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~^~HOW CAN YOU LOVE SOMEONE IF YOU CANT LOVE YOURSELF~^~ by smokesquade at 11/29/2010 11:32:47 AM ITS A SHAME HOW BAD THIS WORLD LOOKS AT LOVE TODAY. I GREW UP AROUND REAL PEOPLE WHO VALUED THE WORD LOVE. IT HAD A MEANING BEHIND IT CAUSE LOVE WAS A TREASURE MOST PEOPLE CHERISHED. IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU BRING THE TRUTH TO THE TABLE AND SAY THIS IS WHO I AM. I LOVE ME SOME ME CAUSE I DONT SEE THE POINT OF LYING. IM ONE OF THE REALEST MEN YOU WILL EVER MEET. I AM ONLY 34 BUT IF YOU SAT AND TALK TO ME YOU WOULD NOT THINK SO CAUSE OF HOW CARRY MYSELF. EVERYONE IN MY LIFE ARE BLOWN AWAY CAUSE I AM SO MATURE AND DIFFERENT. I NEED TO BE HONEST TO BE ME. I LOOK AT BACK WHEN I WAS A KID AT THE OLDER COUPLES WHO WAS MARRIED FOR OVER 50+YRS AND SAID WOW I WANT THAT PERIOD. IT WAS SO UPLIFTING TO SEE THAT MUCH LOVE TO STILL GOING STRONG. I CAN HONESTLY SAY THIS WITH OUT A DOUT I NEVER HAD TRUE LOVE. ALL I AM SAYING IS BE HONEST PEOPLE STILL VALUE A RESPECTFUL PERSON. LOVE YOURSELF AND PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU. HONESTY HONESTY HONESTY

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thehardworker	11/29/2010 11:35:15 AM Word!
macdadyrev online now!	11/29/2010 11:35:34 AM you are an old soul, good blog. Remember it is what it is...
la_mas_chingona	11/29/2010 11:40:24 AM Very well said!
smokesquade	11/29/2010 11:42:48 AM TKS FELLAS IM JUST A REAL DUDE NO ADDED SUGAR NO DYE NUMBER 77 LOL JUST A REAL MAN THAT IS TIRED OF BOTH MEN AND WOMAN HURTING GOOD PEOPLE ITS SO FOUL CANT STAND IT ANYMORE IM NOT PERFECT BUT IM HONEST AS HELL I TELL IT LIKE IT IS AND HOW IT SHOULD BE BUT THEY DONT BUILD PEOPLE LIKE THIS ANYMORE ITS A LOT OF SELFISHNESS OUT HERE
jandkray2	11/29/2010 11:43:14 AM Hi, smoke...This was a wonderful blog & it really shows your maturity You are SO right, you have to love yourself before you can love someone else...But before all that can happen, you have to know what love is.... Kathy
smokesquade	11/29/2010 11:47:09 AM THX LA MAS I AM JUST BEING REAL AND JAND LOVE IS IN US ALL BUT IF YOU DONT APPRECIATE SELF LOVE YOU WILL NEVER SEE TRUE LOVE DAMN I NEED TO WRITE A BOOK LOL
macdadyrev online now!	11/29/2010 11:49:49 AM Dont get carried away Bro..
msmyka	11/29/2010 11:55:08 AM I agree but it's a little hard to read your blogs WHEN THEY ARE IN ALL CAPS LIKE THIS. I FEEL LIKE YOU'RE SHOUTING AT US.
pretty_moonpa	11/29/2010 11:56:20 AM Very nice to know who you are at 34...remember...life has a lot more to show you...I am in agreement that one must love themselves first before they can give or receive love....now where I have a disagreement with you is...just because someone has been married 50 yrs doesnt mean it was good...all it means is it was a generation that didnt give up all that easy..and when you were married,,,,,you couldnt go home again...thats all I am saying but trust in those who know...not everyone in a bad marriage carried it to the world.....so hold off on the book....unless your prepared for a sequal ....
dlb53	11/29/2010 11:56:52 AM VERY GOOD BLOG AND YOU DO HAVE AN OLD SOUL AND NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT @KATHY YOU ARE SO RIGHT MY FRIEND YOU REALLY NEED TO KNOW WHAT LOVE IS BEFORE IT CAN HAPPEN FOR YOU
smokesquade	11/29/2010 12:05:32 PM @ MSM I AM SORRY I WASNT PAYING ATTENTION BUT I DIDNT MEAN TO UPSET YOU OR ANYONE I DONT MEAN TO YELL THATS NOT WHO I AM SORRY I JUST WANTED IT TO BE BOLD @ PRETTY THANK YOU BUT I MEAN FAR AS BEING TOGETHER FOR THAT LONG WE DONT KNOW IF IT WAS A GOOD MARRIED OR NOT I MEANT BY THAT IS THEY STUCK TOGETHER THREW ALL THOSE YRS PEOPLE GIVE UP TO QUICK ITS LIKE DIVORCE IT THE NEW FAB @DLB PEOPLE TELL ME THAT ALL THE TIME CAUSE I REALLY BELEAVE I AM AN OLD SOUL CAUSE I AM NOT LIKE MOST 34 YEAR OLDS
cootneedslove	11/29/2010 12:06:41 PM YOU CAN`T !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
smokesquade	11/29/2010 12:09:47 PM i cant what hun i keep for getting to take my caps off sorry everyone i didnt mean to upset you all please forgive me
msmyka	11/29/2010 12:11:27 PM I'm not upset at all no worries. It's just hard to read.
smokesquade	11/29/2010 12:13:55 PM i will remember that next time my friend stay sweet and beautiful
achelosis	11/29/2010 12:48:44 PM That was very deep Smoke. I can understand what you are saying. I think people sometimes try and mislead us not because they are cruel, but because they are afraid. It's kinda sad. I do completely agree that if you don't love and respect yourself...you have no hope of doing it for someone elce. Stay strong in the struggle Smoke...your Goddess awaits you....somewhere. xoxo
smokesquade	11/29/2010 3:00:25 PM thanks achelosis i just try to be myself and thats all i can be
calildy online now!	11/29/2010 6:48:37 PM SmokeI enjoy reading your blogs. Very insightful.
mattymann63	11/30/2010 11:21:01 AM smoke well said brother I'm 24 yes considerably young but I can relate I am the oldest of 2 children and my parents and grandparent (on both sides) are still married and happy. Yet my brother has been divorced already at 23 and mad at the world I know it's not all his or her fault but what's the deal. People do not have open minds and loving hearts like they use to. One day you and everyone out there will eventually find the one who lifts you away from anything that bothers or hurts you. Keep your head up and keep on the right track that everyone sees you are on. Keep faith brother
smokesquade	11/30/2010 12:19:20 PM thx cali i appreciate that just being myself @matty brother they dont make people like this anymore its like we are loosing the battle
mattymann63	12/1/2010 5:25:15 AM I feel you man it's neverending but in the long run the right one will be standing in your path. It will all work out, time is what we need to learn our lessons in life and love.