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by mis2riwoman at 6/1/2010 9:10:33 PM


hi folks,
i just found this site yesterday already i can see that it's addicting!
i'm lovin' it so far, lots of new & fascinating peeps to get to know.
i love brain pickin, getting to know others, etc
Here's my dilema, alot of guys that i dont even know at all want to get together NOW to meet. i mean, i dont feel comfy just giving out my email, phone # or stuff like that at this point.
i don't go meet guys that i don't know, i prefer to make friends first, develope some trust that they aren't freaks, ya know?
Why are folks so fast here?
zoooooooooooooom, zooooooooom, zooooooooom


Comments

harrybyvick
online now!
6/2/2010 3:28:48 AM

I like to switch to phone pretty fast but that is because you can find out so much more that way. I do some emailings but they start writing a novel & I just move on. I think for a woman slow is prudent & reasonable. Thoughts from Sunset lake

mis2riwoman
6/2/2010 4:26:28 AM

thankyou, Sunset Lake, some of the men here assume they can have your phone #, email, etc. right off the bat and i don't even have enough data about them to make an intelligent decision, lol i'm not a prude or anything, i just wanna play it safe. *eeeeazin into it*

catsmam76
6/2/2010 5:45:48 AM

It is of course totaly your choice how you approach this silly little place and you are wise to be cautious.To many people are accustomed to this fast paced modern world and if they don't understand your approach why they can just hop in the passing lane and zoom on by.....

jennyann71
6/2/2010 6:18:47 AM

Most people make it into a "Profession" of becoming a looker and talker """I for one like a man of action that follows through so watch for them? and you will find lots of women on here if you just want to chat?""""" So Of course all the losers{men have their 15 minutes of fame for the first time in their LIFE.""""" History is so interesting so go forth and have fun.

mslaugh
online now!
6/2/2010 6:49:43 AM

You will do fine; just trust your feelings. Lue

iamcyngl
6/2/2010 7:31:20 AM

Welcome...may I suggest you blog, enjoy the chat and interaction(it's the best way to get to know folks).....be as cautious as you would in real time when you meet someone here....good luck to you on your quest...be safe and have fun

1942t67
online now!
6/2/2010 11:00:03 AM

Yes, One thing I recently learned, don't jump into the pan until you find out more, you can be burned, just take it slow and easy . just go at your own pace or what truly feels comfortable for you. Welcome, best of luck and have fun.

mis2riwoman
6/2/2010 3:26:22 PM

THANKYOU all of you that took the time to put feedback here. then, i'm NOT just slooooooooooooow?

tiiger59
6/2/2010 4:11:35 PM

I am always curious,although when i start emailing (most of the time)i get one response and no more. People think just cause i look a certain way i am that person. oooooppppppssss! I like to conversate with folks,and no i amnot the brightest bulb in the pack,although i do light things up a bit! I say take your time and read carefully,and ask questions! Guys like me are usually set aside. Oh well! It's nice having you here anyways! You might see me about every once in a while??? Most of all enjoy your stay here,glad to have another beautiful woman around!

rustyacre
6/2/2010 9:47:38 PM

What in a hurry this aint NY their slow out here I think its the heat.I been on here six months and people still say oh its to soon.Besides that dog looks hungry.

mis2riwoman
6/2/2010 10:44:45 PM

yeh ny is alot faster than us, at LEAST 3 hours usually nah,seriously though, i N.Y., but still i prefer to go slow and steady.

1967_olds
6/3/2010 5:28:38 AM

If someone isn't committed to exchanging a few, or several, messages before meeting or talking on the phone, then there probably isn't going to be much chance of a friendship let alone a relationship developing. You’ve got to be in it for the long haul. Most of the online communication is a fizzle-fest, and obviously most people don’t read the profiles to find out what a person is looking for. - Jim

mis2riwoman
6/3/2010 9:05:25 AM

thankyou jim, btw psssst... nice horse!! i used to be a member of westside riders and did a lil barrel racing when i was a kid. i haven't mounted up in years.. ever take friends out riding? *hint*