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Music to contemplate by before you comment on a blog
by josephfromabove at 12/27/2011 10:35:01 AM


I have noticed how many will make harsh sometimes cruel remarks on someone else's blog, by passing judgement upon them unnecessarily. This musical interlude by Mozart is to contemplate what you are doing before you type out a remark that could prove embarassing to you

Comments
kona_queen



 12/27/2011 10:40:24 AM

joseph.

sireena 		12/27/2011 10:42:03 AM

Maybe the problem is that some people don't have a sense of humor? Those that are thin skinned probably shouldn't blog if comments that don't reinforce their thoughts upset them....
67mistyeyes



 12/27/2011 12:39:09 PM

Bible says to not be easily offended. We shouldn't wear our feelings on our shoulders. But too, we should be aware of things we say as to not 'deliberately' provoke somebody to anger. I clown a lot and sometimes people take it the wrong way. It's not intentionally done to upset anybody but like has been said, people need to lighten up and have a sense of humor.
heart714



 12/27/2011 12:47:54 PM

when you cause pain to someone else, wheter it be physical or emotional pain....thats where you draw the line!jmho...

josephfromabove 		12/27/2011 1:07:02 PM

Excellent comments, hello Ann, and Dayle hope you are both well, and healthy. I do not get angry, or upset over any comments, and always seek a solution to their questions, Roxy. Dayle you are a very nice lady, and I always have been concerned of your well being, and stil am. Patience to all who have not found romance yet, and caution to those who beleive they have, sometimes many will view this as a weakness, and take full advantage of the situation, and try to leave only an empty shell as it is they who have started out that way trying to steal your self esteem. Macho men usually have their own egos in mind in all relationships, and use them to their advantage until it no longer is beneficial to them, then it is destroy, and abandon time for them to keep their ego afloat. Some women are this way too unfortunately, and it makes this world a very cold place to live. So why not warm it up, and come out of the darkneess, and try again to love.
67mistyeyes



 12/27/2011 1:23:31 PM

Clowning is not being macho .. or egotistical. I make many people laugh and never set out to intentionally hurt anybody. I love and love deeply. There was a time in my life I would not look at you or speak because I was crushed so but when I found me and then found God, He started working on this piece of junk. Now, I wake up with a smile and go to bed with a smile. Does everything always go my way, no... Do people always say the right things .. no... Love is not easily puffed up either .. when you have the love of God like you should there wouldn't be all these ill feelings floating around ... or fake people claiming to be something they aren't who get fighting mad when they are found out ... (and that is not directed at 'any ONE' person ---just in general).... We all hide behind a Mask at some point and time in our daily walk to keep from getting hurt ... but I don't go about trying to tear somebody's mask off .. just put a smile on it .. I am who I am ... I stand alone (with God) .. I am out to please nobody but Him.. but am just a nobody trying to reach somebody and share a little humor and a smile.... take or leave it ... accept it or crush it .. makes me no difference....

josephfromabove 		12/27/2011 4:01:26 PM

Mistyeyes I have read your comment, and do not see how it applies to my blog, perhaps you can enlighten me as to who you are since your profile is invisible, and none can read it. My profile is public, and I have not any mask on, nor do I make any pretense to who I am. You speak in generalities, and do not speicify exactly what you mean to express, are you upset, or angry at someone? I do not beleive I made any comments about clowning, but machismo is not clowning it is ego-centric, and destructive to those who come in contact with a overly pumped up individual who can not see the sun because his lips are in the way of his eyes. That comment is not directed towards you but all of the macho creeps on here that have hurt innocent sweet ladies on here, and move on to more victims. If you would like to talk about this, then email me, and we will.

lkavour92		 12/27/2011 4:09:48 PM

In some future evolution (maybe not so far in the future) these sites and even the blogs will be "video camed" Conversations between bloggers and posters will be just like sitting around a table. Inflection in tone, and facial expression will be "out there" for all to see arond the table. I just know that we will be ever so much more polite and civilized in that venue than we seem to be in in some our posts and blogs now.

josephfromabove 		12/27/2011 4:13:27 PM

I see your point lkavour92, and your logic is undeniable.
heart714



 12/27/2011 8:57:49 PM

joe, thank you for your words, and you are a wise man, because you hit the nail right on the head about what i went through!...but im still here and there is noone that i will allow to break my spirit!...i am stronger than that!!!
67mistyeyes



 12/27/2011 10:18:14 PM

I don't need behind the scene emails . . . I was only bringing out that sometimes people say things because they are.teasing/clowning/joking . . However you want ro put it . . And they only do it to make people laugh . . No intentions of hurting anybody . . Laughter does the soul good . .

josephfromabove 		12/28/2011 7:16:25 AM

Point well received mistyeyes, but does laughter do the soul great?

lkavour92		 12/28/2011 3:30:37 PM

I might add that this selection of music is a nice one to start the day with....coffee i hand and "Musing" on the mind....

josephfromabove 		12/28/2011 5:24:20 PM

Define "Musing"

lkavour92		 12/28/2011 5:54:35 PM

for me "musing" is gently letting the days responsibilities drift around in there...making a half attempt to prioitize what should be first second etc...then chuckling to myself, (knowing who I REALLY am) sipping at my coffee and letting my mind wander to thoughts of how classical music really IS nice...How good it is to be of an age where the weight of other peoples well being is no longer my responsibility, How belssed I am to be able to "Flag" whatever project I find too worrisome or laborious. Life is good with coffee in hand music on the screen and gentle thoughts in the head...

josephfromabove 		12/28/2011 8:33:37 PM

And who are you REALLY? A cracker, or hacker, or just an every day person, or someone very special to all of the events of the world?

lkavour92		 12/29/2011 9:07:14 AM

I suppose if qualify as "just an everyday person"

josephfromabove 		12/29/2011 2:51:54 PM

Enjoy your day lkavour92, I have enjoyed your intelligent, insightful comments.