| 7/27/2008 2:01:46 PM |
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slipswitch82
Anton, TX
age: 25
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Ladies, I am in no way trying to be rude, just want some thoughts on something that has puzzled me for a while. What is the deal with a woman who tells a guy that he has all of the qualities she has ever wanted in a guy, but then she tries to change things about him that are part of who the guy is? Is it that the girl is just trying to reel him in, or does she even know what she wants?
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| 7/27/2008 2:19:21 PM |
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lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
age: 51
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I am not like that...I am what I am and I therefore have to accept that the man I meet is who he is ...No one can change the other person ,true many will try but at the end of the day it just does not work....That is why we need to ask ourselves just what we are looking for what qualities we want in the other person etc..True love is accepting the other person warts and all...We none of us are perfect.....
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| 7/27/2008 2:21:50 PM |
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metu
Mansfield, TX
age: 46 online now!
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Simple.....they are spoiled, inexperienced lil biotches.
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| 7/27/2008 2:29:31 PM |
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natasha1962
Fulton, NY
age: 45
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Ladies, I am in no way trying to be rude, just want some thoughts on something that has puzzled me for a while. What is the deal with a woman who tells a guy that he has all of the qualities she has ever wanted in a guy, but then she tries to change things about him that are part of who the guy is? Is it that the girl is just trying to reel him in, or does she even know what she wants?
Good question, I wish i could answer that question for you, I am the total opposite, I love and respect people for their individual qualities,  and if there is something about a man that truly attracts me to him, I am by no means wanting to change that. I wish people would just make up their minds what they want,  and be happy when they find that sweet person, and be happy they have someone. People are not clay, you can't mold a human. Good luck in finding that someone.
Helen
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| 7/27/2008 2:31:46 PM |
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mandy1880
Eufaula, OK
age: 28
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what they are is plain to see. little girls in womens bodies. they think they knowwhat the want but they dont.
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| 7/27/2008 2:34:53 PM |
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chellenc2008
Clayton, NC
age: 40 online now!
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don't know why...some men do the same thing
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| 7/27/2008 2:38:44 PM |
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fredricko
Pico Rivera, CA
age: 49
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understand that and you have solved the mystery about women
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| 7/27/2008 2:40:20 PM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
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She's confused. It's like wanting the good guy, yet date jerk kinda thing...
[Edited 7/27/2008 2:45:15 PM]
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| 7/27/2008 2:40:56 PM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
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[Edited 7/27/2008 2:41:11 PM]
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| 7/27/2008 2:44:47 PM |
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wishicould
Mesquite, TX
age: 52
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Ladies, I am in no way trying to be rude, just want some thoughts on something that has puzzled me for a while. What is the deal with a woman who tells a guy that he has all of the qualities she has ever wanted in a guy, but then she tries to change things about him that are part of who the guy is? Is it that the girl is just trying to reel him in, or does she even know what she wants?
Dude, thats their job...Our job is to keep them from it...
Get it?
[Edited 7/27/2008 2:45:08 PM]
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| 7/27/2008 2:49:32 PM |
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slipswitch82
Anton, TX
age: 25
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so you are more experienced and not spoiled metu?
[Edited 7/27/2008 2:49:51 PM]
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| 7/27/2008 4:12:24 PM |
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sitkarains
Sitka, AK
age: 48
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Ladies, I am in no way trying to be rude, just want some thoughts on something that has puzzled me for a while. What is the deal with a woman who tells a guy that he has all of the qualities she has ever wanted in a guy, but then she tries to change things about him that are part of who the guy is? Is it that the girl is just trying to reel him in, or does she even know what she wants?
Actually I find this to be so true in all people. The longer someone is with someone they find little things that they would like to change about the person. How many times have we all said they would be perfect for me except for this one little thing? I don't think we set out to do this but I think that we do it.
Then what happens is we fall into this trap of age old, take a second look at the person and go what happened you are not the person I fell for. No they aren't neither are you, Since the changing process has begun. Sadly I know I have fallen into this trap myself on both ends.
I now fight very hard againest it. I want the person I love to be all who he can be I want him to be different from me I want him to grow and evolve into the person he will be. The same as I will be...
I also think this is more of the younger crowd of people, I believe the older we get the more accepting as we get older.
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| 7/27/2008 4:16:51 PM |
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missmmeoftheday
Brooklyn, NY
age: 42
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I think the more accepting of yourself you are, the more accepting of others' you are... when I was 20 I probably wanted to make major changes in the guy I was with... cause at that time, I thought I was perfect...
I'm just much more realistic now about who I am and what I bring to the table... and much more willing to accept and compromise. It's just life experience, I guess. JMO
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| 7/27/2008 4:24:49 PM |
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power2theq
Inglewood, CA
age: 21 online now!
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Ladies, I am in no way trying to be rude, just want some thoughts on something that has puzzled me for a while. What is the deal with a woman who tells a guy that he has all of the qualities she has ever wanted in a guy, but then she tries to change things about him that are part of who the guy is? Is it that the girl is just trying to reel him in, or does she even know what she wants?
Because most women are never satisfied with what they have, even if it's the best.
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| 7/27/2008 4:26:46 PM |
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slipswitch82
Anton, TX
age: 25
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So true power2theq
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