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You'd be surprised how much people stereotype!!
by sxystar2010 at 9/8/2010 9:15:41 AM


Every time I mention being attracted to black men, white guys try to make it seem like a horrible thing!

I wish people would just grow up, it's 2010, try thinking for yourself........life would be a lot easier.........I promise!


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lostncountry
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9/8/2010 9:22:44 AM

just be yourself date who u like regardless of color and to hell with wat others think
asweetguy62



9/8/2010 9:22:48 AM

Race isn't the only thing they stereotype on. For the record if you orefer black men that is your choice don't let anyone else try to tell you that you are wrong for having that preference. They stereotype on alot of things around here. I just pretty much got called immature a pervert a pedophile and a dirty old man yesterday by another member because I'm 48 and dating a 23 y/o girl. I'm far from her sugar daddy and I'm not sleeping with her so I am far from a perv. I honestly love her as well as she loves me yet so many people want to make me into a bad person and her into a gold digger because they don't agree with the age gap. I wish you luck and don't let anyone tell you who you can and can't love. That's your choice and no one has a right to make it for you.

xsrvx
9/8/2010 9:29:08 AM

I agree. Date who you want to date and just ignore the fools that still live in the dark ages.

catsmam76
9/8/2010 9:29:20 AM

No I would not be surprised....This is not at all a surprise.Just remember you are on this site for YOURSELF not anyone else...
jayben9



9/8/2010 9:29:40 AM

Stereotyping is the easy way out. We don't have to think, and that is a shame.
pretty_moonpa



9/8/2010 9:33:21 AM

If they dont pay your bills they cant tell you what to do....now...why are you telling the white boys that you prefer black men??? to get a reaction??,,,if you dont want to date someone that asks you out, just say no thank you...you dont have to give an explanation....

jennyann71
9/8/2010 9:35:25 AM

For every action a re action first law of the universe.

catsmam76
9/8/2010 9:35:43 AM

Very true a little discretion goes a long way towards openning yourself to the ire of others..

catsmam76
9/8/2010 9:37:22 AM

For every action a thousand reactions where people are concerned,mostly negative on this site..lol..

cootneedslove
9/8/2010 10:08:55 AM

YOUR LIFE

harrybyvick
9/8/2010 10:17:27 AM

I have a neighbor that on rare occasion thinks she knows what my house needs done to it and she is a nosey mother so I ask her when was the last time she paid my house payment. After about 6 months she forgets again so I have to remind her. Some folks young lady you just have to be direct and tell them to butt out

uliveonce80
9/8/2010 10:45:30 AM

They might be stereotyping you, becuz of your profile! Obviously u are on here for attention, and u don't show much class in your profile!
sassysarah87



9/8/2010 11:29:03 AM

Amen Faithful. People need to mind their own damned business when it comes to who somneone else loves. if they aren't breaking any laws it is really none of anyones damned business who someone else chooses to date.

ctowncracka
9/8/2010 11:35:43 AM

Not sure it's stereotyping, ignorance, immaturity, or any of the above. The world is full of haters, everywhere you go. The more people that hate on me, the better I must be doing. If you have 2 haters today, your goal should be to have 4 tomorrow. I can't speak for everyone.. I admit I wasn't mad, upset, or whatever when I saw you only date black men.. more jealous than anything else, cause you never know what you might be missin out on by only dating "one" genre, so to speak, of person. Food for thought babygirl

bobcap1
9/8/2010 11:37:33 AM

I say do whatever is going to make you happy.But if you read your profile you state,you know how guys are on this site...ISN'T THAT STEROTYPING A GROUP OF PEOPLE,,Hmmmmmmmmmmm,

jandkray2
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9/8/2010 11:43:56 AM

Know your own heart & what you want out of this life..think out side of the box..It's your business, but this is an open site for everyone to leave a comment, if they agree or disagree with your decision..So grow a hard shell & let it bounce off if you don't like it...
raleighlooking



9/8/2010 12:05:25 PM

I they hathng u doing something right. Let them hate and move on. I get static all the time for dating whitd woman. I say do what makes you happy

shoohornoplenty
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9/8/2010 12:36:55 PM

I'm white, and I don't think that your preference is a bad thing at all.

shi2wild
9/8/2010 12:37:41 PM

uliveonce80 is prime example of the stupid white men out their. Angry because you wouldnt touch them with a ten foot pole.

hotthick1
9/8/2010 12:55:42 PM

i ONLY go out with black men... im just not sexually attracted to any other race... sorry guys... my preference
playboyace



9/8/2010 1:34:45 PM

i love any race...that shouldnt be a problem at all its 2010

livelaughlove07
9/8/2010 1:51:30 PM

I'm hoping you were drunk when you made this blog, because there's really no excuse for being this blatently retarded. This is probably the most hypocrytical thing I've seen since the Catholic Church. There is nothing wrong with having a preference in men, or even choosing to date one type of men, but when you start throwing around words like stereotype, it starts becoming pedantic. I'm glad to see that a few people in this world still have some common sense though, seeings as some people have already commented on the flaws of this post. I had almost forgotten how much stupid women piss me off.

ncgetdownnow
9/8/2010 2:21:08 PM

all of you are right DATE WHO YOU WANT, LIVE YOUR LIFE
sassysarah87



9/8/2010 2:22:51 PM

Ok here is a question for SXYSTAR2010 and if you don't want to answer that is fine but it's something to think about. Why do you prefer black men over white. I'm not picking on you for your preference. It's your life and your choice. I just curious that's all. I have a preference for significantly older men and have had this preference ever since I turned 18 (actually I had that preference even before then but I never pursued it while I was underage) When I say significantly older I am talking 35 and older. My reason for that preference is most guys I know under that age are little boys who never grew up and think everything revolves around sex.Once the majority of guys hit 35 they are stable enough to know there is more to life and a relationship than just f**king all the time. They are also more mature and treat their women alot better than their younger counterparts. That's just my opinion. So there has to be a reason why you prefer black men over white ones.

dancer70
9/8/2010 2:58:47 PM

@live, good answer. Couldn't have said it better myself. @sassy, I'm not sure why you have only come across immature men your age. Speaking for myself and my children., and all their friends. We all met and married in our 20's. All the men had good heads on their shoulders, they were mature and had goals.

devolt99
9/8/2010 3:02:47 PM

yea f**k tham.. who give a crap..

devolt99
9/8/2010 3:07:07 PM

than why the f**k you mention??i mean how many times have u mentioned??
kristinmarie82



9/8/2010 4:29:33 PM

Well i perfer white guys but my sis is the opposite and i have hated all her exes (white and black..a**holes!) but her husband (the black man...lol) is the best man ive ever met!! Live your life and love like 2moro isnt coming!
gothichippy



9/8/2010 5:20:45 PM

I agree that people should not stereotype and who a person dates is no one elses business. Everyome has the right ot make their own choices. But I do have to admit that uliveonce wasn't totally wrong. You may want to change the pics in your profile and not show so much of yourself. It just gives the guys you are complaining about ammunition for stereotyping you. Just a thought.

seventhsign09
9/8/2010 6:23:28 PM

Hey sxystar2010 why not make it a preference on you profile. Some women will put I like my meat like I like my chicken White meat only. I know that sounds tacky but on a serious note yes there are people who stereotype women/men. Good luck

kpthatsme
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9/8/2010 7:29:25 PM

you have to do what's right for you and not let others influence you. Your true friends will be your friends no matter what. The rest of them - who cares? don't worry about them

chavezsdaman
9/8/2010 9:06:39 PM

good thing m not white...lol.. i luv everybody

gabyoro
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9/8/2010 9:14:12 PM

I LOVE EVERONE 2

chavezsdaman
9/8/2010 9:24:40 PM

sweet!! hey gaby

priinc3ss
9/8/2010 11:47:14 PM

the white guys r jus mad cuz lot white grla now adays like blk or other race i get the same but i date lot mexicans but really i go out wit whoever i like no matter race, but lot times white guys c me wit a mexican n get pissed n talk shit so wat wat race u like it aint they life

sxystar2010
9/9/2010 7:06:22 AM

livelaughlove07 why so angry? people do stereotype, for example one guy asked me what could a "Black" guy do for me besides steal my car.........funny, my ex was a white guy and he got drunk and took my car once.....Haha! But anyways theres your example of a stereotype, black guys are just as good as white if not better Get over yourself little guy!
sociald86



9/9/2010 11:49:17 AM

Damn!.... why you all hatin on the aryan bros.? Lol.... I'm gonna stereotype all u as haters! Lol.... but some stereotypes r proven correct. Asians can't drive. Arabs smell, the french r pussies.... etc etc.... see? FACTS!!!!

changing_love
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9/9/2010 11:49:39 AM

AMEN TO THAT SXYSTAR! I LOVE ALL COLORS OF THE RAINBOW BABY!

vader17
9/9/2010 6:20:55 PM

Oh, you don't need to remind me of all the stereotypes. Just ignore them all. Don't let it bother you. You are you, nobody else'. Take control of YOUR life, and don't let them control you. By ignoring all the noise, you will be a lot happier. Yes, I've been there. Just a tip, I usually find a witty remark to counter any stereotypes if walking away isn't an option.

almost102
9/9/2010 6:28:56 PM

That's right beautiful date who you want. DO YOU.. FU*k what other people think.
johan25



9/9/2010 10:37:53 PM

We need to take people as individuals, every race/culture has good and bad people, being from l.a. I live amongst a ton of diversity and I live by the golden rule (treat people the way you want to be treated) I really do get along with most people at school/work! We are all human beings (I know I sound like a hippie, but it's true) live and let live!
rockinliz18



9/9/2010 11:42:39 PM

The heart wants what it wants, can't help it. if u like black men follow your heart not white guys who get jealous over who you choose as your partner

msneyshia34
9/10/2010 4:40:31 AM

Stereotype to me is Sony, Sanyo, Panasonic umm damn it is so many to name but i will rest at that...i hope you all get what i am saying that i do not feed into bullshyt...just let ignorant ppl be and you keep doing what makes you happy...

livelaughlove07
9/10/2010 2:52:03 PM

@sxystar I'm near positive that you're smoking crack at this point. If you go up a few posts and look at mine, you'll find that I never said that people don't stereotype, I only mentioned the fact that you happen to be stereotyping at the same time that you're accusing. I apologize if I used words that are past your vocabulary level, but I thought I made myself clear. And a well told story about one man stealing a car has absolutely nothing to do with the topic I was speaking of. What you've just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard. At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close to anything that could be considered rational thought. Everyone in this blog is now dumber for having read it. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul.

sxystar2010
9/10/2010 4:29:40 PM

@livelaughlove07 You are one angry little man!! Are you Jewish?
rockinliz18



9/10/2010 5:11:17 PM

No he's one jealous little shit
sociald86



9/13/2010 3:55:31 PM

Lmao!!!!! That was Billy Madison!!!!
brent_onhisbday



11/7/2010 11:06:16 AM

Well, I don't stereotype. For example, when you call someone your ex-boyfriend, I don't assume you've slept with him. I didn't prefer that you said that black men thing, it's what turned me off from your profile, even though I found you attractive. If you hadn't said that, I would have e-mailed you. I'm not white, and I'm not trying to make it a horrible thing, but the little guy is right: you went and got pedantic by using the word stereotype. After all, he had no way of knowing what a jerk that fool was to you... if in fact, he was being a jerk. Why don't you post the e-mail?