wanderman
Seymour, IN
age: 44
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Regular interaction is not a tease.
It is women who say for weeks they're dying to meet you, and be with you, but then when your driving to the meeting spot - you get a cell call - her telling you she's had second thoughts, and has decided she not ready to start "dating" right now. Then the profile disappears etc. Then she probably thinks you're dumb enough not to figure out that you were being played all along...
Tease is making promises you can't, or won't keep - if you don't promise - it is not a tease.
This is about the Charlie Brown / Lucy relationship. Every fall she promises to hold the football - while Charlie runs up & kicks it. But every year, Lucy pulls the ball out of the way, and Chuck ends up flat on his back. ( alone ).
Women who wonder if they are doing this, aren't. The women who do, do it, are fully aware of what they are doing. Its an insecurity/ control thing - and in the long run - you're better not meeting them anyway. These sites are the only "social" thing they have in their lives that makes them feel less pathetic.
Women say they want honesty - hey, thats all men are asking for too.
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