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CAN SOMEONE HELP ME OUT PLEASE????? NEED ANSWERS!!!!
by sunshine71467 at 7/5/2010 10:03:57 AM
WHY IS IT PEOPLE ASK FOR HONESTY, TRUTHFULNESS, SINCERITY, BUT WHEN THEY GET IT, THEY CAN NOT HANDLE IT?
I am very open, honest, upfront, I do not hide behind anything, do not portray myself as something other then I am......but when I meet someone they CAN NOT HANDLE IT...Why? My pictures (6 months old) an information are current, the words I write are true, I am not perfect by far, have many many faults, but why cant someone in this HUGE world accept another as they are? I have learned through the dating site, not everyone is honest, (the ones I have met are dishonest or can not handle the truth or someone who is being extremely honest and upfront with them), sorry for me there is nothing beyond the fact they lied, why LIE? Why cant everyone accept themselves as who they are, an throw that out there, they may be quite surprised.....people normally accept others for their honesty above all else. The men I am meeting -- Can not handle honesty - In my life I have nothing to hide, I give a 10 minute rule when meeting - if that goes well - then move on to phase two...I believe in when someone ask you a questions then you answer them HONESTLY!!!! And, if by chance that I ask a Damn question -- Damn it I want an answer -- whether its GOOD or BAD.....Maybe its me and I am expecting too much, not sure.....
I guess I am from the old school, this dating ERA is beyond me, and any suggestions would so be greatly appreciated. I want the GOOD, the BAD and the UGLY, cause I am totally LOST here, and I really would appreciate it if someone can ANSWER just one of my many questions....One more thing to ponder ---- Everyone you meet in person are you attracted to? I would hope not, but its like that on the site, everyone that writes, expects return letters, but it may be something you wrote, or sometimes it is the picture, some are really old, or not current.....just being honest.......Thanks for all who have read this, I really do appreciate any feedback.......Have a great day!!!!! xoxoxoxo
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