| 8/21/2007 7:18:17 AM |
Met her here and was sexually attracted but suddenly.... |
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uga80
Snellville, GA
age: 50
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I met someone here and began emailing each other. What was mainly alot of BS and a sexual attraction when it suddenly unexpectedly went quickly to a higher level and I am having these strong feelings for her. It's the things she say's and things I have read in her profile that are making me feel this strong connection and I haven't ever felt anything like it before. I'm not even her type and she's feeling it too. Whats going on here???? Anyone ever had an experience like this? It's Crazy....over 900 miles apart....never met or even heard her voice. I would sure appreciate your thoughts. Thanks!
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| 8/21/2007 7:45:14 AM |
Met her here and was sexually attracted but suddenly.... |
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parrotfreak
Cape Coral, FL
age: 61
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Listen carefully. If it seems to good to be true, well guess what It isn't. I have been fooled so many times it is not funny. Recent pictures. Forget about it. They all lie!
Be careful!
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| 8/21/2007 8:00:13 AM |
Met her here and was sexually attracted but suddenly.... |
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53lady
Jacksonville, FL
age: 53
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Hey...I guess I'm part of "they", but I don't lie! I don't see any point to it! I hate liars! I tell it like I see it, and won't lie just to save your feelings either. I do try to be tactful though, if the truth is gonna hurt someone, I try to be sensitive when I have to tell someone something they may not want to hear, but I won't lie!
Sorry you think that way, but not ALL women lie my dear. You've just met the ones who do.
Don't know what to tell you about the getting so attracted thing. You ARE 900 miles away, and you said she's not really your type...so...what ARE you going to do? I try to stay within my state when I get to emailing someone. That way, we may be able to meet, and see what happens. If I know someone is not really my type...I don't know...things happen...you can never tell...but at 900 miles away...I wouldn't have let it get to this point. JMO
[Edited 8/21/2007 8:04:51 AM]
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| 8/21/2007 8:02:13 AM |
Met her here and was sexually attracted but suddenly.... |
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shlras66
Holiday, FL
age: 41 online now!
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Parrotfreak, Im sorry you feel that way and have had some bad experiences. We're not all like that. Im very honest about who I am and my picture was taken about 2 weeks ago. I want to find the person who ill eventually spend the rest of my life with. I dont understand why, if you have the intension of meeting someone youre not honest. Eventually they'll see the real you. There are people out there that are just playing a game, for whatever reason. If I meet someone Im interested in, we chat online, call on the phone, make plans to meet and I follow through and keep the plans we made. If we connect, great, if not then maybe Ive met a new friend. Good luck to both of you guys and just be careful and use youre head. Sherry
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| 8/21/2007 8:15:27 AM |
Met her here and was sexually attracted but suddenly.... |
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qazyguy
Rockville, MD
age: 53 online now!
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UGA, that often happens. I myself am feeling some very strong feelings for a certain DH Lady, altho we have talked on the phone.
The phenomenon is often called "Being In Love With Love Itself.", and it's often more prominent in women than men, or at least noticable in them because women show their feelings more readily.
BUt ironically, perhaps men are more susceptible to it, because we don't have the "I don't Want To Get Hurt" filter that women have developed.
Now you could meet her and think, "Wow, I was Right", or "What Was I Thinking?". This isn't a new thing; people used to write Letters before the Net.
But unlike Parrot, I don't discount your feelings. And her cynicism about pictures may be justified in certain cases, but most likeely only the minority.
So be a little careful and cautious, but forge ahead. It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. And call her on the phone!
JIM
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| 8/21/2007 8:32:47 AM |
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gina862
Evergreen Park, IL
age: 45
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Sound like she's more your type than you thought. Maybe past relationships have been jaded. It's always nice to learn something new about yourself.
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| 8/21/2007 8:38:09 AM |
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percussion
Livermore, CA
age: 46
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Opposites do attract.... how ever I think hearing her voice will be the turning point of proceeding with the attraction or ending it. Have a phone conversation, and you'll see you will hear things, because your forced to listen and not see with the eyes. Ask yourself does this voice hurt my ears or is it soothing and enjoyable. Could I listen to this tone long term with the potential to marry? You'll be surprised at how you feel after a conversation. I have had an experience like that with someone on this sight. Such a heavy attraction and we never met. We have had phone conversation. There is an attraction , but taking things very slow. Follow your heart and remember there is NO perfect man and NO perfect women, therefore NO perfect relationship.
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| 8/21/2007 11:47:10 AM |
Met her here and was sexually attracted but suddenly.... |
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mrcareful2001
Chittenango, NY
age: 46
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NO Matter what attractions hit you through the magic of the internet...resist...Ultimately *IF* you meet and *IF* you connect and *IF you are compatable and *IF* you are good physically for eachother and *IF* you have the same long term goals and *IF* you are intellectually comfortable with eachother and *IF* you are financially comfortable with eachother and *IF* you *IF* you *IF* you.....You still need to *make it*
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| 8/21/2007 12:25:53 PM |
Met her here and was sexually attracted but suddenly.... |
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naughty_or_nice
Bloomsburg, PA
age: 19
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we dont all lie i would really like to get to know ppl im actually lookin for love
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| 8/21/2007 12:28:13 PM |
Met her here and was sexually attracted but suddenly.... |
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missmatch
Cleveland, TN
age: 51
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better make a phone call soon...
remember, sometimes we get ideas in our heads about someone then we come to our senses, lol, sorry but it HAPPENS... good luck!!
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| 8/21/2007 12:28:21 PM |
Met her here and was sexually attracted but suddenly.... |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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A whole bunch of "ifs" here..Just make sure you can be friends first and foremost is my thing. I wish you all the luck in the world tho!!
xoxoPeaches.
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| 8/21/2007 12:28:43 PM |
Met her here and was sexually attracted but suddenly.... |
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soultrynights
San Clemente, CA
age: 38
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love this
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| 8/21/2007 12:30:29 PM |
Met her here and was sexually attracted but suddenly.... |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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and we do *hugs* xD
xoxoPeaches.
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| 8/21/2007 12:35:30 PM |
Met her here and was sexually attracted but suddenly.... |
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soultrynights
San Clemente, CA
age: 38
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back to ya
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| 8/21/2007 12:39:56 PM |
Met her here and was sexually attracted but suddenly.... |
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gawd
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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I dont lie and my pictures are current..I dislike people that include (all) in a generalization.
As far your attraction UGA.. go with your feelings and enjoy.
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