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life is just drama after drama by foxydancer at 4/7/2010 10:09:33 PM So I might be invited to go with my man to another state to help his family friends start a farm. MIGHT He is going regardless. If I am invited should I go? Im not really a part of that family. Since I wouldnt be getting paid I dont know if my parents would consider it "work" and they have a work or go to school deal with me. Will it piss of my parents? probably. Do I really want to throw away their support (emotional and finiacial) to chase a guy? Doesnt seem logical. I love him. Moving is whats best for him, I dont think it is right for me tho. If life were easy.... the things that are good wouldnt be as great.

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zeldor	4/7/2010 11:03:54 PM The decision is yours my sister. What are your short and long term goals? School, degree vs. degrees, whatever, maybe your a musician. The point is do what you must do for you. Many a women has given up on her dreams for her man. You said he is going irregardless. Will you have a place to live, food, access to school? Think wisely is all that I am saying. You are a women, not girl, you think for yourself. What is in your best interests short and long term goals?
anywhereusa	4/8/2010 4:04:01 AM He has a point Foxy. He is going whether you join up with him or not. If your parents are willing to help you while you get an education, then get your education!!!! You will need that in order to to have a good job to support YOURSELF when the time comes and you are on your own. Good luck on your decision!!!
gib_bouche_dag online now!	4/8/2010 6:20:13 AM There comes a time in your life when you realize that you need to do the things that please yourself instead of everyone else. Trying to find the happy medium will drive you mad. Just look at this face.
say_ray	4/8/2010 6:28:34 AM It sort of sounds to me like you've already made up your mind. It sounds cliche, but listen to your heart. It won't steer you wrong.
piscesbabe2	4/8/2010 9:46:16 AM I agree - look at your post "I don't think it's right for me tho" - you already know how u feel - now follow ur heart - ya know I love ya hon and wish you the best whoever you decide
wdwmousefan	4/8/2010 12:15:46 PM Foxy, there's a lot of truth in the old saying "if you love someone, set them free. If they really love you, they will come back to you." Deep down inside, you know that the situation is wrong for you right now. Stay the course. Somewhere down the line, your paths will intersect again and you should be better prepared to make an informed rather than emotional decision that will affect the rest of your life.
d3light3d	4/8/2010 3:12:48 PM Let him go alone for a while. I am talking a few months. Don't piss off your parents. They are the ones who will always love you. You are so lucky to get their support finacially. Make education your priority not the guy. If it is meant to be it will be! Things change so often and very quickly. Listen to what wdwmouse said carefully....He is a very wise man.... Best of luck to ya Woman!
foxydancer	4/8/2010 11:07:22 PM Thanks everyone. For your advice. <3 I made an appointment with my school counselor to see what credits I have that are transferable. It would be a great experience, but only for the summer. I would love to go up there and do something new, but not indefinitely. Even if I am eligible for finical aid up there and could get a job (food and housing will be supplied) my a** needs to be in school. Thats my main focus, school. I love my man, I hope we end up together somehow. But you guys are right. I think I need to set him free. Perhaps I can go up for the summer and check out the situation. Maybe my parents WILL support me if I show them I am serious about it.... idk... stressful. ha. thanks again everyone
hugabear4you	4/9/2010 5:29:42 AM Just one of life's many dilemmas (good luck with your quandary) you know what is right for you don't be suaded by other listen to you inner self and you heart. I offer you this Blessed Be HB