| 6/12/2008 8:00:33 AM |
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bdh711
Cary, NC
age: 26
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ok so I need an answer to the fact that you're on this site to "date" you start chatting it up with people you thought were good guys and all they want is sex...umm why don't these people get weeded out of the site and stop wasting everyones time.
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| 6/12/2008 11:24:55 AM |
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rof1944
Marshville, NC
age: 63
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How would you propose doing that?
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| 6/12/2008 3:26:50 PM |
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teal532
Dunn, NC
age: 51
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 Well let me see unless you are face to face it pretty hard to do the deed , and I think you can just stop typing to them if it makes you uncomfortable to talk about sex ( pick and choose )
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| 6/12/2008 4:15:09 PM |
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dansegypsy
Winston Salem, NC
age: 57
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There are a lot of guys and gals out there looking for pure sexual gratification. It goes along with the widespread selfishness in society today, "use em and lose em"
I too am sick of these kinds of people and have decided having no one is far better than having the wrong someone. It is really something to watch women fall for arrogant, selfish, lying, manipulative types, and pass the decent steady working guysd by. It happens all the time. By doing this people lose a chance at a decent long-term relationship and someone that will be there for them.
I have thought about pulling my profile off this forum, did it on one Christian dating site. I got a bunch of people with a lengthy shopping list. God forbid you get crossed off on any of that person's "criteria." Some of the single Christian women are the worst, they think very highly of themselves and judge harshly as to who might be good enough to go near them. I saw this in one singles group in Texas where none of the gals would accept dates with the guys, not one. Another smaller church made an agreement with that church so their women could attend the group. It backfired on the women as there was no one left to ask them out as the guys knew what to do.
Seriously, the other extreme of slimebags (some hide in church groups) is just as bad, and women favor them over quiet stable hard working guys. In the long-term they get what they deserve, and people like me won't touch them then. Who needs that? Be careful what you ask for, you just might get it, then realizing this was not what you wanted.......
It is an dark side of human nature, not many realize it or overcome it. I like my folk music, folk dance, hiking and disaster team deployments (Katrina, World Trade, etc), and if someone doesn't want me, they are doing me a favor as it won't be necessary for me to spend time and money to find out they belong somewhere else.
Exit soap box, good evening all.
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| 6/29/2008 4:11:35 PM |
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ladybuggj
Winston Salem, NC
age: 49
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or better yet ........they start telling jokes about "titbars" and frankly that is offense to me!!!!!! These men need to get a life!!!! (a real one!)
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| 6/29/2008 4:26:37 PM |
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starvinglips
Pleasant Garden, NC
age: 52
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Or what about when they start chatting and yes some has to get into the sex stuff, but when they start giving you this sad story about how they are in another country and need money sent to them so they can get out of where ever they are. I have learned when I read their emails, the way they word some of their sentences it tells who they are. It doesn't take me long to hit the delete button. Some can be pretty good at what they do, but they are all the same. It's not fare to the real and honest men because now I don't trust many that email me now. They are out there and even on this site. There are a lot of the pervs on this one also. I don't understand why they think that I want to see or hear about their "urges". Well, I guess they have nothing else to do but show the world they have or don't have. But, the way I handle it is, delete or close the session. Sometimes, I even block the ones that keep coming back.
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| 6/29/2008 6:38:26 PM |
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chefmeff
Cary, NC
age: 37
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What is wrong with sex? I am personally a big fan of sex. Ok...you should work up to it. If you would like to be friends now with a possibility of sex later just let me know.
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| 6/30/2008 1:37:11 AM |
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gritziam
Shallotte, NC
age: 34
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Well you arent the first to be confronted with the _I want SEX-only on this site.There are a lot of perverts out there and they tend to ruin it for the really nice folks on here.Sex is a natural fact of life but some perple men and women tend to think of it only.They tend to only look at the looks or tend to see if they can talk to you and slowly creep it up in the convo.Well what you need to do is go more indepth with your self and the first sentence should be a c*ck blocker.Hopefully it will scare or make some of the pervs give up right away.But if ya have simply agnor them.Pardon my spelling.
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| 6/30/2008 11:14:22 AM |
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rof1944
Marshville, NC
age: 63
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I also like having sex, and sometimes I talk about it. If somebody else doesn't like talking about it, they don't have to...it's a matter of choice. We don't have to judge each other based on how much another person thinks the same way we do.
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| 6/30/2008 2:10:31 PM |
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newlady2
Goldsboro, NC
age: 71 online now!
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LMBO and hear I thought you liked talking about Golf with GRITS..*LOL... Too good ro miss on that
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| 6/30/2008 6:18:24 PM |
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rof1944
Marshville, NC
age: 63
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| 7/1/2008 7:29:29 AM |
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ladybuggj
Winston Salem, NC
age: 49
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But at least get to know the person before you start talking that way!!! I love sex too but I want to get to know someone really really good before I do it.......too many diseases out there!
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| 7/1/2008 8:20:20 AM |
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rof1944
Marshville, NC
age: 63
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You're right about the disease thing....it's scary.
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| 7/4/2008 4:24:52 PM |
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jeanice369
Nashville, NC
age: 44
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its crazy to me,,most of the men i have chatted with on date lines is all about sex after the first two sentences leave their mouth..and like the other lady said..next is im in Africa i need money to get home..well all i can say is, they want get my sex and they definetly wont get my money
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