| 6/24/2008 5:31:30 PM |
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shadowc
Edmond, OK
age: 21
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I met someone on this site who I really really like, and that's after I came to this site having no faith at all in online dating. We talked about meeting each other and where at and when we could do it, nothing serious but it was brought up. Then last Friday we were just texting back and forth and all of a sudden she stopped. Now I have not heard from her in 4 days and it feels like to me she is all of a sudden ignoring me, and I even went back in my head over what might of screwed it up and I can't think of anything.
Any word of advice?
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| 6/24/2008 5:35:12 PM |
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niclove22
Allentown, PA
age: 24
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Maybe she got scared? Or needed time to think of whether or not she really wanted to meet. Or maybe she is just a tease. Either way give her a few days and then send her a text askin how she's doin. Keep it casual. Thats the best I can say. Back off and give her a chance to decide whether or not she wants this.
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| 6/24/2008 5:40:52 PM |
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shadowc
Edmond, OK
age: 21
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Well I am pretty damn scared myself considering I am really really picky and I found someone on a dating site I can't stop thinking about.
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| 6/24/2008 5:43:25 PM |
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niclove22
Allentown, PA
age: 24
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You might be scared at first, that seems like a normal response but you will never know unless you take the risk. Some ARE worth taking. And if you click you have the satisfaction of happiness knowing you took that risk, and if you don't chalk it up to experience...now you have a better idea of what you're looking for.
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| 6/24/2008 5:45:00 PM |
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sagiv
West Palm Beach, FL
age: 29
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Word of advice? freakin' relax. What is supposed to happen, will happen.
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| 6/24/2008 5:45:34 PM |
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bryce78
Gretna, VA
age: 30
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Yeah i agree, give it a few days and send her a text or email asking how shes doing. If she doesnt reply dont worry about it. If she gets in touch with you sometime later great but i wouldnt let it get ya down. Maybe she had something come up......
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| 6/24/2008 5:50:39 PM |
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shadowc
Edmond, OK
age: 21
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Well for me its kinda like shit, I really like her and it was just like on a dime she stopped talking to me, and it was going pretty damn good I think so up til that point.
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| 6/24/2008 5:50:56 PM |
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niclove22
Allentown, PA
age: 24
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It's possible that something came up... but he makes it sound as if they talked regularly. Can't speak for all women here guys but it sounds like a stall tactic. I stand by what I said, give her a few days hit her up keep it simple. Don't ask 50 billion questions if she wants to tell you what happened thats fine, and chances are she will. If she doesn't get back to you, like someone else said, don't sweat it.
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| 6/24/2008 5:52:25 PM |
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shadowc
Edmond, OK
age: 21
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Well I kinda asked a few questions and kinda spazzed out a little bit today, so I hope I didn't screw it up already.
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| 6/24/2008 8:06:13 PM |
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urdestinyawaits
Sparta, TN
age: 23
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im kinda in the same boat i met a guy that i really like on here too and we were talking about meeting and everything and we were talking every night for like 5 hours a night but then just recently he stopped answering my phone calls and not replying to my texts so....im going crazy here cause i really liked him we have so much in common....but im waiting patiently....for him to contact me and if he does well go from there....so just wait and give it time...if its meant to be then it shall....
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| 6/24/2008 8:10:55 PM |
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niclove22
Allentown, PA
age: 24
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Same works for spazzing out, while you stepped a line doin that, give her time to cool off. She'll realize she misses talkin to ya.
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| 6/24/2008 8:13:50 PM |
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yankeefan27b
Stratford, CT
age: 28
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4 days ouch......dont sweat it man,just dont text her a 1000 times a day and seem all creepy,you might just push her away
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| 6/25/2008 9:12:47 AM |
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shadowc
Edmond, OK
age: 21
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eh 
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| 6/25/2008 11:37:44 AM |
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haynsweetie075
Norfolk, VA
age: 23
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we've all been through..and honestly i have done it..i got scared, so i ignored him. just give her a little time..im not saying she will come around and im not saying she wont..but yeah dont blow up her phone..and if she does get back to you, play it cool, like you've been busy.
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| 6/26/2008 7:22:43 AM |
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sagiv
West Palm Beach, FL
age: 29
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They are all vile creatures of the night.......just kidding ladies, I love you all. 
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