| 7/31/2008 9:51:10 PM |
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ladyinparis
Paris, TX
age: 42
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Okay--in the end you said that "Now you discover that they are a wealthy nude model with no sexual activity involved", right? I'm thinking "JACKPOT!" WTF! He's got a great job, he is apparently built like a brick shit house, and he's dating me! Yee Haw
Think about his company Christmas parties!  
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| 7/31/2008 10:17:39 PM |
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jeanne51
Hitchcock, TX
age: 52
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Thanks for sticking up for basic boundaries.
I don't put up with much, if anything. Life is too short
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| 7/31/2008 10:25:15 PM |
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andrew197431
College Place, WA
age: 34
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I'd email them to all of my friends and tell her about it, after that i would say "that's it sis you and i are done and i am moving as far away from kentucky as i can"
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| 8/1/2008 2:33:18 AM |
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kenb5b01
Northport, WA
age: 44
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Okay.
First of all ALL my nude pictures are already on the website  not on my computer.
But if my desk is bumped it does turn off my screen saver and there have been times when I didn't want people to see what was on my screen. Price breakdowns and supply lists and prices and the like.
Now the issue that always comes up and nobody has addressed is other people.
If your friend is a nude model they will likely have been seen by some of your friends and family. Would that be an issue for you?
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| 8/1/2008 2:41:07 AM |
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johnterry
Grafton, WV
age: 46
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Let’s say you were dating a person and things started getting pretty serious. You have been seeing this person for 3 months. Dates consist of expensive dinners, invitation only shows and dinners with high society members of the community.
Well you spend the night at this person’s home and in the morning you awaken before the other person and decide to go into the kitchen and make coffee.
On the way to the kitchen you walk past the computer desk and accidentally bump the mouse and the screen saver turns off.
On the screen are several nude photos of the person you are seeing.
Question: Would you look and see what exactly they were?
Question: Would you leave?
Question: If you leave what would be your explanation or would you give one?
Question: Would you go ahead and make coffee and wait for your friend to wake?
Question: Would you pretend like you hadn’t seen them, for fear your friend would think you were snooping?
Question: Would you question your friend about the pictures?
Question: How would you address the issue in conversation?
Now you discover that your friend is a wealthy nude model, which doesn’t include any sort of sexual activity.
Question: Would you continue to see them?
I wouldn't address it all. Upon discoving her profession and being nude is a part of their job, I wouldn't see any point in starting a conversation about it.
Yes, I wouldn't let something that trival come between the way I feel for her. In fact, given her prfession and being able to pick any man she pleases, I'd be feel pretty darn good about her choice of picking me.  JMO 
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| 8/1/2008 3:20:09 PM |
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jadedmoon
Boca Raton, FL
age: 39
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Okay.
First of all ALL my nude pictures are already on the website not on my computer.
But if my desk is bumped it does turn off my screen saver and there have been times when I didn't want people to see what was on my screen. Price breakdowns and supply lists and prices and the like.
Now the issue that always comes up and nobody has addressed is other people.
If your friend is a nude model they will likely have been seen by some of your friends and family. Would that be an issue for you?
 Ken, it wouldn't be an issue for me as long as I was told upfront
about it, and it is only pictures with no sexual activity.
Jade
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| 8/1/2008 7:40:10 PM |
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eagulone
Newport News, VA
age: 49
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ken your just not right sweetie, it would be your feelings, friends are friends thru everything.Ive done some stupid sh-- but my friends are always near. Thank you. 
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| 8/1/2008 7:44:11 PM |
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joshistheman
Avon, NY
age: 32
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Let’s say you were dating a person and things started getting pretty serious. You have been seeing this person for 3 months. Dates consist of expensive dinners, invitation only shows and dinners with high society members of the community.
Well you spend the night at this person’s home and in the morning you awaken before the other person and decide to go into the kitchen and make coffee.
On the way to the kitchen you walk past the computer desk and accidentally bump the mouse and the screen saver turns off.
On the screen are several nude photos of the person you are seeing.
Question: Would you look and see what exactly they were?
Question: Would you leave?
Question: If you leave what would be your explanation or would you give one?
Question: Would you go ahead and make coffee and wait for your friend to wake?
Question: Would you pretend like you hadn’t seen them, for fear your friend would think you were snooping?
Question: Would you question your friend about the pictures?
Question: How would you address the issue in conversation?
Now you discover that your friend is a wealthy nude model, which doesn’t include any sort of sexual activity.
Question: Would you continue to see them?
You had me at Wealthy nude model 
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| 8/1/2008 7:51:58 PM |
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mistymay77
Newnan, GA
age: 31
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Let’s say you were dating a person and things started getting pretty serious. You have been seeing this person for 3 months. Dates consist of expensive dinners, invitation only shows and dinners with high society members of the community.
Well you spend the night at this person’s home and in the morning you awaken before the other person and decide to go into the kitchen and make coffee.
On the way to the kitchen you walk past the computer desk and accidentally bump the mouse and the screen saver turns off.
On the screen are several nude photos of the person you are seeing.
Question: Would you look and see what exactly they were?
Question: Would you leave?
Question: If you leave what would be your explanation or would you give one?
Question: Would you go ahead and make coffee and wait for your friend to wake?
Question: Would you pretend like you hadn’t seen them, for fear your friend would think you were snooping?
Question: Would you question your friend about the pictures?
Question: How would you address the issue in conversation?
Now you discover that your friend is a wealthy nude model, which doesn’t include any sort of sexual activity.
Question: Would you continue to see them?
Um, chances are if you are spending the night with them, you've already seen them nude and it would not be a big deal to even bother looking!
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| 8/1/2008 11:12:44 PM |
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ladyvirtue123
Magalia, CA
age: 53
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Let’s say you were dating a person and things started getting pretty serious. You have been seeing this person for 3 months. Dates consist of expensive dinners, invitation only shows and dinners with high society members of the community.
Well you spend the night at this person’s home and in the morning you awaken before the other person and decide to go into the kitchen and make coffee.
On the way to the kitchen you walk past the computer desk and accidentally bump the mouse and the screen saver turns off.
On the screen are several nude photos of the person you are seeing.
Question: Would you look and see what exactly they were?
Question: Would you leave?
Question: If you leave what would be your explanation or would you give one?
Question: Would you go ahead and make coffee and wait for your friend to wake?
Question: Would you pretend like you hadn’t seen them, for fear your friend would think you were snooping?
Question: Would you question your friend about the pictures?
Question: How would you address the issue in conversation?
Now you discover that your friend is a wealthy nude model, which doesn’t include any sort of sexual activity.
Question: Would you continue to see them?
I would spell it out just as you did here...you werent snooping, it was an accident that you bumped the mouse..I ask why I wasn't informed about the nude modeling, why the big secret..I wouldnt continue to look at the pics though, I would continue onto the kitchen to make the coffee and wait for her to wake up..this should be addressed as you have said it here...you have nothing to hide but why does she hide this from you?
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| 8/2/2008 1:52:30 AM |
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bellagioqueen
Portland, OR
age: 58
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I would assume they left them there hoping I would see them. The problem I would have is not knowing about the nude modeling in the 1st place.
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| 8/5/2008 5:02:31 AM |
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kenb5b01
Northport, WA
age: 44
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I was thinking pretty much along the same lines as most everybody else.
But then if I reversed the whole thing I might be embarrassed by it and wait for the right situation to disclose it.
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| 8/5/2008 10:11:20 AM |
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lobo_corazon
Kingston, ON
age: 39
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Now you discover that your friend is a wealthy nude model, which doesn’t include any sort of sexual activity.
I'm struggling to see the downside here!
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