7/23/2008 7:20:35 PM |
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bigbadbrad
Reading, PA
age: 20
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I don't understand why I can't find a girl. What am I doing wrong? It always turns out that i'm just the friend. This happens every single time. It gets frustrating. Girls say they want a nice guy but can't find a good one, but right here's one. They just don't see it. I guess the saying, "nice guys finish last" is true.
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7/23/2008 7:24:27 PM |
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annbrown
Ogden, UT
age: 49 online now!
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oh my heck relax...... you are so young! Enjoy life! No need to hurry anything.
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7/23/2008 7:29:53 PM |
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lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
age: 51
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 Oh no not again.............
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7/23/2008 7:36:24 PM |
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fredricko
Pico Rivera, CA
age: 49
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you got the nice part down now concentrate on expanding yourself in a direction that girls find you interesting,fun,sexy,creative,passionate,understanding,romantic,intelligent and anything else that you can think of try not to be one dimensional
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7/23/2008 7:38:16 PM |
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journey2smile
Oswego, IL
age: 32
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Ok...Ok...So, you finish last. But then along comes Mrs. Right to pick you back up again. Be patient! Don't rush
Have fun...And remember to SMILE!!!
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7/23/2008 7:42:27 PM |
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fistfullofthrot
Staten Island, NY
age: 31
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I found that girls your age really aren't looking for a nice guy yet. There excited by the bad boy. Now I'm not saying go and change but at that age nice guys do finish last. Its the payoff that makes it all worth it. Patience is a virtue my friend.
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7/23/2008 7:50:21 PM |
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mlk2008
Philadelphia, PA
age: 26 online now!
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It appears to me that it is the males who encounter more problems with obtaining females approval rather than the other way around.
It's a common everyday thing. How many females do you see talking about a males who don't make contact with them? Or females who say I am a nice girl and nobody responds to me.
This free dating website and all free dating website consist of females who don't respond to messages because these females think that they are better than you when in reality they're not. For more details on this, read the forum titled "What's up with that, ladies", located in the General Discussions Forum.
I'm going to tell you this. Have LOW expectations when using DH. We are in a female-low-complaince zone.
[Edited 7/23/2008 7:51:32 PM]
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7/24/2008 1:46:24 AM |
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prednisonegirl
Sioux City, IA
age: 46
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Hi Big..I read your profile. It sounds very good. But you may want to change your pictures. One picture..your are sitting on a park 'kiddie ride' with your buddies, and the other picture you are holding 2 stuffed animals. I appreciate the fact that you convey that you are a kid at heart..(is that what you are trying to do?) but I am older and being silly doesn't bother me. Maybe girls your age are looking for someone more mature. Maybe you could post some other pictures as well, that show a more sophisticated you. Also, the movies and music you like are really 'dark'. That's great that you like 'death' things..but maybe that is limiting your playing field? Just my opinion. Get involved in school..I am sure that there are some nice girls there aren't there? It will happen when the time is right. Until then, enjoy your youth!
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7/24/2008 1:48:12 AM |
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wildchild1987
Suffern, NY
age: 21
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oh my heck relax...... you are so young! Enjoy life! No need to hurry anything. 

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7/24/2008 5:11:31 AM |
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not_a_yuppie
Nicholson, PA
age: 52
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I thought the same at your age, my friend. My advice to you is to try to figure out what you want to do with your life. College, tech school, military, etc. Take care of you, first. Be yourself and take care of business. A sweet little gal will sneak up on you when you least expect it. Good luck!
Not always. I tried that passive approach only to learn that it takes two decades on average for each one of them to come to me, and that more importantly, the ones that finally do are the wrong ones. The main one of them for example, a decade ago, was such a slut that when I gave her the book "The Rules" for Valentine's Day to get rid of her, she didn't get it!
So by age 50, I decided that I prefer the complete opposite strategy: Going after a Rules girl, such as the one that I finally met (by accident and without any help from the internet, BTW) and have been spending the last year and a half spacing out (at two-month intervals, in the weekly e-mails that the very good business relationship that I have with her involves) unsuccessful-so-far date invitations to.
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7/24/2008 5:19:59 AM |
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stopntrafic
Hartselle, AL
age: 47
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your trying to hard! be your self, dont lower your standards and enjoy your life while you are young. Soon enough the right person will come along, when it happens it happens you cant rush it cuz it wont be real and wont last if you force it! Look at it like a nut and bolt if you force it you strip it and it wont hold! Good luck to you! HAVE FUN 
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7/24/2008 12:38:43 PM |
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bb36575
Semmes, AL
age: 47 online now!
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what wrong, your 19, too old for high school girls, to young for college age girls. so get drunk enjoy yourself
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7/24/2008 12:47:46 PM |
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sundayknot
Compton, CA
age: 39
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I don't understand why I can't find a girl. What am I doing wrong? It always turns out that i'm just the friend. This happens every single time. It gets frustrating. Girls say they want a nice guy but can't find a good one, but right here's one. They just don't see it. I guess the saying, "nice guys finish last" is true.
Grow some balls man!!!
      
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7/24/2008 12:52:11 PM |
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italianlady05
Omaha, NE
age: 53 online now!
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why oh why are all the young ones in such a hurry to find "THE GIRL OF THEIR DREAMS"?
Hun, quit worrying about it !  
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7/24/2008 1:07:33 PM |
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lobo_corazon
Kingston, ON
age: 39
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What are you looking for? Be honest... If it's a life partner, you should put that off for another 5+ years.
For now, like the poster above me said, have fun! Go to a club with your buddies, grind with some random hottie on a dance floor, don't even ask her name, and call it a good night. Make plans to meet some nice girl from church / ball team, whatever, find out you don't have much in common, enjoy the meal/event/whatever and call it a good night and a learning experience.
All that lifetime committment stuff can wait until you know who you are. 
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