 8:22:08 AM I really love everyones comments, all along the line that I am thinking. Then I think is sex really that important to me? No, as long as I am by myself. Yes if I am in a relationship with a warm body next to mine. I do believe communication is very important, but it must go goth ways also.
catsmam76	2/23/2010 8:25:14 AM My friend THAT is the keys to the kingdom of love....
ricki1951	2/23/2010 8:29:29 AM The last 3 relationships that I hadsexually were bad. All 3 of them had ED, and never told me ahead of time, but I stayed with one for 7 years. He always took care of me, but it isn't the same. I am not against teaching them what I want and need either, but I am soon to be 59 years old, I'm done teaching men how how to make love.If you really like this guy, then it needs to be a topic of discussion, and soon, if you want the relationship to go any furthur than just friendship. JMO. Good luck.
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 8:31:14 AM OMG, my mail box is flowing over with male emails, from 19 to 66. What the Now I may need advice to get out of this one
proseparty	2/23/2010 8:33:30 AM Jennyann, I would like to a few lessons
lkavour92	2/23/2010 8:39:53 AM Perhaps an erotic movie (not porn, more like one of those foreign films) to open the door to discussing technique etc. much easier to discuss ANOTHER couple than the one in the room. "What is Your sexual fantasy" seems to open the door to discussion. "Does this feel good to you when I do this?" might get you on the right track,"I have always dreamed of a man doing this" may move things in the direction you want to go...Show adoration of his body and expect adoration of yours, if it is not forthcoming, lead him to the pasture....this needs to be pleasurable not streeful..slow it down until it ramps up...
jennyann71	2/23/2010 8:42:17 AM I know things a good girl should never know and """""" I have only had 3 men in my life but God they were world teachers of the art of making love and I was their student, Rose; that problem you said he had usually tells me he drinks to an excess or has in the past.
pretty_moonpa	2/23/2010 8:44:51 AM roses....if you have 66 messages in your inbox I dont think you needed this blog LOL
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 8:49:22 AM My thoughts exactly jennyann. And I as you, had the best lover ever, my husband for 15 years. Maybe that is why I don't understand.
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 8:52:51 AM moonpa, I keep looking for that nude picture that I postedcause I'm getting some pretty sensuous pictures, that OMG, I am deleting.
redneckchic52	2/23/2010 8:53:56 AM Hell dont be shy,If you like the guy that much show him what turns your crank
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 8:58:04 AM Ladies, trust me they may not comment but they certainly read the blogs.
jennyann71	2/23/2010 9:03:19 AM Girlfriend if you take and try all the advice you will be one TUCKERED out LADY,,,,giggles
lkavour92	2/23/2010 9:08:51 AM I myself might have to weigh the options here...On one hand..bad sex with a man I am fond of........On the other hand man I am fond of is sent away and no sex (bad or good) for me.....Mmmmmmm
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 9:09:52 AM Jennyann, I wear big girl panties, I can take tuckered.
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 9:11:52 AM I totally agree with you lka.
jennyann71	2/23/2010 9:14:55 AM
redneckchic52	2/23/2010 9:16:21 AM I see we have a few real men that aren't afraid to commentTo the rest of the guys
lkavour92	2/23/2010 9:20:06 AM Red, perhaps a "literary" evening reading a few of Skips "Short Stories" would warm up the room!!!!
skipper_doodle	2/23/2010 9:26:59 AM Hmmmm, a few years back I was considered a "stud" in that department. Due to some health problems and life issues Im kinda "down graded" some But I still maintain 1 or 2 "tricks" up my sleeve to entertain my partner NEXT BUS.....
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 9:28:17 AM You know lka, I really enjoy the men that do comment, as I think flirty stated on another blog. You can get to know a person by their profiles and blogs, or comments.
redneckchic52	2/23/2010 9:29:57 AM Reading does get you thinking
lkavour92	2/23/2010 9:36:11 AM It IS very difficult to say "What you are doing is not doing it for me", but what if you genuinely care for the person? At my age I think I would try at least to bring some more erotisism into the relationship...It not like men you have a thing for are coming along on every bus...
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 9:36:39 AM Catching the next but. LouieI always thought that sex was in the men's ball court, as to how good it is.
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 9:37:23 AM That would be bus
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 9:43:11 AM Great food for thought lka. Thanks
ooohman2	2/23/2010 9:45:02 AM OK lady's I am not and never was considered a stud. But I learned as cat said a satisfied woman makes a happy man. I would go to ANY extremes to make you happy because in return you will be glad to make me happy. I'm more then willing to take lessons and am considered a VERY quick study
lkavour92	2/23/2010 9:49:57 AM Suppose I meet a man and miracle of miracles he and I fall for each other...But the bed is not working as well as it should...Am I going to walk away? NOOOOOOO siree not until I have tried every thing I have ever learned and some things I can hardly remember...I care about this guy, and I want him to stay around...JMHO
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 10:00:52 AM Oh moonpa, that wasn't 66 messages it was from 19 to 66 years old.
lkavour92	2/23/2010 10:06:34 AM Roses, My bad...I thought it was 66 messages too. I momentarily gave some thought to running a blog on the joys of erotic sex just to see if it worked the same way
pretty_moonpa	2/23/2010 10:10:19 AM hahahaha well I like my misreading better,.,,,it gave me a laugh
califgirl1	2/23/2010 10:16:11 AM I have had this happen once and only once.....he didn't want to talk about it..So there are some men out there that are like that...I look at it this way..it is their loss... Good luck Rose..I hope it works out for you... I don't know if you should keep us updated..
lkavour92	2/23/2010 10:22:33 AM I have never believed that sex was some kind of "Gift" that one participant gave the other...but more like a "Contact Sport " where each participant threw themselves into the play wholeheartedly each rushing for the ultimate goal!!!!
sharsea	2/23/2010 10:25:20 AM Rose if you need any help with your email give me a call. Just remember, practice makes perfect... Can recall the first book I bought on the subject of sex. What You Always Wanted To Know About Sex But Was Afraid To Ask...I think I may still have it. A bit frayed but perhaps still readable.
pretty_moonpa	2/23/2010 10:25:52 AM And the Gold goes to..............................
kevinbarry	2/23/2010 10:43:12 AM Hi everyone; Roses, very nice blog. To all the responders so far: Very informative and enlightening to say the least. I have decided to post a parallel blog that has to do with Sex and lovemaking. As I tend to write lenghty blogs, I have to divide it into two - the blog itself and the second part and the first response post. Enjoy!
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 10:50:31 AM Louie darlin, I know that women have to play a part in how good sex is with movement, erotic desire, kisses and caresses but oh well call me naive.
harrybyvick	2/23/2010 10:54:30 AM Well appears like SEX is an interesting topic on DH. Jenny- I don't think I'd be to fast to dump the guy if rest is that good. How many woman & men on here talk of lonliness and wanting someone plus how hard it is to find someone. I let the guy know how you feel and not demand you needs be satisfied but encourage him. Lots of guys are full of macho sex talk & comes time to pony up their egos get bruised so let him know gently how you felt and what you'd like. I really feel sorry for someone who can't bend a tad and help a possible mate if just one area isn't perfect. If I waited until I could find someone who could keep up with me in fitness I'd be single hell of a long time as I can still crank out 2 hour work-outs - it's about compromise
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 10:56:00 AM Kevin I would be very much interested in your blog. Look forward to reading it.s
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 10:59:31 AM Harry Thank You.
altje	2/23/2010 11:03:46 AM Califgirl, What you said!! In spades.
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 11:14:04 AM I am reading so many, teach hims. But at this point and time, "our age" I'm sorry but I think we should be teaching one another. I really do think if he would accept the idea that, ok he probably did use to be a good lover but it's gone, we could have a good relationship. Unfortunately that seems to be the main topic of his conversations. imagine the expectations.
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 11:18:38 AM Califgirl, I am leaning toward your comment. I will give it a fair chance though. Life does go on after the facts.
foreveralady	2/23/2010 11:20:34 AM Myself like LOUIE have never had a bad sexual experience.Both people are supposed to know how to please the other one. If he needs help..show him a few new things..... lololololololol.o.and the beat goes on....
waltaz	2/23/2010 11:25:32 AM I started to read this blog and I told myself not to comment but I'm going to. The man in question has the "Wham Bam Thank You Ma'am" syndrome. Premature and the lady will be left at the starting gate. He is to sensitive. Make him recognize this fault and keep the foreplay going (heavy petting) until she's ready then let him enter. Enough said
califgirl1	2/23/2010 11:59:36 AM Rose...sex is an important part of a relationship.......Teaching should not be an issue at this stage of our lives..But expressing to your new lover what you like is very acceptable and should be part of the encounter..What happens between the two of you and how you handle it is your business.. Again..Good luck to you...
maggy63	2/23/2010 11:59:52 AM hey lou it takes two...lol... wow ,can you imagine when both try their best to please! woo woo!!fun,fun,fun.
456johnny	2/23/2010 12:06:45 PM put me in coach im ready to learn..communications is the secret in good love making..if you cant say what makes you feel good then you will never be satisfied..if he is sexually disfunctional send him to the doctors for treatment...talk about it and in the mean time be intiment..you know like touching,kissing, oral sex etc.. good luck
jennyann71	2/23/2010 1:05:20 PM Walt""""" the more you say the more I know you know what you are talking about, and harry """I am sure being overseas' you have a phd in sexology???/giggles ""'Never met a szlant eye that did not know how to please a GI JOE
lkavour92	2/23/2010 1:15:05 PM Ohhhh Myyyy!
harrybyvick	2/23/2010 1:16:27 PM Well my pretty Jennyann this Marine is going to have to plead the fifth amendment- lol!
kevinbarry	2/23/2010 1:18:26 PM Hey Louie, you forgot to include unadulterated
lkavour92	2/23/2010 1:42:30 PM A brush up course may be required but, just like the proverbial bicycle.........
jennyann71	2/23/2010 2:01:16 PM I was a recent bridge and i met and married a guy from this site and he had the penal implant and has been everywhere and retired military so I taught him something """""" that no other broad had ever done to lil ole him """""and he ask me where I learned that and I told him my husband taught me that and was my teacher so even old pro's might be taught a new trick of the trade,? By a born a gain virgin ,,,giggles As husbands were at one time Teachers?
jennyann71	2/23/2010 2:41:46 PM lucky""""'jus love those happy cmpers, darlin
jennyann71	2/23/2010 2:43:45 PM Great blog rose and I have not seen a blog like this since we all walked on water with the beautiful people?
lkavour92	2/23/2010 2:45:56 PM Louie, I have been looking at all the women's pix here and they are all smiling....The next time you have reason to be a "Happy Little Camper", have that lucky little lady snap a pix of you with a smile on your face so that we may see what a "Satisfied man looks like.
sweetsugar57	2/23/2010 2:57:49 PM To answer the question.....Roses....... If the sex wasn't good , but the relationship was good , then I would stay in the relationship!!! Sex can be "fixed" if necessary , but a bad relationship cant!!! The opposite if reverse!!!! Does that make sense?
catsmam76	2/23/2010 3:10:57 PM I'd sooner speak for myself,thanks anyway.....
pretty_moonpa	2/23/2010 3:50:45 PM I havent posted here for awhile...interesting reading...now I must say having been married for 1 month shy of 38 years I dont have a great deal of man experience...I can only say I agree with the premise if hes a good man keep him...My husband was a great lover always... into pleasing...thats as much as I am going to say about him............I would be happy to have a man please me in EVERY other way at this point...just something I want to experience in my life...good communication,kindness,how can good love making not EVENTUALLY follow.......and cats,,,,
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 3:53:52 PM Pondering
pretty_moonpa	2/23/2010 3:54:17 PM OOOOPS forgot to add....as for the teaching...in my mind telling or showing him during foreplay by your actions or words is a form of teaching...take his hand and remove it from where it doesnt please you to somewhere it does
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 4:18:15 PM Thanks moonpa, you're a jewel.
dancenfeet	2/23/2010 7:45:22 PM I've had this discussion with many men, one as recently as today. Every single one has said a man doesn't know anything about sex, other than doing whatever it is that will get his socks knocked off. Bottom line, every woman is different in her sexual needs and we each need to communicate whatever it is to our lovers so we can get our socks knocked off. I think this blog has hit a record for the number of replies. Good going girl!
jackijo61	2/23/2010 7:57:42 PM OKAY !! I have read, re-read, laughed, been shocked, giggled, blushed and now am going to try to answer. IF a man isn't good in bed, I will try to teach him....my way of course....*it'd be our secret so he doesn't attempt to use it elsewhere!* and if that didn't happen after awhile including hands on hands instruction, books, accessories, I'm not sure what I'd do to be honest. If I liked him to the extreme..... it would be hard to walk away but even harder to stay in a sexless relationship *been there done that* If that time ever comes I will be sure to let you know! BTW all these comments are good research for my next book!!!!!
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 8:01:16 PM It has been very enlightening, I hesitated as to whether I should blog on this particular subject but I am glad I did. Thanks dancen, and a very special thanks to everyone that commented and thank you Kevin for the back up.
rosesandsmiles	2/23/2010 8:04:23 PM Wow, all of out DH friends comments in your next book. I'm impressed.
redinnevada	2/23/2010 8:32:18 PM I couldn't read all the comments, so I'm not sure if I'm repeating anyone's suggestion. Talk is good, but seriously, at our age, if he's STILL doing the "wham bam", then talking by itself may not be enough. So.. I say... set the stage yourself. Nice bedroom (or couch-wherever you two get it on), candles, and..... a SOFT PORN movie. You can shop them online even. Trick is Roses...you'll have to preview the movies for one you want to show him. Find one that you think will help define your desires as nicely as possible. Then tell him you'll both be watching and enjoying it together to LEARN together.
dancenfeet	2/23/2010 8:46:55 PM So glad you didn't hesitate to start this. Obviously, it's a subject we are all interested in. I think you should be nominated DH Queen! I appreciate the honesty everyone has shared. BYW, Check out goodvibrations dot com. Lots of instruction books/videos/toys there to send anonymously, if necessary. I agree with Jacki. I've been in 2 relationships where the man needed to use the "little blue" pill, as they called it. It got to be so frustrating to me to be asked, "Should I take the little blue pill tonight?". The biggest turn-off was to be told, "I took the little blue pill a little while ago". After a few months, the frustration and turn off was too much for me. I've remained friends with both men...one I see several times a month...the other is engaged. I don't think I've ever had "awful" sex. Oh, yes I did...for the 16 years I was married! My nickname for him was the "5 stroke man"...5 strokes and it was over.
cajun2x4	2/24/2010 2:52:20 AM love over-rules sex in my book, if I loved her,and sex wasn't good, so what...........I love her, I am not leaving her because of that,no way. If medically,she could no longer have intercourse, would I leave.....HELL NO!
alleyboy10	2/24/2010 3:42:35 AM most of us want a woman who tells us what she wants and needs especially in the bedroom-most of us love to experiment
bones01	2/24/2010 5:00:46 AM Considering our age group, us guys shouldn't need a "How To" book. A healthy attitude, open communication and a bottle of Viagra (when needed) should be all it takes to get started if you have already established a caring and loving relationship. I think most women understand that us guys aren't young Studmuffins and sometimes might need a little help in the bedroom. The Fellas need to understand that women need to be pleased also and that should be one of their primary goals. It's not that darn difficult to accomplish when you are open, honest and considerate. (Mention SEX and ya get all kinds of responses )
jennyann71	2/24/2010 7:31:01 AM Life gets down to """"" two things """""sex and money""""Makes the world go round"""""
rosesandsmiles	2/24/2010 8:35:38 AM EXPLAININATION: First of all there is no love involved in the relationship/friendship. I do like him and I do enjoy his company sometimes. But the conviction of his boasting is the deepest thing, not the dysfunctional sex. The negative aspects and aggressive complacency is driving me insane. I believe he is expressing insecurity and a lack of confidence that has been embedded for many years. Boasting of glory does not make glory. All I want is truth, honesty, and dignity. Singing in the dark does not dispel fear.
lkavour92	2/24/2010 8:52:50 AM Roses, maybe he is operating under "It's the big lie that works" syndrome. for himelf and for you also....This seems to be a "friends with "DUBIOUS" benefits" situation. If you hope to get to another level you are going to have to frankly/gently communicate with this fellow...things may go swimmingly and you both may have a good laugh at your rocky start down the road...or not
rosesandsmiles	2/24/2010 8:53:00 AM Bones and louie, I'm sorry but I so agree with both of you. If you have ever had it, you still have it. No training or teaching necessary. If the erotic desire is shared it should happen naturally. Pending on health problems of course. Waltaz your comment deserves a repeat: The man in question has the "Wham Bam Thank You Ma'am" syndrome. Premature and the lady will be left at the starting gate. He is to sensitive. Make him recognize this fault and keep the foreplay going (heavy petting) until she's ready then let him enter. Enough said. A huge Thanks to all, all comments are enlightening.
pretty_moonpa	2/24/2010 9:08:41 AM hahahaha ok Just because a man has had sex thousands of times doesnt make him an expert if he has never been told how "bad" he is ...An example is the reason roses did this blog...seems the man "thinks" he a good lover....thinking and being hmmmmmmmmmmmmm selfish selfish selfish.....him being statisfied does not make him good...
jennyann71	2/24/2010 10:02:20 AM Well darlings I was taught in the hills of Arkansas that if you are madly in love then se and money take care of them selves and maybe it is in the water in them there Hills cause they have some great :Lovers and some even BECOME Presidents. """"" of a free world and big companies, and 5 of the richest men live in the hills.
lkavour92	2/24/2010 10:11:36 AM Louie,Your posts are always valued, and read with interest. That being said, you, yourself may be a great lover with strings of happy smiling gals left thinking sweet thoughts about you, but that does not mean that ALL men in their sixties march under that banner. And it is the same with women, some women live for the pleasures of the bed and some don't. We are all of us distinct individuals with individual talents and tastes. negotiating a sexual relationship at our age is not a simple matter of talent and enthusiasm for all. Be happy that you are obviously enjoying a libido that keeps on going and have tolerance and understanding for those others who are struggling with more desire than ability....
rosesandsmiles	2/24/2010 10:12:47 AM Moonpa and Jennyannand
rosesandsmiles	2/24/2010 10:15:30 AM lkavour, you slipped in for you also.
jennyann71	2/24/2010 10:21:25 AM Rose """""it was my pleasure and fun was had by all""" and maybe you will invite me to your next sesson? An interesting mix of personalities. {and all the men I meet past 60 have penal implants. and He__ I seek just a normal man around my age that has had"""" no repairs. or adjustments to his body.
pretty_moonpa	2/24/2010 11:44:20 AM Did I mention names????.....I have NEVER bragged about being a good lover,,,,I let that up to my partners to decide, and I am NOT into casual sex so admidtedly that has been awhile.If a woman is "laying like a dead cow" the man is def NOT doing his job and she has every right to complain
foreveralady	2/24/2010 12:41:57 PM Wow,I CAN TELL YOU i don't think you have ever heard me complain about sex or anything like that....It has been about 8 yrs....but back then I REALLY DID TEACH A MAN i WAS WITH FOR A YEAR A few things..He was exstatic,and he had 10 kids. I JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND why anyopne at our age would not have great sex.The guy lied to me several times and that is why I ASKED HIM TO LEAVE.....He hated me for that,because he really loved me,but will not put up with lies..........
pretty_moonpa	2/24/2010 1:05:02 PM fal...a smart man will admit he can always learn...once that wont just gets defensive...sorry the man lied....but Kudos he was willing to learn.....
pretty_moonpa	2/24/2010 1:09:58 PM Why does one always get defensive at another viewpoint??? I never heard the word b*tch used so much till I came to DH....Seems to some an opinion that is not agreeable is always a b*tch....take it to man land it doesnt fly with me.
bones01	2/24/2010 2:33:47 PM Just for giggles, the Army says "Be all you can Be", at Burger King they say "Have it your way". I think both are appropriate for the bedroom!
pretty_moonpa	2/24/2010 2:50:01 PM hey bones.....remember ....ready or not here I come
rosesandsmiles	2/24/2010 3:01:27 PM Moonpa, some can except a compliment, and come back with a smile, others can't. bones, good to see you.
jennyann71	2/24/2010 5:15:56 PM bones:::I will leave the porch light on for you darlin?
dancenfeet	2/24/2010 7:25:01 PM Right on, Moonpa. I've known a couple of men who have had sex thousands of times and still didn't know what they were doing! As for the bragging, tell him to leave it on the doorstep. I'd get tired of hearing it, no matter what the subject was. You could pull a switch-a-roo on him and start bragging about yourself!
jackijo61	2/24/2010 9:24:21 PM wow Roses..... got em going strong !!
jackijo61	2/24/2010 9:48:42 PM OKAY EVERYONE TAKE A DEEP BREATH.........I have enjoyed this blog more than I can even tell you.... what I am not enjoying is the comments from luckylouie42 No where in this blog did I see it said that ONLY MEN had this problem It was asked BY A woman what to do IN THE CASE OF. NO where in her blog or the comments leading up to it did it say that men were the only ones who couldn't preform. YOU took a perfectly good blog, funny, informative and enjoyable and tried to turn it into a battle field. The word B*TCH isn't acceptable here, we don't deserve it in the blog and we aren't going to take it nicely. YOUR WORDS WERE----> You know, if you don't like the man, get the hell away from him, dont hang around and make his life miserable<-------- so why make us miserable? You said your piece *during your first comment* why continue to try to rock the boat?? The one thing you can do about the whole situation....take your own advice..... get a step on....don't comment anymore.. the door to this blog is two steps behind you See your way out of it... thank you very much...
pretty_moonpa	2/25/2010 4:47:45 AM jackijo...by the way...I'm breathing just fine but I think someone else may be hyperventilating about now.
flirty_me_1	2/25/2010 5:04:26 AM jackijo .. He thought it was always me that picked on him...I agree.. LL always is the negative force in any discussion. Oh my the way, I read him, but he blocked me so he thinks I can't
bones01	2/25/2010 5:43:44 AM Wow! Now I am thinking "Sex Education for Seniors". What a great idea! Remember La Maze classes for pregnant couples? Breath, Breath...Pant, Pant! Sounds like fun to me!
pretty_moonpa	2/25/2010 5:58:37 AM ahhhhhhhh I've been blocked
pretty_moonpa	2/25/2010 6:28:39 AM looks like there are about 7 posts missing.....well, not missing DELETED
jackijo61	2/25/2010 6:51:51 AM Good morning all! I apologize for my 'outburst' But as Roses will tell you I tell it like it is and then think about it lol I do see we have some posts missing hmmmmmm imagine that Now anyone coming in and reading that hasn't already been here will think I'm crazy I hope you all have a good day. I am still learning my way around here and get lost quite frequently. Drop in and say hello once in awhile and send me the right direction!! Hugs!!
bones01	2/25/2010 6:53:26 AM Wow...He deleted??? I'm sure gonna miss him..
flirty_me_1	2/25/2010 7:31:58 AM Just block everyone LL ...Makes for better reading.
pretty_moonpa	2/25/2010 8:10:19 AM bones hes just deleted his posts from this blog he does it all the time) not his profile lol
pretty_moonpa	2/25/2010 8:12:37 AM hey jj....no problem...some of my posts will not look strange like I am talking to a ghost lol....Welcome to the zoo
lkavour92	2/25/2010 8:50:42 AM The first time I noticed that someone had deleted their posts from a blog, I was mystified, I thought I had been blocked by that person and couldn't figuure out why...I wasn't in the conversation and didn't even know the poster... It took me awhile to figure out that you could even edit what you had written...not blonde...GREEK!!!
rosesandsmiles	2/25/2010 8:52:16 AM Thank you Jackio. To all concerned, you to louie, jacki and I are good friends and we chat a frequently. We discussed my blog and louie's comments. I gave her full permission to counteract louies comments. Louie I hope that one day you will turn that strong negative altitude into a positive one. You sound as though you are angry at the world, especially women.
rosesandsmiles	2/25/2010 8:57:35 AM Bones, sex education for seniors? Sounds great, even more, sounds like a great blog. Go for it.
jackijo61	2/25/2010 9:28:22 AM Good morning Roses. Have an awesome day!!
rosesandsmiles	2/25/2010 12:07:14 PM Thanks, you to JackioRemember Dano on, what was that show? The same to you, you have a great day to. Goes for everyone.
jackijo61	2/25/2010 3:15:08 PM Five-0??
flirty_me_1	2/25/2010 5:59:37 PM Don't feel bad if you or anyone was blocked from this blog..I was blocked by LL a couple of weeks ago. He always deletes most of his posts.
raven0	2/25/2010 8:06:44 PM OK ladies .I read all your comments.Very nice. I am free on Mon . Wed and Friday.Any of you teacher's need a good student for one of those day's.
dancenfeet	3/1/2010 8:00:23 PM I doubt anyone is looking for a student. As many have commented, at our age (ouch), we either have it down or don't. Maybe that's why I tend to date younger men. Men older than I am tend to have a different attitude about sex...it's an act they are entitled to and it doesn't matter if the woman gets pleasure from it or not. Or, as I stated before, they need to use the "little blue pill", and that gets to be a drag and a real turn off for me; as in, "I took the blue pill earlier". Yeah? So what? Or, "Should I take the blue pill tonight?" Only if you are going to take care of yourself tonight.
klutterbuck	3/17/2010 2:57:32 PM Great Blog, Thanks Rose, As for me, my previous report cards mostly seem to have a failing grade. I will need that elusive instruction manual that should come with all ladies but doesn't seem to get included from the factory. Since I read slowly at my advanced age, maybe a DVD would be the best medium with LOTS of "hands On" tutoring from the instructor. I may be an old dog, but probably can be taught a few new tricks.
rosesandsmiles	3/17/2010 8:16:29 PM Thanks for the comment klutterbuck, but I have a feeling you don't need a manuel at all