| 7/2/2008 6:43:08 AM |
i should hav paid attention to the signs......... |
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thump3r
Stigler, OK
age: 33
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as i sit here,i had a mental flash of my first wedding.now i can laugh about it,but then i really should hav paid attention to the signs.........
the day of my wedding,
1]i was late to my own wedding
2]the bathroom where my wedding dress was flooded all over the bottom of my dress
3]i was so stoned that my groom to be had to hold me up during the ceremony
4]when it came to the honeymoon,i did not want my brother and best friend to leave us alone
5]the biggest sign of all......after 5 years of not having menstral's i started that night and did not stop for 3 years straight[i thought i was dieing,but the doc swore it was natural]
my marriage lasted 3 whole months....
there is more to the story,like why i married him[i took his virginity that he had been saving for his soul mate and his perant's felt that i would grow to love him]
anyways,anyone else out there who was given the signs and did or did not follow them??
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| 7/2/2008 6:55:04 AM |
i should hav paid attention to the signs......... |
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sammael
Fountain, CO
age: 32
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When an ex told me she loved me the night we met . Then a couple of days later she's talking about moving in together . A couple of days after that she's naming the unconcieved twins (1 boy , 1 girl) . Needless to say that relationship lasted all 2 weeks . Specialy when she tried to kill a girl I concider a sister who had made me godfather to her daughter .
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| 7/2/2008 9:12:40 AM |
i should hav paid attention to the signs......... |
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xlibra75x
Gateway, AR
age: 32
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I wish to hell I'da paid attention to all the red flags that jumped up before I got hitched last time! 
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| 7/3/2008 1:32:18 AM |
i should hav paid attention to the signs......... |
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whomper
Greenwood, IN
age: 64 online now!
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I agree -- mine broke my door down  in a jealous rage!   
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| 7/3/2008 12:49:48 PM |
i should hav paid attention to the signs......... |
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utahn1
Ogden, UT
age: 48
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Don't do long distance relationships.........red flags are hidden very well. 
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| 7/3/2008 3:53:08 PM |
i should hav paid attention to the signs......... |
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koko9
Watkinsville, GA
age: 50
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I would like to know more about the "hidden red flags" in a long distance relationship.
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| 7/3/2008 4:10:19 PM |
i should hav paid attention to the signs......... |
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bella2020
Lebanon, OH
age: 47
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What would be consider long distance?
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| 7/3/2008 4:13:35 PM |
i should hav paid attention to the signs......... |
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silkpanties53
Baytown, TX
age: 53
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Don't do long distance relationships.........red flags are hidden very well.
YOU got that shit right !
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| 7/3/2008 5:14:33 PM |
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utahn1
Ogden, UT
age: 48
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Hi, I was asked what's hidden red flags in long distance relationships or what's consider long distance...........I dated for 13 months and was married to him for one year before a divorce. I think anything more than 2 or 4 hours distance would be the beginning of a long distance if you are only to visit weekends. My ex lived another state that only allow us to visit monthly.
Hidden flags I would say: Listen to him/her carefully especially if he/she complains more than once about a thing or a person *his/her ex, work, you not being there, money spending, child support, kids, family, gossips. Notice if he or she rather be alone than being with friends or family members *he or she can be extremely sweet when alone with you but with others....a different side would seep up...and family members are great bean spillers*. Notice his or her overly exaggerated compliments about your lifestyles *he or she will want handle your purse*
I could go on.
He wanted to change everything once we were married. We tried compromises but he was very stubborn even AFTER he promised to transfer to my state which he had received a job offer(I bought a home during our dating...and he was living in an apt). He was very jealous of my children and was critical of their behavior whereas I absolutely adored his children.........and it tore me up and it was even worse when I had to say goodbye to them * he refused my contact with his children*. He thought I could lose more weight so I wouldn't embarrass him and his family. He hated my service animal, Sabrina, who happens to be my seeing eye dog.
All in all........I won't stop looking for my one and only but only locally. I'm sorry for sounding ridiculous about this but what I went through....damn, it was hard and sad. I do wish him good luck to finding a person who can really make him happy someday. R
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| 7/3/2008 5:16:15 PM |
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utahn1
Ogden, UT
age: 48
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Baytown.......you've done an excellent job with your profile, background and the choice of your song.....perfect. R
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| 7/3/2008 5:20:35 PM |
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bella2020
Lebanon, OH
age: 47
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Utahn, Sorry u had to go though all that,So now you only want to meet someone local,that prolly makes sence.
[Edited 7/3/2008 5:21:15 PM]
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| 7/3/2008 5:26:16 PM |
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utahn1
Ogden, UT
age: 48
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It's okay, really. It made me find it in my heart to be much stronger, wiser, calmer but most of all.......forgiving. I love life and no one is taking that away from me!  Have a great 4th everyone!!!
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| 7/3/2008 5:43:06 PM |
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silkpanties53
Baytown, TX
age: 53
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It's okay, really. It made me find it in my heart to be much stronger, wiser, calmer but most of all.......forgiving. I love life and no one is taking that away from me! Have a great 4th everyone!!!
Thank You 
the more you learn about heartache's the stonger you become,
the walls are built to be broken and one day a strong man will
help you break them down. The only sign i look for is when he
starts using the words "WE" - "TOGETHER" - "US" for those words
tell you he is thinking of you together with him.
It will work out just be happy and don't let anyone take that
away from you. 
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| 7/3/2008 5:44:37 PM |
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crow8
Ponca City, OK
age: 34
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hell I am just here for some popcorn 
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| 7/3/2008 5:52:14 PM |
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utahn1
Ogden, UT
age: 48
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I should make sure your popcorn to be burnt!!!!
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