| 8/31/2008 11:06:31 AM |
Are there any guys out there that don't judge a woman on her looks? |
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hayday
Round Lake, IL
age: 58
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remember beauty is only skin deep.
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| 8/31/2008 7:17:56 PM |
Are there any guys out there that don't judge a woman on her looks? |
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ididntseeit
Kiel, WI
age: 33
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I don't mind women that are a little over weight. Most women I talk to have had kids and the weight just stuck with them. I have a hard time with women who are a lot overweight though. I'm a small guy and it doesn't matter the weight of the women I am with, I have heard the phrase "I just think I'm going to break you" one too many times.
Best of luck to you!
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| 9/1/2008 6:43:40 AM |
Are there any guys out there that don't judge a woman on her looks? |
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mrq423
Racine, WI
age: 55
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I just need to be 6 ft. tall - and everything would be proportionate then. 
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| 9/4/2008 11:35:24 PM |
Are there any guys out there that don't judge a woman on her looks? |
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joe5180
Thiensville, WI
age: 68
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Yes, but takes years to get over what we learn as young people.
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| 9/5/2008 7:27:44 AM |
Are there any guys out there that don't judge a woman on her looks? |
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retired_gent
Aleksinac
Yugoslavia
age: 88
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In response to your question, Yes. If you take the time to build the foundation, the structure will stand for many years to come. However, if you attempt to build on unstable ground, the building will not last.
What this means; Your outer shell can and will change over time for many reasons. Be it childbirth, health or old age. Your potential mate will experience similar changes such as the ever increasing tummy bulge. Do these changes mean anything? Not really, as a relationship is built on a firm and solid foundation of understanding, trust and love. Skimp on the preliminary work to your foundation basics, and soon your relationship will fail. Take the time required to build it strong and it will last forever.
As for those who are so shallow as to make rude comments towards a Lady that is overweight, they should be viewed as nothing more than a total bore. "Gentleman", they are not. Disregard them and hold strong for the one that will begin with the basics of relationship building, I assure you it will be well worth the effort.
I wish you luck and God's speed in your search.
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| 9/5/2008 8:17:48 AM |
Are there any guys out there that don't judge a woman on her looks? |
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drub22boy
Kaukauna, WI
age: 32
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There's a little thing called the human psyche. A lot of guys don't like bigger girls and that's the way it is. We don't always just pick and choose who we are attracted to. People have abstract minds and think semantically. If a person doesn't tip the scale well enough, pun intended, then they don't measure up. Guys like their visuals, everybody knows this, so it's critical to give them something to see. It's really quite straight forward, there's no mystery to men. A lot of guys like to keep active, and dream about a girl that can physically keep up--there's never been more opportunity to do these things, and it only seems rational to keep these opportunities open. Competition is extreme, everyone is stubborn and picky, so making adjustments might be the thing to do. Shallow? The very concept of shallow is shallow. The world doesn't revolve around you and could care less about your perspective. It isn't rocket science--drink water, eat apples, take your vitamins and minerals, and exercise a little. Just promise not to go on a revenge tear when you're glowing, happy and feel great--blaming people is utterly futile. You think otherwise, then you're fighting human nature and we all know how that goes. Now, less talk~more action.
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| 9/5/2008 3:38:55 PM |
Are there any guys out there that don't judge a woman on her looks? |
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emt854again
Appleton, WI
age: 54
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I dont think its how you look but rather how you carry yourself. Self esteem is a big part of who you are and how you carry yourself. Be Proud! walk with your head up and dont be afraid of smiling. Self confidence is a bigger attraction than the outside appearance.
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| 9/7/2008 12:31:20 AM |
Are there any guys out there that don't judge a woman on her looks? |
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itsmelinnie
Kenosha, WI
age: 42
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To answer your question, yes there are actually men who see the entire picture and those men are the ones who will truely be deserving of your time and attention. Honestly though we all have things that attract us and things that don't. I heard it put quite well in a statement that I can relate to...it was something to the extent of comparing it to a pineapple. Some people like pineapple....some people don't like pineapple, either way there is nothing wrong with the pineapple itself only each persons own personal taste. So remember you are the pineapple there is nothing wrong with you just some people don't care foe pineapple while others do. As far as finding those men who like BBW's look at Tango wire they have a BBW site just for men and women who are drawn and attracted to more than just an outter shell or who simply find a big beautiful woman attractive. Good Luck....never forget good things come to those who wait....don't be in a hurry and don't rush.
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| 9/7/2008 10:48:09 AM |
Are there any guys out there that don't judge a woman on her looks? |
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sweetmontecarlo
New Berlin, WI
age: 46
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Woman, You cant worry about what man think. You know the saying there are 2 side of the street. If they dont like what they see let them walk on the other side. You walk proud and men will see that you have a good heart and would care about anything else. This world has a hard time getting along with each other we have no time worrying about what ANYONE thinks about us. Just love yourself.
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| 9/10/2008 7:32:29 AM |
Are there any guys out there that don't judge a woman on her looks? |
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candylicker42
Sheboygan, WI
age: 42
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CAN WE ALL JUST GET ALONE sDo what makes you laugh,and stay away from the shi-t that makes you cry.
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| 9/19/2008 12:16:35 AM |
Are there any guys out there that don't judge a woman on her looks? |
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wantobe
Evansville, WI
age: 43
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Well my profile say I am not looking for BBW. I rather be honest so that I am not wasting anybody time or effort. However what am I doing this weekend I am meeting someone who is built for comfort and not speed. What made me decide to go out with her was not her looks but her peronality and to me that was more important. Her approach was kind and caring that won me over.
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| 9/19/2008 10:41:25 AM |
Are there any guys out there that don't judge a woman on her looks? |
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wisbadger
Stevens Point, WI
age: 36
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I am getting tired of guys telling me i am to fat for them and that i need to lose 30 lbs why are some guys so mean? I think I am done now. I think there is no one out there for me. I hope everyone else finds there love because I dont think I ever will. I am not that big either i dont think but guys think i am for some reason. 
Its not the outside of a person that should matter its what they have on the inside that counts. I wouldn't have any problem dating someone who is overweight.
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| 9/21/2008 6:27:39 PM |
Are there any guys out there that don't judge a woman on her looks? |
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foxlakeblondy
Fox Lake, WI
age: 51
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If a guy cant except you for who you are then the hell with them. I know the feeling im a little heavy i notice most guys only like skinny girls. I think whats inside thats counts.
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| 9/24/2008 12:06:59 PM |
Are there any guys out there that don't judge a woman on her looks? |
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imjustlost
Elkhorn, WI
age: 38
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now i do think there is a match for every one .that being said ,the large women that keep getting rejected for their weight need to learn to target men that are in there leauge.not go after the hottest guy arond and then get upset when you get shot down.
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| 10/1/2008 6:36:33 PM |
Are there any guys out there that don't judge a woman on her looks? |
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zenn4u
Menasha, WI
age: 56
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Yes ther are guys who dont judge women by wieght, one such guy is myself....I like a person for who they are, in fact my last girlfriend was heavy, I have more problems with younger women say in their 40s..Myself being thin I get alot of crap about but I cannot help it no matter what I do to gain wieght been this way all my life but when someone gives me crap about it I DO AVOID THEM as being very shallow insensitive people..So yes.. there are guys who dont judge...
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