| 7/18/2008 8:33:05 PM |
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single_tnlady
Athens, TN
age: 22
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I recently saw a friend of mine that had a thing for me months ago. He was really good to me. We got to know each other through college. He is 8 years older then I am. He was extemely good to me. He cooked for me. Gave me anything I wanted and more. He did the sweetest thing for me for my birthday. Well he wanted to date me, and I pushed him away. He was legally married, so I would not do anything with him. I would not kiss him or anything because I have a hard time believing men when it comes to being divorced or whatever. I really did not want to let him go, he did not want to wait for me to see that he was really leaving his wife. Should I try this again, or what should I do?
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| 7/18/2008 8:36:40 PM |
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dirtmovr
South Boardman, MI
age: 36
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Married is still married hun no matter if he is separated.If kids are involved you will be looked at as the home wrecker.Play it safe and wait for the divorce to be final
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| 7/18/2008 8:39:31 PM |
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single_tnlady
Athens, TN
age: 22
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He did move out of there house. He has two children involved. His daughter has some health problems. I never fooled around with him. I hung out with him, but I never allowed anything to happen. It scared me to death. I also have two daughters in which he loved to death. It was really strange, and I was afraid that he would grow tired of me, and move on to someone else.
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| 7/18/2008 8:39:58 PM |
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vidiotraym
Denver, CO
age: 47
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Just look at it like this...If he'd sleep with you while married to someone else, what will he do while married to you. If he's not happy being married he should divorce then look for someone else....period! Do right by yourself, first and foremost..
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| 7/18/2008 8:45:07 PM |
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fallnstar
Miami, FL
age: 48
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RUN, RUN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He will be real nice to you, he will tell you anything you want to hear..Anything to make you think he loves you. BULL SHIT, if he loves you he would not put you in such a position. He know you like him and that makes you vulnerable he is trying to break you.. I AM SORRY, I am only saying this because I care ..And don't want him to braek your heart..PLEASE be carefful.......If he ever really got divorced, then
carefully date him. But, they usually don't get want a divorce , of course they say they DO. NO< RUN.............
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| 7/18/2008 8:49:54 PM |
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angmar
Bowling Green, KY
age: 49
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You're swimming in a pool of sharks.
Run away!!
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| 7/18/2008 8:58:24 PM |
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kindalooking
Van Buren, AR
age: 49
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im thinking your crazy..lol..im sorry but if he is a good friend..just keep it that way. have you ever met his wife? Does he treat her the way he treats you.? There are 1000's of good guys out there, he doesnt sound like one of them..what he is wanting to do isint fair to his wife, to his family and not to you either. where will he be on the holidays?...your going to have to sneak around all the time?, hoping no one will see you..IF he is serious about a divorce....dont be the other woman..if he gets a divorce..give him some time..then maybe date him..see how he acts while he is "free". Married is Married...not kinda married or anything like that, your smarter than that. and hopefully a better person that than..sounds like you are. good luck..but RUN lol
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| 7/18/2008 9:48:17 PM |
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angmar
Bowling Green, KY
age: 49
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You're swimming in a pool of sharks.
Run away!!
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I better slow down to let her catch me.
I wouldn't worry, she's bound to knock herself out in a minute...
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| 7/18/2008 10:04:53 PM |
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unchained250
Abingdon, VA
age: 38
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follow your gut, it never lies!!
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| 7/18/2008 10:17:46 PM |
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prednisonegirl
Sioux City, IA
age: 46
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im thinking your crazy..lol..im sorry but if he is a good friend..just keep it that way. have you ever met his wife? Does he treat her the way he treats you.? There are 1000's of good guys out there, he doesnt sound like one of them..what he is wanting to do isint fair to his wife, to his family and not to you either. where will he be on the holidays?...your going to have to sneak around all the time?, hoping no one will see you..IF he is serious about a divorce....dont be the other woman..if he gets a divorce..give him some time..then maybe date him..see how he acts while he is "free". Married is Married...not kinda married or anything like that, your smarter than that. and hopefully a better person that than..sounds like you are. good luck..but RUN lol
Very good advice! He's just jumping from one relationship to another. Run and don't look back! Also, you say he was a friend? He doesn't sound like the kind of friend I would want to have. You are smart..and you deserve more. Tell him to call when he's been divorced and has had some time under his belt..he needs to examine what he wants in life!
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