7/17/2008 7:38:23 PM |
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jace1808
Murfreesboro, TN
age: 18
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i need sum advice  . im one of those southern gentlemen that always puts tha lady first but evrytime i think mayb theyv got it that i like them they seem ta just push me away ...im like one of tha most understandn, nicest, and lovin guys out ther...i hate it..pleaz i need sum help
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7/17/2008 7:42:45 PM |
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beanz991
Houston, TX
age: 41
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You just answered your own question.
Stop being a doormat.
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7/17/2008 7:43:29 PM |
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kopannie
Pensacola, FL
age: 23
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There are a ton of women out there that just don't appreciate those virtues especially before they've seen what real asses men can me 
You'll find a woman that appreciates everything you have to offer sooner or later 
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7/17/2008 8:02:52 PM |
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jace1808
Murfreesboro, TN
age: 18
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yea if that was true i wuldnt b a V...im old fashiond i livd wit my granma n tha middle of tha country side
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7/17/2008 8:03:43 PM |
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beanz991
Houston, TX
age: 41
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Is she a Gilf?
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7/17/2008 8:05:59 PM |
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pattilee3
Norfolk, VA
age: 49
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Nothing wrong with that. I grew up in Knoxville and the country people I know from there are the finest people I know. Just be patient, there are plenty of girls out there wanting a gentleman. 
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7/17/2008 8:09:26 PM |
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jace1808
Murfreesboro, TN
age: 18
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well i kno thier old fashiond and i like it...havn shivalry its kool except for my problem lol
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7/17/2008 8:13:22 PM |
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beanz991
Houston, TX
age: 41
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well i kno thier old fashiond and i like it...havn shivalry its kool except for my problem lol
I looked at your profile...can you play the dueling banjos on that guitar?
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7/17/2008 8:24:08 PM |
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jace1808
Murfreesboro, TN
age: 18
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not yet im still learn how ta play lol...just got it at tha beginn of june and wrk keeps me busy
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7/17/2008 8:31:56 PM |
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beanz991
Houston, TX
age: 41
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7/17/2008 8:34:55 PM |
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power2theq
Inglewood, CA
age: 20
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Nothing wrong with that. I grew up in Knoxville and the country people I know from there are the finest people I know. Just be patient, there are plenty of girls out there wanting a gentleman. 
Yeah, there are. And you definitely do NOT want to meet them, unless you're willin to lose everything.
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7/17/2008 8:39:49 PM |
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thegooddude24
Joliet, IL
age: 25
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First of all...
Stop talking like you are sending a text message. Second, nice guys finish last. Now that doesn't mean anything because what matters is how you finish, but that is totally up to you. Ask yourself how you act around her. Focus on treating her good of course, but don't act like a flush and turn her off-know what you want, that is the first step. After that, figure out what she wants and go from there. Be that nice guy that every girl wants, and stay that way for sure, but know when to put you first.
good luck,
dude
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7/19/2008 2:33:13 AM |
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jace1808
Murfreesboro, TN
age: 18
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well my prob is evry time that i do think i find a gurl i like it always turns into a friendship and nothn more...they overlook me evrytime
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7/19/2008 2:41:59 AM |
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renae8302
Xenia, OH
age: 24
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First of all...
Stop talking like you are sending a text message. Second, nice guys finish last. Now that doesn't mean anything because what matters is how you finish, but that is totally up to you. Ask yourself how you act around her. Focus on treating her good of course, but don't act like a flush and turn her off-know what you want, that is the first step. After that, figure out what she wants and go from there. Be that nice guy that every girl wants, and stay that way for sure, but know when to put you first.
good luck,
dude
great advice
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7/19/2008 3:31:04 AM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
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Basically you answered your own question. You are 18 for pete's sake. Dating women in your peer group is totally different than dating women older and mature. But remember, just because someone is older, doesn't always equate to being mature.
Most men and women in your age bracket play games and don't even know what they want yet. Many are living in a fantasy and haven't woke up to smell the coffee of reality. You are basically just learning at this point. But you will grow up very quickly in the dating game after numerous women take your kindness and shoved you to the curb. That's reality.
It's cool to be nice, but you gotta have some granolas to go with it. If not, you will continue to get rejected quick.
You will experience plenty ups and downs in dating just like life. Learn as you go. Learn what works and doesn't work for you. Be observant of all the tricks, the BS, the lies, the red flags, and the reasoning behind the negative behavior. And remember, all that glitters aint gold.
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