| 4/16/2006 12:03:32 PM |
Why do alot women these days want "bad boys" that treat em really bad? |
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smith25iam
Washington, DC
age: 27
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I've heard of case where the a guy treated her girlfriend so crappy she ended up
being checked into to a mental institution her life was completely flipped up side down.
On the flip side the men who treat their women with respect sadly...Might as well
castrate himself because she'll do it eventually....What do you think?
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| 4/23/2006 9:44:56 AM |
Why do alot women these days want "bad boys" that treat em really bad? |
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michaelanderson
Omaha, NE
age: 36
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Well, I would say you have it right. I think the key thing to do is not be so available. Women want what they can't have. If you are a little aloof they will want you more. Atleast this is what I've been told by a female friend no mine.
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| 4/24/2006 4:19:00 PM |
Why do alot women these days want "bad boys" that treat em really bad? |
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black_rabbit
Visalia, CA
age: 22
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interesting... right on bro'
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| 4/26/2006 2:31:15 PM |
Why do alot women these days want "bad boys" that treat em really bad? |
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swtsoutherngrl
Jackson, MS
age: 37
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I think that for most women who are involved with men who treat them badly, the relationship did not start out in that mannor. Women do not just walk around looking for a man to treat them badly. The abuse, of whatever kind, tends to start slowly and then branches out from there. Women tend to stay in these relationships because by this point they no longer have the confidence or selfworth they need to leave. They come to believe that the problems in the relationship are because of them and so they stay in hopes that if they try harder things will work out. However, the truth is it never will because an abusive relationship is not based on love but the power of control.
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| 4/26/2006 10:44:10 PM |
Why do alot women these days want "bad boys" that treat em really bad? |
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ol_hillbilly
Lowry City, MO
age: 48
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I think the subject runs deep, psychologicly.
Us "nice" guys will end up old bachelors, sittin with the hound dog on the front porch.
hb
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| 4/27/2006 7:14:05 PM |
Why do alot women these days want "bad boys" that treat em really bad? |
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luvnlife78
Hampton, VA
age: 30
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I don't necessarily think we are looking for "bad"guys, I think when women meet these guys that seem so rough on the outside, they believe they can "fix" them. Women have that in their nature. Unfortunately these men are not made to be fixed, they just need to have a woman that can tolerate and deal with their bullsh**. And there are women out there that can. The ideal thing is to find a partner with enough confidence to stand on their own feet and walk beside you, not in front or behind you. You have to come together as equals.
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| 4/29/2006 1:33:13 PM |
Why do alot women these days want "bad boys" that treat em really bad? |
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unslightlynorml
Seaside, OR
age: 44
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I personally like edgy, interesting, and brainy men...........what kind of bad are we talkin' here all? I can be bad too......and some men seem to adore b*tches. It goes both way I think. Kat
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| 4/29/2006 2:41:24 PM |
Why do alot women these days want "bad boys" that treat em really bad? |
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gerand
Frankford, MO
age: 44
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I think the key word for me is interesting.
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| 4/29/2006 6:03:30 PM |
Why do alot women these days want "bad boys" that treat em really bad? |
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raysway69
Sylmar, CA
age: 45
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You know something?You have realized something that I thought no one else realized.I have been thinking this exact same thing for many years.I have witnessed this quite a few times and the results remain unchanged(for whatever the reason she remains with him).I on the other hand have experienced the "castration" that you meantioned.Please do not take this the wrong way,because (A)I have never physically been castrated...lol and (B)It's not like I don't have a set (trust and believe I do) it's either too late when it surfaces or I find myself just turning the other cheek in disbelief or I guess perhaps I am just hoping that it is a bad dream and when I wake up it will be better.The bottom line is that I refuse to play that game of treating my other half like crap and still find a way to feel like a man.Because any man who treats his partner like she is a piece of crap and thinks he is a man......ISN'T a man.Perhaps the old saying"Good Guys Finish Last" is true and if that is the case then I would have to say that in this case it is not that bad coming in last.
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| 4/29/2006 7:04:55 PM |
Why do alot women these days want "bad boys" that treat em really bad? |
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krazz
Whittier, CA
age: 56
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I agree with a lot of what you said, Raysway.
However, I would like to ammend your last insight to:
"Good Guys May Finish Last, But At Least They Finish!"
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| 4/30/2006 5:03:47 PM |
Why do alot women these days want "bad boys" that treat em really bad? |
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cvdolphin
Chula Vista, CA
age: 38
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You know what I have found is it isn't always women who want "Bad Boys" either or that "Good Guys Finish Last"
I have found that some men also prefer the women who treat them badly...the ones who aren't going to give a dang what they do because they are out fooling around on them.
I'm still trying to figure out why anyone would want to be with someone that treats them badly.
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| 5/2/2006 4:16:56 AM |
Why do alot women these days want "bad boys" that treat em really bad? |
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freetrialrun
Los Angeles, CA
age: 24
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Women don't necessarily want a bad boy, they just don't want a stage 5 clinger thats trying to watch her every move. And the girls that get abused have issues from their childhood if they continue to stay in a relationship.,
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| 5/2/2006 5:03:34 PM |
Why do alot women these days want "bad boys" that treat em really bad? |
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iichart
Sarasota, FL
age: 61
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I've seen both sides to this.. and as with a lot of issues surrounding the human condition, there doesn't seem to be any clear answers. Albeit, there are reasons, as varied as life itself. The longer I go through it, the more questions I find, and the less I know. Within every relationship are layers of relationship to work for, on and discover. Only experiance tells some of us the tale. And even that, is incomplete at best.
"You can't put a old head on young shoulders," nor the way people respond to life. And while some people will gleen all they can about or through relationships and learn to grow, others will continue on in 'blissful ignorance' of their responses and actions that cause conditions to be less than desirable and complain all the way through the next problem they create. Bad boys just enjoy the press.
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| 5/3/2006 7:20:16 PM |
Why do alot women these days want "bad boys" that treat em really bad? |
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january1
Monroe, NY
age: 58
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There is also that expression "nice girls finish last" and that is why Im not always nice.
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| 5/10/2006 9:47:02 PM |
Why do alot women these days want "bad boys" that treat em really bad? |
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nicole1357
Sacramento, CA
age: 22
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I think women THINK they like the bad boy type, and that's usually when their still young and stupid. But in the end the good guy usually wins the girl and is the one she'll marry. So dont worry!
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