| 5/30/2008 10:23:34 PM |
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love_so_sweet
Rialto, CA
age: 22
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I have a cousin who lost her viginity to her long time boyfirend of 5 years. Now he is calling her a cheater because she did't bleed which is crap because when I lost mine I didn't either. IS it normal not to????
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| 5/30/2008 10:24:12 PM |
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baja_h2x
Postville, IA
age: 19
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Maybe he had a tiny penis
BTW...you're very pretty
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| 5/30/2008 10:25:02 PM |
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love_so_sweet
Rialto, CA
age: 22
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ok well my first time guy wasnt tiny whats ur answer to that
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| 5/30/2008 10:25:11 PM |
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lioness_nikki
San Diego, CA
age: 28 online now!
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it's totally normal not to bleed. Nothing wrong with her.
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| 5/30/2008 10:26:15 PM |
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baja_h2x
Postville, IA
age: 19
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idk im not a doctor...
Some people bleed some people dont..
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| 5/30/2008 10:28:20 PM |
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love_so_sweet
Rialto, CA
age: 22
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and thank u for the comment
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| 5/30/2008 10:29:59 PM |
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angel_devil85
Stillwater, OK
age: 23
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I bleed very little when I lost mine..It really just depends...like did she use a toy alot..or her boyfriend on her...before? Cause when you bleed its just breaking the "cherry" or cervix wall..and toys can do it and you not realize it!
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| 5/30/2008 10:32:45 PM |
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love_so_sweet
Rialto, CA
age: 22
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I bleed very little when I lost mine..It really just depends...like did she use a toy alot..or her boyfriend on her...before? Cause when you bleed its just breaking the "cherry" or cervix wall..and toys can do it and you not realize it!
no she didn't use anything his penis was the first thing in there
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| 5/30/2008 10:33:36 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 47
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Is he looking for a gusher or something??? I think a few people have different ideas on what to expect and each woman is different. I know a few men who thought women gushed when Aunt Flo came to visit. I did set them straight 
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| 5/30/2008 10:34:01 PM |
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love_so_sweet
Rialto, CA
age: 22
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I bleed very little when I lost mine..It really just depends...like did she use a toy alot..or her boyfriend on her...before? Cause when you bleed its just breaking the "cherry" or cervix wall..and toys can do it and you not realize it!
she didnt even use tampons besause of the reason
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| 5/30/2008 10:35:44 PM |
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pleasurepirate
Shreveport, LA
age: 47
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Interesting question. I'll be interested in reading the answers, especially from women and people in the medical field. I believe a lot of girls' hymen's break prior to penetration from any number of things including falls, fingering, and horseback riding.
In many Latin American countries, bleeding on the wedding nite is a very big deal so many girls don't even use tampons. Long ago, I dated a Venezuelan exchange student and all she would do is oral and anal sex for that reason. She went on to marry a guy down there "from a good family," delivered the goods on their wedding nite and now has lots of kids and grandkids.
If you want to read something interesting, Google hymenoplasty or hymen restoration.
Btw, sounds like may have a guilty conscience of his own, or he might just be an insecure little shit.
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| 5/30/2008 10:39:52 PM |
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lioness_nikki
San Diego, CA
age: 28 online now!
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I bleed very little when I lost mine..It really just depends...like did she use a toy alot..or her boyfriend on her...before? Cause when you bleed its just breaking the "cherry" or cervix wall..and toys can do it and you not realize it!
it's not the cervix wall. it's a tiny sheath of skin that covers the inner vaginal opening. It's called the hymen...and many girls who play sports, ride bikes a lot, (or horses, like me) do not bleed because the micro thin hymen has already been torn. (I'll bite my tongue on this one) Ummm...Muslim...cultures use a handkerchief or a towel to break a woman's hymen before marriage. If she bleeds, she's a virgin...if not, she is shamed.
Pirate's version is correct, too.
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| 5/30/2008 10:47:27 PM |
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scottt39
Ocean View, HI
age: 45
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nikki do you ride bare back and if not would you like to
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| 5/30/2008 11:16:09 PM |
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lioness_nikki
San Diego, CA
age: 28 online now!
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nikki do you ride bare back and if not would you like to
Scotty...I have even jumped over fences bare back with no bridle...only thing controlling that horse is my leg pressure.
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| 5/30/2008 11:20:41 PM |
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usakindatheart
Overton, TX
age: 47
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i get this question a lot from patients.
1. she has a very short vagina, and her Tampax broke it, some times the skin is farther down, (closer to the outside opening)
2. she was having fun at a young age her self, and broke it with her own fingers , or toys
3. i have seen 5 year old girls tell me how their mommy caught them putting a crayon up their pee pee, little girls have yet to distinguish the two openings as different.
4. she was molested when she was younger, and does not remember it.
5. accident, most common is the banana seat of girl bikes, the ending of it just shove up, there or handle bar, after a wreck.
trauma straddling a tree limb, teeter toter, fence, falling on it.
horse , the first thoracic vertebrae at the bottom of the neck reaching the scapula and clavicle and ribs. the large bump that goes under a saddle horn.
6. a hymen can be straight across, very thick, with very little capillarities going through it, when she does have any blood, it could just be a smear , and not come out until the next day, so very little very light light pink.
a hymen could be like a curve going up or down toward the opening, that can stretch up to 4 inches, their are women who have had sex with 3, o 4 inch penises , that have never reached their hymen... because it is not only at cervix opening, it curves up into the cervix. latter when they have had sex with very long penises , it is broken and the experience is very painful, because of the pubis bone and the muscle arrangement of the cervix.
7. hymen could be so thin, and whisper, half broken already, with just a thing tissue connecting the sides. so little capillaries.
8.she could be born with out one. it is extremely rare, in Africa , if a girl did not bleed they were thought to be part of evil spirits and were killed....
the horrible part of this ignorance, is that it still is practiced there in remote villages.
9. some girls are so thick, it feels like they are torn apart, and the numerous capillaries can extend deep to the veins of the vagina or cervix, and bleed to the point of which they have to see a gynecologist to have it stopped.
if you find a ignorant man, have him go with you to the gynecologist and let her set him straight... those men always come out shaking their heads after we get through with them. we bring out plastic models and everything. i have been known to give them play doe, to make a vagina. and tell me their parts. i am so mean....lol
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