8/4/2008 12:35:09 PM |
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sweetnessb
Stinnett, KY
age: 34
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1. dismay or suggestions as to how you should dress
2. overly concerned about where you are going when socialicing
3. insistence on escorting you to mundane places
4. interferance with your social plans
5.essecive phone calls to know your whereabouts
6. overly intese nature to anything
7. inabilitiy to communicate and discuss
8. putting you downand anything that makes you feel inferior
9. lack of outlook and poor selfesteem or lack of confidence
10.dominant overtones in domestic arrangements
11. aggressive temper and unreasonable attitude to minor details
BE CAREFUL 
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8/4/2008 12:40:53 PM |
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gapeach7777
Ball Ground, GA
age: 36
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My ex used to make me sleep on the same pillow as him AND I had to be facing him and/or touching him. That shit did not last long. When I didn't do as he wished he held guns to my head. I will never go through that shit again.
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8/4/2008 12:46:25 PM |
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susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 60
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My ex used to make me sleep on the same pillow as him AND I had to be facing him and/or touching him. That shit did not last long. When I didn't do as he wished he held guns to my head. I will never go through that shit again.
Holy crap!!! Soooooooooo glad you are alive and away from that whacko!!!!

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8/4/2008 12:46:43 PM |
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gabisanic
Pleasant Hill, CA
age: 51
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Sounds like someone I dated very briefly... veeeeerrrrrryyyyyyy briefly. She made menus for us and called me every night, like clockwork, even after breaking up, to see what I and my boys had eaten. I should give her a call!
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8/4/2008 12:47:17 PM |
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sweetnessb
Stinnett, KY
age: 34
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My ex used to make me sleep on the same pillow as him AND I had to be facing him and/or touching him. That shit did not last long. When I didn't do as he wished he held guns to my head. I will never go through that shit again.
this would make me want to be a lesbiean
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8/4/2008 1:35:40 PM |
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carolinaguy71
Boca Raton, FL
age: 36
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My ex used to make me sleep on the same pillow as him AND I had to be facing him and/or touching him. That shit did not last long. When I didn't do as he wished he held guns to my head. I will never go through that shit again.
Wow. Thats !! You need a brother in your life to handle things like that for you! You should of waited till he went to sleep then tied him up and well I wont go into that here. 
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8/4/2008 7:45:06 PM |
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fredricko
Pico Rivera, CA
age: 49
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12-- your not happy in the relationship
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8/4/2008 7:49:45 PM |
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southbuster
Haughton, LA
age: 31
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I dont think guns pointed in my direction would make me feel loved 
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8/4/2008 7:53:54 PM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
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Very Jealous
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8/4/2008 7:55:24 PM |
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carcrazy_fool
Interlachen, FL
age: 59
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he tell u hes all u need,yeah right!!!
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8/4/2008 7:57:50 PM |
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kfab1023
Jacksonville, FL
age: 52
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I dont think guns pointed in my direction would make me feel loved 
You got that right southbuster hey babe how are ya haven't talked for a long time       
[Edited 8/4/2008 7:58:26 PM]
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8/4/2008 8:40:21 PM |
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anewdawn36
Charlotte, NC
age: 36
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My ex used to make me sleep on the same pillow as him AND I had to be facing him and/or touching him. That shit did not last long. When I didn't do as he wished he held guns to my head. I will never go through that shit again.
Overly possessive...to gain CONTROL..until they lose total CONTROL... What a vicious cycle and a NO WIN situation...

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8/4/2008 9:01:32 PM |
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quid_pro_quo
Seattle, WA
age: 41
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Lundy Bancroft "Why Does He Do That?" Domestic Abuse "bible" in the "biz" (abuse does NOT have to be violent and is usually harder to recover from. Bancroft's definition of an Abusive man (or woman)is the most commonly used in court documents along with the particular state's legal definition.
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8/4/2008 9:17:39 PM |
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tater79
Springfield, IL
age: 29
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Hey hun, I agree with most of those, but there are some things on that list that men might do because of their partner's unfaithfulness in the past or they give the man good reason to check up on them because they are liars...
Now with that said, I think when someone finds out about their partner either being a liar or a cheat, they should break up with them. and avoid the whole thing but sometimes the woman will sound sencere in their appologies after being caught doing either thing and the man will stay. LIKE a dumb ass some men are stupid enough to beleive them.. JMO
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8/4/2008 10:31:07 PM |
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holdmetight2
Turlock, CA
age: 57
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Good things for the young ladies to read before getting involved. Lived it for last 40 years. Just waking up !! Why couldn't i have known many years ago ? Do i care now what he thinks ? At times ! But he knows i am trapped in this so called marriage ..
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