how2chatnattact
San Antonio, TX
age: 35
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I'm 33 year old man trying to figure out how to start up a conversation with single women around my age.
Any advice?
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metu
Monroe, LA
age: 48
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Just put your lips together & blow......oh! Wait a minute! That's for something else...
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klassyklown
Bakersfield, CA
age: 41
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I think a good way to start a conversation is to talk about something interesting she said in her profile, or something you have in common. Or comment on a post if she posts in the forum. Good luck!
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sharolas
Elk Grove Village, IL
age: 40
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the best way to start is saying hello and introducing yourself. That works for me.. Good luck and have fun
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cse5711
Shelbyville, KY
age: 52
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the best way to start is saying hello and introducing yourself. That works for me.. Good luck and have fun
 what she said!
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tbt
Kingston, ON
age: 32
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Actually speak. Say something interesting. Make her want to write back to you. How many emails do you think these women get saying "hey beautiful, wanna chat?"
Substance=win
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whomper
Greenwood, IN
age: 66
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Maybe you should try Joey's approach (from "Friends")--- "How yooouuuu doing?" Just keep it simple. Women aren't stupid -- they will then know that you are interested. If they are also interested --- they will let you know. If not -- try another one. It's all in the numbers.
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southbuster
Haughton, LA
age: 33
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I like to play and sing........
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 36
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Depending on where you meet her can dictate it a little...
But first, you want to make eye contact. That's your green light.
Once you make eye contact, you can ask a question with a joke attached to it, you can make a joke with a question attached to it and then you can follow up with oh by the way, my name is ___________ and PAUSE (she will tell you her name; or my name is ______________, and yours? and continue some good small talk conversation nothing too heavy.
If you meet her for example, at a place where you only have perhaps 30 seconds to a minute such as a grocery store etc... You can still make a quick joke or question and then you must get to your point. She may be in a rush and or have things to do and you don't want to impede that. If she likes your style, trust me, she will give you her number. If she doesn't, it's part of life. Don't take it personal. But the chances are definitely in your favor if she makes good eye contact with you.
Or after you establish eye contact, start off with small innocent, non overbearing conversation. The attempt here is not to come on too strong. Strike up good conversation and make her laugh with some jokes too. The objective is to make her feel at ease and enjoy your talk albeit a couple of minutes or longer - again, it depends on where you meet her.
In striking conversation, you must be confident or it won't work. You must feel at ease and not timid when you talk to her for the first time. Also, assume the sale. For example, don't ask her for her number, assume. For example, "let's exchange numbers" - and while you are saying it pull out your cell phone and exchange. 
[Edited 8/7/2008 6:29:17 PM PST]
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