| 8/1/2007 1:21:03 PM |
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uga80
Snellville, GA
age: 50
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Dude this may sound drastic BUT....Shave your head...Grow a Go-Tee ...and when you have a woman notice you and wanna talk, act as though it is no big deal and don't really show any interest...even say hi and walk away for awhile....It will drive her crazy and she will come back later because women are used to guys falling all over them, making idiots of themselves, saying how pretty she is...blah blah blah and they are much more interested if you make it a challenge by doing the opposite of what all the other guys do.
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| 8/2/2007 6:09:35 PM |
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silentsporty
Atlanta, GA
age: 23
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In most cases, I do agree nice guys finish last. But it is understandable. I feel I am a nice person, and yet haven't been in a relationship yet. I really haven't been looking all that much though. But nice guys have a hard time getting a woman normally because the nice guys hides behind the bush while the other guys just go out and be hunting around. And there are not many ladies who will go into the bush and snag the nice guy out of there. The nice guys have to get out of the bush and throw themselves out there. People can still do some bad things and still be a nice guy. Most nice guys have a flare in them somehow. I think it is how we bring it out to the woman perhaps?
(Sorry if this confused you, lol)
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| 8/2/2007 6:12:04 PM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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hey silent, I really liked that one..time to say "ok mr nice guys... outta the damn bushes" xD
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| 8/2/2007 6:17:06 PM |
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knightnyte2
Spring, TX
age: 54
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human nature seldom changes.
those of us,,, who consider themselves nice guys are tipically the givers in life. Those who think themselves the bad guys are the takers. Women want the giver with the bad guy 'tudes. Doesnt work that way, never will. The gals think.. i can tame that man when actually he is one of those bed post knotches. He might tolerate you.. but he doesnt give a chit about you.
nice guys on the other hand, would put you on a pedestal and treat you like a queen.
never has changed.. never will.
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| 8/2/2007 6:23:56 PM |
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sumbeach063
Columbia, SC
age: 44
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Nice I'm so sick of hearing why you poor men, the so called nice ones can't get a woman...IM a nice woman, and i try to find nice men, and its all about what they want. I don't ask for much, just don't f*cking lie to me is that too much to ask.....If you think im to heavy say so, Or what ever the reason you wont talk to me, be a man and tell me , just dont shut me out...
I have a heart too, but I guess its not worth a shit....Oh well the story of my life....
JMFO again.....Beach
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| 8/2/2007 6:28:21 PM |
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silentsporty
Atlanta, GA
age: 23
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Thanks peaches! It would be better to just walk over to pull them out gently instead of using a weed whacker to it! lol
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| 8/2/2007 7:35:17 PM |
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karateki639
Red Oak, TX
age: 42
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How true how true
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| 8/3/2007 1:58:01 AM |
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huggybear33
Glendale, AZ
age: 49
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they deleted my forum cause guess goes under here anyway.im a real good nice guy in phx that cant get anybody nice cute intersted , what a good catch i am but i struggle so bad in datg scene and dont know why . i never did drugs /.never alcohilic/ never loser , always job car . never hit argue\\. never play games i do what i say. but women dont seem interested or lose interest sooner or later any suggestions advise and dont say looks cause told cute ones i did meet ps im 48 in phx az . have guess my kids that visit or my profile spelling what try to hard what
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| 8/3/2007 2:07:24 AM |
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eric5150
Ben Wheeler, TX
age: 23
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quite simply...they all have one thing in common. among other things they want to be Mentally stimulated.
Next to that they dont want a pushover. they want someone who is Nice polite and all but they want someone that can call their ass when they know they are stepping out of Bounds. they want you to be a real man... You want to see the definition of a real man...check out the new testiment. dont care what You think of it. it took one Heck of a man...thats all i am going to say.
they want to be able to have a good banter. a good match. someone that loves them after the fight...I will go and think more on this perhaps i will be more eliquant when i have not been awake for 22 hours
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| 8/3/2007 2:40:51 AM |
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eric5150
Ben Wheeler, TX
age: 23
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and I am sorry as well. But not all women want the money. they do want finacial stability.
but, that is not the whole of it. there are some women out there that do not think all about the Benjimans. and if they are. I fell good in calling them useless, unattractive brats. if most of your big conversations are about money and how much you dont have. Your with the equiviant of a leach.
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| 8/3/2007 2:54:24 AM |
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sumbeach063
Columbia, SC
age: 44
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I am sorry Eric it is all about money the more you got the more they want and it doesn't matter if you are nice or not. It seems that a lot of the nice guys out there just put themselves in the spot to abused and women love to walk all over this type of man because it makes them feel superior.
I know this statement is wrong, tho it is your opinion, It is not true.I am not like that never have never will be...I love making my own monies, I've been working for many years now, And started as young as 9yrs old baby sitting. And many other jobs, to help me father , And I have had 3 jobs and still took care of my own children, so the next time tho it is still your opinion,think about all of US other women that have been working our asses to death to make ends meat, with out the help of any man.. Maybe then you will see we are human too.........JMO beach.....
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| 8/3/2007 3:37:41 AM |
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theviking
Dahlonega, GA
age: 54
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Always Remember: Life is like a shit sandwich......the more bread you got the less shit you gotta eat!
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| 8/3/2007 4:48:42 AM |
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eric5150
Ben Wheeler, TX
age: 23
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Hey...beach is Finally under me...LOL YEAH! JK
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| 8/3/2007 5:06:01 AM |
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eric5150
Ben Wheeler, TX
age: 23
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We are saying not all women do that. there are good women and bad women and good men and bad men. and...those that are somewhere in between...those are good and bad too.
If you are speaking of a specific refrence. then that is understandible. however much regretible. but the actions of one do not reflect the actions of many. it is like women who sit together with their freinds and make the "all men are this and that." are we all assholes? I know I can be...but that does not mean all men are. My ex left me after using me to pay for a trip to virginia. after 19 hours straight through back to texas she hands My ring back to me. there is a lot more to the story. but I dont feel like sharing that much with strangers. the point is. she is not every woman (I dont care what operas theme song used to be) I know My mother used to work her ass off as a nurse...never cared how much a guy made as long as he treated her right. so, the line of thinking you are in right now will make it VERY difficult to find a woman,,,its lust like the annoying women screaming "Im independent I dont need ANY man" the men think..."okay ill just go look elsewhere" or In my own case I see having a social party being the only one there and having to listen to man bashing...then they wonder why they cant get a man....same with this line of thinking. You bash the opposite sex openly dont expect to get a good response.
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| 8/3/2007 6:47:13 AM |
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graphixskid
Hialeah, FL
age: 20
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haha what world r u from? thats bull.
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