| 7/11/2008 9:27:41 AM |
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samantha555
Montrose, PA
age: 19
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OK so since im a girl and I have no idea how the males brain works tell me what this means....
I've had a crush on this guy for 3 years and just a couple months ago i told him about it and he told me hes had a crush on me since then too. We've hung out twice not recently at all and both were totally spur of the moment. Once when I hung out with him we were drinking and he gave me a kiss on the neck. I asked him the next day if that was a "friend" kiss or something more. He responded with, "How many of your friends do you kiss on the neck?" So I'm taking it that he likes me, but he doesnt want a relationship with me, and every time we have plans to hang out he usually blows me off! If he likes me why doesnt he want to hang out? I'm not even pushing the relationship thing! I havent mentioned it to him since BEFORE the other 2 times we hung out. WTF does this mean?  
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| 7/11/2008 9:33:48 AM |
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littlelostgirl
Suffern, NY
age: 21
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Im not a guy..but just my thoughts..he doesn't know what he wants.
Your wasting your time with him..JMO move on and get away from his confusion.
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| 7/11/2008 9:40:55 AM |
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fish_r_man
Aurora, MO
age: 48
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He got spooked for some reason.
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| 7/11/2008 9:41:54 AM |
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loveistm
Joliet, IL
age: 19
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He definitely seems to be toying with you.
He has no idea what he wants.
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| 7/11/2008 9:42:09 AM |
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beanz991
Houston, TX
age: 41
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He's scared...maybe very shy or afraid of messing up the friendship?
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| 7/11/2008 9:43:48 AM |
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grizz67
Bernville, PA
age: 41
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Without more details who knows? I am guessing he is the same age as you, or close to your age. If so, he is at an awkward age for guys. He is no were close to his mental maturity yet and still very into himself. If he needs several alcoholic drinks to show you some spark of affection there is a real problem brewing here. My guess is he is more concerned about partying with his buddies than hanging out with you. Do yourself a favor and look elsewhere, it is common for a guy to respond in kind to a female friend who tells him she has always had a crush on him. Question; At the time you two admitted this to one another were you drinking? If yes, you may have your answer. If not, he may have thought he might get lucky that night.
Sorry, but he is still growing up.
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| 7/11/2008 9:43:51 AM |
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samantha555
Montrose, PA
age: 19
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I wish I could...but he's a good friend of mine....i dunno its hard letting go of my crush who i just found out liked me too
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| 7/11/2008 9:46:40 AM |
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samantha555
Montrose, PA
age: 19
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He's scared...maybe very shy or afraid of messing up the friendship?
He did tell me that the night he kissed me he was nervous...which is reall weird because hes VERY outgoing and its not like he's a virgin hes been with LOTS of women, i dont get what the big deal was
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| 7/11/2008 9:49:24 AM |
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susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 60
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If he is your age, he has raging hormones???? 
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| 7/11/2008 9:49:51 AM |
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rockin_ron
Petersburg, IN
age: 49
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You know the shy guys can appear to be the most outgoing and wild?
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| 7/11/2008 9:50:18 AM |
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samantha555
Montrose, PA
age: 19
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If he is your age, he has raging hormones????
hes 21 and i know guys mature slower than women but a huge part of me just wants to wait those 5 years for him
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| 7/11/2008 9:53:39 AM |
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grizz67
Bernville, PA
age: 41
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Letting go is a part of growing up too. You can be his friend, just say to him he is obviously not ready for this stage of your relationship, and I think you are not either. Bottom line, ask him WTF is up, not us. Another part of an adult relationship is communication. Try talking to him about your concerns, if he can't give you the answers you need or want then just stay friends. If he can't stay friends with you then live and learn. That was the chance you take when you admit your feelings to someone. Losing him all together was a chance "you" took when you chose to tell him about your feelings, either way your relationship was/is never going to be the same.
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| 7/11/2008 9:54:06 AM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
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He wants sex.
man.. you women make us way too complicated.
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| 7/11/2008 9:54:31 AM |
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tuesdaysgone49
Orlando, FL
age: 49
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I'm not an expert,but if he's your about your age.Its usually a toss up
between hanging out with you or hanging out with the guys.At that age,
he wants to be free to choose.There's more to this than your telling,so
it would be hard to say exactly.If you like him,talk to him & find out.
Could be he's shy,scared,not interested & the only way to find out,is to
ask him.Then you know where you stand with him & can make your decision.
Good luck.
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| 7/11/2008 9:57:49 AM |
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samantha555
Montrose, PA
age: 19
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He wants sex.
man.. you women make us way too complicated.
which brings me to another question i told him i had a birthday present for him and i wnated to give it to him today....the present was me and he knew it i told ihm he could do whatever he wanted to me and he said he made a list and he told me he'd get online this morning.....havent seen him yet...he wanted sex i was gonna give it to him,...wheres he now?
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