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7/5/2008 4:23:15 PM	Friends First Why ?
junebug101 Coalinga, CA age: 51	I prefer the friend first routine first. I figure if all they want is sex they can get it anywhere, they don't need me for that.
7/5/2008 4:26:40 PM	Friends First Why ?
sorprano Wayne, NJ age: 56	Quote from yourprivatechef: I have chatted wiyh many woman on this site and others and when truly being honest when they say that that is so us guys do not think you are to easy. I respect that and I want to applaud those of you that do not have the 5,10 or 20 date rule because we all know that after many phone calls especially when they get heated and passionate we may explore each other the first time we meet., we are adults and we own our decisions so if we experience that unbridaled passion,chemistry,lust and are in the moment it is ok, no one will judge us besides ourselves.Has it happened to me..yes and with no regrets., some times you keep in touch and other times not. I just feel if people hold out for that perfect person they will miss an incredible journey... i'll order your special of the day--many times i have said life is short enough as it is and as long as both a woman or man understand we all arrived on this site or perhaps a paid site from some fork in our road (usually on a downward slope)....we all experienced the worst in life choosing a first partner as if it was our 1st car... so as long as we are honest people within and even interact on this group on threads, our profiles should be validated making many us to be trusted via phone exchange easier, which validates trust and a good thing like lowering some standards...the phone call actually becomes a reason to make the appt and that should be to meet mutually, safe and freely without comparing us to the best or the worse someone has had in life...one thing to add because we communicate with many here is to always keep what you do locally happening too but do make friends on these threads etc because your next partner just may come about, being friends with someone down the line here, as both begin to focus on the same page...on paid sites they do not have a way to meet like these forums do... had to mention that though
7/5/2008 4:40:52 PM	Friends First Why ?
tumbleweed227 San Simon, AZ age: 67	Too much ice cream can make you cold !!! ************************************** I want to KNOW whats in the pool before I jump in !! ************************************************ Quality before quantity !! ********************** Better to say no, than wish you had !! ********************************** Sex is a very SMALL percentage of a relationship !! (Although can be very important). ********************************************************************************* There are many ways to make someone happy !! THEN comes sex. ******************************************************** Enjoy ALL things to the fullest. including sex !! ***********************************************
8/3/2008 5:01:04 PM	Friends First Why ?
greatlegs2008 Woodland Hills, CA age: 48	For some people it is better to be friends first and that is as far as it goes. But a women can tell when she meets someone if she wants more. It may take a few dates or just one.
8/4/2008 10:30:47 AM	Friends First Why ?
jangee Riverside, CA age: 67	Carnal lust is quick and easy and you can do that with a complete stranger...........if you want instant gratification go for it! Have fun! But sex is one of the most vulnerable and intimate gifts you give to someone and I want it to be with someone I connect with in body, mind and spirit...........It can be a beautiful spiritual journey with the right person.........I want more!
8/4/2008 11:15:22 AM	Friends First Why ?
starvinglips Pleasant Garden, NC age: 51	I came in here to see what this was about and upon reading, I have to put my 1 cent in. I wouldn't consider myself easy, being alone for sooo long without. I do believe that when I get to meet the one I have found, it is going to be very hard for me to control myself. Like many have said, we are adults and I know I'm not getting any younger, so if the chance is there, I'm going for it. Some may think thats bad, but when you talk with someone long enough and you are both in the same frame of mind, so to speak, why wait. The Babe that I've met on here is going to receive the treat of his life.... (and the bump-ugly as it is called, will be bump-heaven when I get finished)
8/4/2008 11:28:04 AM	Friends First Why ?
olderblueeyes Morganton, NC age: 52	bump-ugly or bump-heaven, or whatever you want to call it. I am one that was a virgin on my wedding nite. I don't regret it. Now I know what I want and go after it. May it be hot sweaty sex or just a good evening with a friend. I will promise you that I won't tell if you don't.... I daho LOL [Edited 8/4/2008 11:29:47 AM]
8/4/2008 11:34:57 AM	Friends First Why ?
newlady2 Goldsboro, NC age: 71	Tumble... I think you said it best !!
8/4/2008 11:45:04 AM	Friends First Why ?
ffflllaaagal New Port Richey, FL age: 54	yes new lady i agree. tumbleweed i thank you for your thoughts.
8/4/2008 12:04:38 PM	Friends First Why ?
soullygrounded Seven Springs, NC age: 53	Too much ice cream can make you cold !!! ************************************** I want to KNOW whats in the pool before I jump in !! ************************************************ Quality before quantity !! ********************** Better to say no, than wish you had !! ********************************** Sex is a very SMALL percentage of a relationship !! (Although can be very important). ********************************************************************************* There are many ways to make someone happy !! THEN comes sex. ******************************************************** Enjoy ALL things to the fullest. including sex !! *********************************************** Tumbleweed, so very true, and many other excellent responses...I simply chose yours because it was laced with humor, straight forward and very "to the point". To each his own, but IMPO, 'tis an 'empty' endeavour, more so especially if one has experienced the ultimate in 'lovemaking'. As for myself...I can wait for the full connection of mind, body and soul...I personally find that the brain is indeed the largest sexual organ...and without that, well, just suffice it to say that BOB is a better mate. Thank you for all the honest replies. [Edited 8/4/2008 12:05:23 PM]
8/4/2008 12:08:59 PM	Friends First Why ?
newlady2 Goldsboro, NC age: 71	off topic briefly,,,,,,Just wanted to say "Hello" to that gal down the road .. Hi pretty lady ( soul)
8/4/2008 12:10:44 PM	Friends First Why ?
crimsoncruiser Huntsville, AL age: 55	Friends first....because that's the basis of a solid relationship. Otherwise, why not just "rent" some "love" for the evening?
8/4/2008 12:15:10 PM	Friends First Why ?
newlady2 Goldsboro, NC age: 71	Rent love?? Might be able to rent a person ,, but dont think love is a rental commodity...
8/4/2008 12:19:29 PM	Friends First Why ?
soullygrounded Seven Springs, NC age: 53	New Lady...thanks for the compliment and may I add that I love your sense of "wittiness" and based on your response below, you are one "smart cookie". You can't rent love...you can pay for a roll in the hay, but that is the "love" of something temporary... Edited to correct: guess you are actually above me aren't you...duh, time to take a break... [Edited 8/4/2008 12:20:28 PM]
8/4/2008 12:36:33 PM	Friends First Why ?
nuttybutter Boise, ID age: 59	I prefer the "friends" approach also. Somehow the thought of being on a list for some one's entertainment or company on a trip with others IS a real turn-off! Seem to agree with many in the thought that if you're just looking for the sex, you definitely not looking for the likes of me. Visions of money being put on the dresser comes to mind but for you, its seems to be just a phone call....WOW! You must be "good" at something besides stroking that ego......I'll pass for my comfort level wouldn't be there. Don't get me wrong! I'm a mature, sensual woman that requires my man to be thinking with the same head that I'm thinking with most of the time! I'm glad you're finding what you need and good luck with your journeys ahead!!!!!

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