5/31/2008 6:28:06 AM |
Is sex with your ex ever ok? |
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browncypress
Queensland
Australia
age: 52
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Let's face it- better the devil you know.... and because you know your way around your ex' body, used to be a navigated pleasure zone- you know which knob to turn and go straight for the thrill. But sex with your ex is against the rules. It's bad for you, your friends will lecture you about it, and your mother dear will be horrified. If you already spent ages to get over your ex, then having sex with him again( even if he says it's no big deal-just want to be near you whatever the cost!)then jumping into bed with him again is likely to set your healing process back... way back.If your ex truly cares about your feelings will offer a hug,rather than a hump. He knows that if you are in a weakened state, doing the deed is more likely be destructive than orgasmic.Most importantly of all it's never going to be easy for your new boyfriend to accept your ex, and it's going to be a lot worse if he knows you two continued to have a physical relationship after breaking up. Men are after a strong resolute girlfriend- one that will tell her ex to look elsewhere for sex.
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5/31/2008 6:34:13 AM |
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major_tom
Brooklyn, NY
age: 42 online now!
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Not really a bad thing, & it depends on the status & nature of your post breakup relationship weith the ex.
I continued having sex with an ex I was with for nearly 4 years. I was her first & only one she felt comfortable with. But we mutually agreed we grew out of the relationship as bf & gf. Both were in or early 20's & wanted to experience with others,etc. All the while stil caring about the other
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5/31/2008 6:42:47 AM |
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oldmanrocker
Gladstone, OR
age: 47 online now!
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I did once but opened up a can of worms that I wasn't expecting (she started getting ideas & expectations that I wasn't into) So I would say ... NO WAY!!!!!!
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5/31/2008 6:46:32 AM |
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cece123
Madison Heights, MI
age: 47
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Yeah.. if it means getting back with him.. Id do it... and he seek council afterwards.
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5/31/2008 8:10:51 AM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 47
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There was a reason why someone is an X and sex does not make it okay. It can make it worse ...yuk. Makes me wanna puke thinking about it
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5/31/2008 8:14:11 AM |
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tkat101
Alexandria, VA
age: 50
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Excuse me if this sounds crude, but No f*cking way!!!!!!!!!!!
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5/31/2008 8:15:30 AM |
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seth__89
Somerset, KY
age: 19
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If u need to get laid and don't mind getting hurt again (don't worry after the first time or second time it hurts less and less), go 4 it
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5/31/2008 8:22:20 AM |
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unc005
Seagrove, NC
age: 25 online now!
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There was a reason why someone is an X and sex does not make it okay. It can make it worse ...yuk. Makes me wanna puke thinking about it
Ditto!
That shit usually comes back to bite you in the ASS, BIG time!
unc
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5/31/2008 8:25:21 AM |
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mikesfunfarm
North Kingstown, RI
age: 55 online now!
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Sex with ex is a four letter word.........HURT
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5/31/2008 8:28:46 AM |
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angelleyess
Middleboro, MA
age: 35 online now!
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not just no but HELL NO!!!!
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5/31/2008 8:30:38 AM |
Is sex with your ex ever ok? |
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rosesandlolipop
Monticello, KY
age: 48
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I believe never turn back move on, so my answer would be no.
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5/31/2008 8:46:10 AM |
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haloguy
Orlando, FL
age: 36
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Im going through this right now my ex showed up last night and this morning, I havent been with her in 6 years now, and I have said no both times but I have to admit it is tough saying no, especially if smeone is ready and waiting, but I'll stick with no for now, and kick myself later for it
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5/31/2008 9:42:09 AM |
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slutpuppy22
Mobile, AL
age: 46
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id hit it if a ex showed up afterall it is only sex and id make sure they knew it
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5/31/2008 9:58:45 AM |
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12rugger
Morganville, NJ
age: 31
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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5/31/2008 10:13:13 AM |
Is sex with your ex ever ok? |
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sweetcheetah
Orlando, FL
age: 37 online now!
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My ex and I had awesome sex! He knew the right things to do in the bedroom! He knew how to control me and take what he wanted. We agreed to do the sex thing BUT it turned into him telling me he loved me again, wanted to hear me say the words also, that he wanted to know where I was when I wasn't with him. Why didn't I answer the phone when he called....(The main reason why I broke up with him in the 1st place) So....I broke all ties with him.
On the other hand, I am still good friends with another ex. We are better off as friends but I'm sure him and I will have sex again!
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