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Sext Hell by vickyxoxo at 4/5/2011 6:18:55 AM i don't like sending sexts, since i feel they always come back to bite the sexter in the ass. so until a few days ago i never sent one. i have a FWB that i wanted to see this weekend but he said he couldn't say whether he could make time for me or not which i took to mean he's saving those weekend slots for something more promising. so i decided to take two pictures of me in the new thong i bought and send them to him in an effort to persuade him. he never even bothered replying! so i text him the next morning and he tells me "the pics were nice but i was too tired to talk" i felt like shit. i know it was trashy of me to do but it was my first sext and i thought it would be appreciated. guess not. so i told him to make time for someone else this weekend, i'm not going to see him. i'm hanging out with someone else.

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soblond	4/5/2011 7:00:05 AM We all make bad judgement calls sometimes. Guy sounds like a jerk anyway sweetie. Forgive yourself and move on.
geritol69	4/5/2011 7:01:19 AM he was a fool .you can send me those pics anytime..
arcturus1	4/5/2011 7:16:28 AM Don't make a priority of someone who makes you an option. Sounds like he either is not interested or has found someone else.
vickyxoxo	4/5/2011 7:49:21 AM the funny thing is that HE asked me to hang out with him. and when i asked him when he said " i can't promise anything." i dont get why he would mess with my feelings like that. im his friend and the benefits are nice but im not in the friendships for the benefits. and for him to say he wants to hang out with me and when i show interest back out makes me feel like trash. so yes lesson learned. i thought it would be appreciated, especially since he knows i don't do things like that.
bluecat73	4/5/2011 7:55:46 AM Hang out with me! I'll be your FWB any time!
goober04	4/5/2011 8:43:23 AM I agree with Arc.
vickyxoxo	4/5/2011 8:51:20 AM thanks for ur advice arc. Im already done with that. I told him i cant make him want to see me and i think he's just stringing me along getting my hopes up so i wont go out with someone else. Little does he know i figured hed back out so i made plans anyway. Lol
vickyxoxo	4/5/2011 8:56:01 AM and thanks so blond. Im done with the whole fwb thing. Too much drama
61falcon	4/5/2011 10:15:53 AM Come easy go easy!
msmyka	4/5/2011 10:25:19 AM It's not trashy hun, don't be so hard on yourself. You weren't showing him anything he hasn't already seen. Sounds like he's got another lady or he's gay.... why else would he turn you down?
cuban_leo	4/5/2011 11:05:52 AM If u want something serious from a man do not do a fwb because that's exactly what it is, I understand how u feel in the sense he won't make time and he is an a** but you guys are not technically together so u have no right to get mad, if you're going to do that u just need to find someone on your level who isn't trying to get the benefit without giving you a little time.
vickyxoxo	4/5/2011 11:12:42 AM im not mad that he's making time for other girls. i dont expect a relationship from him. i just wanted to have some fun this weekend so when he asked if i wanted to hang out i was hoping we would. then he started acting like he didnt want to which is why i sent the pictures. i fully understand what FWB is. im not wanting anything serious. i was just disappointed that i received such a lackluster response. you'd think a guy would be ecstatic to get a text of a girl wearing a thong but i guess not. thank you mr. lover and myka.
romeo_suave	4/5/2011 11:35:35 AM Lmfao
luckyirishman91	4/5/2011 4:15:51 PM he a stright dumb a** to let u lose someone as beautiful as u