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| 7/29/2008 10:02:54 AM |
"Sorry, not my type..." |
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lildifferent
Sacramento, CA
age: 47
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i don't think i really have a "type", but i do know some qualities that just won't fit with me. the reasons may include tons of the stuff mentioned earlier in this thread, i.e. he has young kids, maybe too conservative for me,his lifestyle is whatever, maybe not physically attractive, maybe too involved with the ex..... it could be lots of things, and it's usually a few combined. i trust my guts and intuition a lot on this stuff as well as rely on my experience. i may simply tell someone they're not my type or we're not a good fit, and leave it at that.
why waste time trying to make something fit when it just doesn't?
i don't really see the need to go into detail with the person, as it's probably nuthin' anyone could change. if the person is mature, they can deal with that and not get hurt and upset, especially at this age. i've had it said to me, and it's all good. i appreciate the honesty.
so if we just don't fit, there are no feelings hurt, no blame, no judgment, disapproval or criticism. it just is what it is. it's really just an easy way to let them know that we're not compatible and often we end up being friends.
i'm really talking about meeting someone once or twice here and realizing this. if things had gone a little further, i'd feel obligated to give more detailed reason, but not after one or two dates.
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| 7/29/2008 10:15:43 AM |
"Sorry, not my type..." |
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thyme4me
Calumet City, IL
age: 55
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agree wholeheartedly with Bekki. As I get older I know what I like and what I don't Realizing we all have acceptable faults, I just happen to decide what is the length of those faults I will accept. It doesn't mean looks, it's more personality and how they treat someone. Because I have a type doesn't mean I'm stuck up or a B**CH. There are some things that are pleasing to me and that I look for and appeciate and somethings I don't.
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| 7/29/2008 10:39:30 AM |
"Sorry, not my type..." |
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florida_gardens
North Port, FL
age: 56
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I'm not usually that blunt, but I have, on occasion been totally straightforward with someone about why they weren't my type. Even if the guy is gorgeous, if he has anything about sex in his profile, is really into his religion and expects his woman to be too, and some other things, I will politely reply that I've read his profile, and I don't think we would be compatible. If they ask why, then I tell them. Hey, they asked. After that second email, I will sometimes get the one word "b**ch" note, then I know I was right.
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| 7/29/2008 10:49:31 AM |
"Sorry, not my type..." |
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beachingirl
Stone Harbor, NJ
age: 50
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Bekki hit it on the mark. If someone is not my type, it is ridiculous to waste my time and theirs from the beginning. No way will I lower my standards and agree with KatieScarlett, I'd rather be alone than do so. And no, I am not a b*tch, I just know what I want and what I do not. And have not and will not ever settle for less.
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| 7/29/2008 10:56:23 AM |
"Sorry, not my type..." |
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lucybrownline
Dayton, OH
age: 36
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I'm with the koolaid guy... there HAS to be some sort of attraction to make a relationship work... and luckily we all have different likes so what i find attractive or unattractive is different than that of the gal beside me.
If a guy sees me.. and doesn't think i'm cute...even with all the brains and wit in the world... why would i want to date him either??
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| 7/29/2008 10:56:52 AM |
"Sorry, not my type..." |
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blondeartist59
West Harrison, NY
age: 49
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if you're not their type then move on, be respectful and don't be so defensive. It's their opinion and it's by no means to make you feel any lesser of a person. There's NO ATTRACTION...
I wish everyone would STOP being so judgmental especially to strangers. It's not healthy especially someone as young as 21. We REALLY need to start looking for the good qualities in people rather then looking for the negative ones
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| 7/29/2008 11:01:22 AM |
"Sorry, not my type..." |
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yellowroom
Grand Island, NE
age: 47
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Nicely said..blonde artist!! 
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| 7/29/2008 12:09:18 PM |
"Sorry, not my type..." |
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starrygrneyez
Steger, IL
age: 46
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"Sorry you are not my type " really hurts.But so does trying to change (which isn't smart)into the right type, only to be told the same thing. But really, if you invest a little time, you might find other traits that are so much more appealling. I am a firm believer in trusting my instincts after the 3rd impression.
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