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Internet Dating V.S. Real Life Dating by rosesandsmiles at 5/31/2010 1:36:17 PM We say that chatting is one of positive stress relievers after a hard day of work. This is where we get to meet different kinds of people, engage into new friendship or make enemies. Internet chatting is so in demand right now that most of us rely to it as the fastest way in connecting with our loved one. However, not everyone uses it as a way of communication, instead, a way to find potential someone. This new idea of courting is now coined as “Internet dating”. Most of us believe that internet dating is like normal life dating and that the only difference is you have the computer as your medium. In this process, you get to know the person really well through chatting. You exchange each others points of view, likes and dislikes and a lot more of your personal self which if given more time will eventually lead to new found friendship and later love. The so called “love” and “trust” is being built each day you talk. In other words, it’s like a real life dating that needs to be taken care of and nurtured. On the other note, others believe that internet dating varies from real life dating. On a real date, we fix our hair and iron our clothes and even put our best foot forward. Physical contact and personality are present. On the Internet, we polish our intellect, imagination and personality through the words we exchange over the PC’s and no physical contact at first or whatsoever. The probable danger is the lie or the make-up stories of your chat mate. Therefore constant communication will play a big part in this kind of relationship. In this way love and trust will build each day you talk. Say it’s a good or bad thing; Internet dating is the new trend of real life dating. It has the same focus and agenda but of different process-which is thru social networking sites and dating sites. Love, whether internet or real life, is like finding a needle in a bunch of straw. Not impossible of course.

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catsmam76	5/31/2010 1:38:25 PM
artyone	5/31/2010 1:40:23 PM Great inciteful blog!Well said!
mslaugh	5/31/2010 1:53:27 PM Very well written roses; I have enjoyed reading your posts.
jennyann71	5/31/2010 2:12:05 PM Some people in real Life date forever also and I find the ones that date a long time never make it to the promise land {marriage or what ever it is called in today's worl" Living togeter for the long haul"""""" But then we all have to walk our own path """"""and what ever works for you""is fine with me""" as I live my Life my way and let others do the same.""""" So, good Luck to all.
pittsburgh12	5/31/2010 2:19:34 PM I prefer live contact then internet dating but with a busy schedule sometimes its hard to get out and about and you might just meet that one person that you would never run across in real life on the internet. I have some friends that use this as a pick up site only - they are not looking for love but for FWB. it must work because he picks up a new girl every week and he tells them upfront what he wants and they come right over and jump in the bed with him. I have found out that the ladies from the net are very aggressive in their persuits and the net keeps their biz on the down low. I have some friends that have actually found love on here. I surf the date site because about every two years i meet someone that really knocks my socks off. So it is like searching for a needle in a hay stack. But if you keep looking you will find any and everything that you are looking for they just might live a 1,000 miles away but they are in this world somewhere.
pittsburgh12	5/31/2010 2:26:13 PM your right Jenny - no matter what people think or say - people don't care they are going to do what they want to do because what it really boils down to it - nobody on here pays your or my bills so nobody has a say so on how I want to live my life as long as I live by the laws. Old saying " Either your impress by me or your not - has nothing to do with the way i will live my life."
skipper_doodle	5/31/2010 2:38:42 PM Walt sayz its the IT factor
lkavour92	5/31/2010 2:41:14 PM In the nineteenth centruy, couples exchanged letters, love letters of great tenderness and emotion, through the mails... sometimes for years. At times it worked out for the best and the couple would marry, or perhaps he was a soldier who did not make it home and all that were left were the letters, or she tired of waiting and married someone else...and he had only his"Dear Johns" left. This venue is similar in a way to those times, and the chances of finding true love, is rare as it is in real life also....But I am happy for the chance to get to know so many wonderful people I would have never met and thrilled to have found one....in the haystack....
olewolf	5/31/2010 3:23:37 PM lkavour92, . Never thought of it thay way but its a fact of history.My daddy always said be careful in the haystack....
sweetsugar57	5/31/2010 3:47:59 PM Roses, I think the internet is as good a way to meet someone as any other. Just keep your wits about you. I have many friends from the internet that Ive met in person. Many are still my friends. Both men and women. If I haven't met you yet, I plan to.
skipper_doodle	5/31/2010 4:11:09 PM As i always say.....keep yur powder DRY and yur panties DAMP!
nenebubbles	5/31/2010 5:23:27 PM Sure is a lot of talk about hay in the 50s and 60s lately. There are supposed rolls in the hay (Waltaz's IT) ... there are needles in the haystack ... and now there is THE ONE in the haystack. The problem seems to be in probability factors. Roses, enjoyed your blog very much!
rosesandsmiles	5/31/2010 5:26:19 PM Skipper keep your powder DRY and yur panties Damp! You are a hoot skipper. Sweetsugar I to have met quite a few wonderful friends on this site and one day I am going to meet my Teddy Bearwhen but it's going to happen. Ika, I am thrilled that you found your honny in the hay stack here, he is of the finest jewels as are you. Pitts you are real, I like the way you think. Jennyann, you always add class to any blogg that you comment on. Mslaugh and artyone thank you for your kind comments. Cats
rosesandsmiles	5/31/2010 5:30:50 PM Bubbles you slipped in on me. Thanks for your lovely comment also. Yep, lots of rolling in the hay. Lots of romance deriving from the hay
jackijo61	5/31/2010 6:34:20 PM Well stated. and oh so real.
harrybyvick online now!	5/31/2010 6:35:12 PM Well Rose&smiles this is about a lady who I watched really struggle on DH here cause she didn't know computers at all. She kept asking & kept trying her best many many times but now she has what I think is a pretty good profile. I have much more respect for a woman that puts that kind of effort than some one who has wonderful pictures and just won't even take the time or effort to fill in their profile simply because they aren't motivated enough. I worked in marketing so I did my profile in like less than 5 minutes plus had my pictures loaded in like 5 minutes. Lady I talked about has determination & to me that equals also character so we may meet soon
rosesandsmiles	5/31/2010 7:38:46 PM Jacki, thanks my friend. Harry that is great, I hope that the two of you do meet and that it goes well for youl
jennyann71	5/31/2010 8:06:33 PM Rose ""What tA sign of a """Lady with class"""" and no wonder you are so loved by all the DH's as you always thank everyone and never slight and leave any one out.""" My friend it is a pleasure to know You.