| 1/11/2007 6:55:59 PM |
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anyone010
Roanoke, TX
age: 24
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personaly i think, there is nothing that a woman likes more than get an invitation for a date! but when i think of my last dates, it was always me who had to ask for it!! and i'm usually a really shy girl! so can any guy tell me, why'd you stopped making the "first step"????
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| 1/11/2007 8:02:42 PM |
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stevea
Camp Verde, AZ
age: 55
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Who say's we don't? It's a shame you're so young and not looking for "an old fart" like me! Guess the youngsters are too fragile to handle the possibility of being regected...
[Edited 1/11/2007 8:04:43 PM ]
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| 1/11/2007 8:57:16 PM |
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anyone010
Roanoke, TX
age: 24
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i'm starting to think they are!! i think it's just sad, because when i think back i never really got a "real first date invitation"! you know, the old way! i think many people have forgotten how important a first date can be!
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| 1/11/2007 9:20:28 PM |
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brianjames_03
Jonesboro, AR
age: 26
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Now in days if you try to hit on a woman you might just end up in court you have to be very careful.
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| 1/11/2007 9:37:31 PM |
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anyone010
Roanoke, TX
age: 24
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i don't agree with you brian, i think if you do it in a nice friendly and respectful way that it would be easy! i mean i know there are some woman.... how should i say this...... well... they are that bi.... and would act like that
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| 1/11/2007 9:42:13 PM |
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drummer8899
Rohnert Park, CA
age: 50
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Maybe I have this wrong but unless you are a)good looking b)rich c)a bad boy d)with a Harley, it seems that you don't even get a response from a first, second or third step. It's kind of like most women want the guys with the "players" profile.
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| 1/11/2007 9:48:39 PM |
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brianjames_03
Jonesboro, AR
age: 26
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Also ladies if you like a guy let him know he may just be scared and thinks your out of his league.
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| 1/13/2007 10:08:01 AM |
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hard_to_handle
Antioch, CA
age: 47
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Why dont men make the first move step crawl?
interesting.
well I disagree I think we do mostly usually women can be so cryptic "unless your KAT"
that us men might not realize your making the first move and think we are just talking.
When you could consider initiating a conversation the first move.
its all perception yes it has become dangerous to be a man now a days because some laws do interpret sexual harassment as any unwanted advance made by a manand that can be really abused think about the mcdonalds coffee lady payed for pouring coffee on herself.
really now , however people have become too sensative there is nothing wrong with expressing an interest in another person in a polite manner however descriptive purely exual expressions are a dangerous play ground that should never be wandered onto carelessly.
what one woman may truly be dying to hear and participate in is not always what another wants to hear yet how are we to know?
by talking to each other openly and honestly. MY dear Kat I always seem to pick on you sorry however do many of you really believe she wants to devour and whip all men? or that she prefers to be so treated herself?
anser is we dont know because those are private discussions it seems and this forum is a public place.
meet here and if someone gets your attention say so however if someone expresses interest then be honest as well.
a few poor instances can create apprehension " ya big word" but its true what we need to remember is that we will never meet anyone unless someone says hi sometime
so do you want to miss your perfect mate because he must say hi first or she must say its ok to talk before admitting your interested well not this crowd they would knock out the wall socket if they could for the spark it would give lol
I know enough lectures
men initiate if there is any and I mean any indication that there might be a chance of acceptance. so work on possably not appearing so distant if your not being aproached.
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| 1/13/2007 11:45:09 AM |
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fabulousnsingle
Tarawa Terrace, NC
age: 45
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not all girls are looking for the "BAD BOY" kind of guy...often girls seek these types of guys because they will take anything...often girls are shy and are afraid to approach the more clean cut and "NICE GUY"....as a single woman and searching...take it from me...most girls really dont want the "BAD BOY" kind of guy...
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| 1/13/2007 1:50:52 PM |
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sentenced420
Bethlehem, PA
age: 38
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Well in my area called the Lehigh Valley, the women in my area have what is called the "Valley Attitude", which is having a snobbish, cavalier, stuck up, and judgmental attitude. Yes, a lot of women in my area can be shallow, crass, callous, spiteful and conceited. Well myself being on the shy, quiet, sensitive, and reserved side am not inclined to make the first move, especially when dealing w/ women like that. Well I done that and got burned many times. No I'm not looking for sympathy or anything like. For the most part I just ignore them and don't make any eye contact. I just pretend they're not there and don't exist. I'm not afraid of them. I just don't want to have anything to do with them. Why bother with ppl that'll make your life unpleasant? So to answer the question is that guys don't want to put up with women like the ones I had mentioned above anymore. A lot of women these days (not all of them) have b/c intoxicated on their own power. And when these women will wonder why the men won't go after them and they'll wonder out aloud, "Where's all the men?", "Where did they go?".
Finally, I wanted to add that when I was growing up women would play this captious headgame that was designed for entrapment or to make the guy look like a dork. I a guy would make the first move on her, she would snub him and then go home and brag to all her friends. If the guy didn't make the first move and pretty much kept his distance and didn't want anything to do with them. Then the women assumed he was gay or that something was wrong with him upstairs. How's that for being vicious, mean, and disrespectful.
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| 1/22/2007 4:40:37 AM |
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slopoker
Phenix City, AL
age: 65
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I think....its the beer
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| 1/22/2007 5:16:00 AM |
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gawd
Appleton, WI
age: 56
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Thats true of the guys in Wisconsin..its the beer
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| 1/22/2007 7:22:23 AM |
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bluecarmie
Rolla, MO
age: 63
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Men use to be men. But then the women took over the role and took away the masculinity of men. So now we,women usually have to ask a man out. If you can get them to meet you. I want an old fashion man. Who will judge me after we meet. Not from a note or two. Would like to see men get back to being men. Then us women can get back to being ladies. Bluecarmie
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| 1/22/2007 10:04:52 AM |
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lynn53
Hemet, CA
age: 60
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I think there is some truth in what your saying Blue and almost hate to admit that...men do seem a little more passive these days!
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| 1/22/2007 5:44:46 PM |
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krazz
Whittier, CA
age: 58
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Some of us men are "nice and real gentlemen too." It all depends what "circle of friends" you are hanging with. That generalization is just that............ too general for me. It sounds like a bunch of small talk..... Now who wants to go for a roll in the hay? Forward enough??????
LOL!
Krazz
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| 1/22/2007 7:45:38 PM |
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traumadez
Westminster, CA
age: 47
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Krazz....I have allergies to horse dander and hay...now what? lol
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| 1/22/2007 10:14:13 PM |
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sinfulcharming
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 44
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Cheking Masculinity ......... yep still there.
In Hill's words some men are too chikkin to approach wimmin ... fear of rejection makes them think twice.... the ego takes a beating and shrinkige happens 
well lets see... if they ask a woman, how would you like your eggs in the morning? And the answer they get would be "Unfertilized" ya might as well hit them with a baseball bat in the groin
[Edited 1/22/2007 10:16:34 PM ]
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| 1/22/2007 10:20:14 PM |
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traumadez
Westminster, CA
age: 47
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We aren't interested in the chickens!!! Just the Guys!!!
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| 1/22/2007 10:25:15 PM |
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sinfulcharming
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 44
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and I though you were just into feathers, now yer just gettin kinky mentioning chikkins and all
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| 1/22/2007 10:30:46 PM |
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traumadez
Westminster, CA
age: 47
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Wait!!! You never asked what I was into!!! LOL
Stop assuming!!! LOL
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| 1/22/2007 10:33:10 PM |
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sinfulcharming
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 44
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you did say on the other hread that you can't get away with anything  face too readable he he he
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| 1/22/2007 10:34:58 PM |
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traumadez
Westminster, CA
age: 47
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Oh yeah...opps!!!
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| 1/22/2007 10:43:08 PM |
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ol_hillbilly
Lowry City, MO
age: 50
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With a feather is...Kinky!
With a whole chikken is....Preverted!
Get it rite! hahaha
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| 1/22/2007 10:48:05 PM |
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sinfulcharming
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 44
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Hill, I was being a gentleman it's Dez afterall
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| 1/22/2007 11:06:38 PM |
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traumadez
Westminster, CA
age: 47
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Oh why start now boys???? LOL
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| 1/23/2007 7:07:51 AM |
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sinfulcharming
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 44
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you know we luv ya Dez
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| 1/30/2007 5:04:36 PM |
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glassman02
Livingston, MT
age: 25
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men are afraid of being turned down. showing a little confidence goes a long way. being shy doesnt neccisarily mean that a guy doesnt want to, or won't take that, "first step" either. i have a feeling (call it a personal feeling) that it might also be an ego thing, but mabey not.
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| 1/31/2007 3:43:18 AM |
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sebastianlady2
Pensacola, FL
age: 82
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I think your thoughts on it might be right. It is a scarey thing to put yourself out there. Thinking of the first time I asked a guy out, which to me is "first step".. I thought I was going to pass out. I was very, very afraid he would say no and I would look like a fool. I was young then, but I still remember the fear of that day. LOL I even just took a deep breath remembering it. I think very much, it is an ego thing.
SL
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| 1/31/2007 6:22:06 AM |
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wolfy9459
Dayton, OH
age: 49
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Very well said Glassman.
Kenny
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| 1/31/2007 6:37:55 PM |
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nowhereman72
Stanley, NC
age: 38
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for me taking that first step is sort of hard
its been 16 years since i have had a gf or even
a date and its because of trust I'm not saying
trust is the reason every want to the first step
but for me i had one that burnt me pretty bad that
sort of told me that trust is a must for me it isn't
looks or how you say this or that its that feeling
of trust that you give ff when you first meet.
but for me i just think a guy taking the first step
is a good idea i just have problems opening up
always thinking can i trust them? once i tried
a date but i questioned everything she did in my head
and i ended up going home early so i gave up
trying because i question everything. but that's just
my reason for not take the first step.
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| 2/1/2007 11:05:14 AM |
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chefmedic
Birmingham, AL
age: 50
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Here's my take on the whole thing.
It has a lot to do with many factors, fear is just one, fear on both parties parts.
If you try the work relationship thing, you're going to end up hating life. If you approach a lady in a crowd, up will end up being in the middle of the gang mentality arena and most assuredly shot down. If you approach a single woman, they'll probably think you're a nut case or a perv..And then there is the United States of the Offended clause, "That's sexual harassment". As rediculous as it sounds, it happens all the time, particularly if you are in a position of authority, I know, been there done that.
I use to love to approach ladies in the grocery store because I know a lot about food and / or cooking, and cooking is my favorite past time or hobby if you will, (even wrote a cook book in 1997) I stopped doing that when the police asked me to leave for sexually harrassing a customer about six years ago. All that happened was I nodded my head and asked "how are you today". Next thing I knew, I was on my way out the door, without my freakin' groceries to boot. B*tch.....lol......
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| 2/1/2007 11:56:52 AM |
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sinfulcharming
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 44
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There is a good old saying in this world that goes "If you don't ask you don't get" just don't use cheesy pick up lines that all.
Here is a perfect example, I was disembarking from a train in London and this really gorgeous lady was right behind me, Suddenly the luggage porter with his cart in hand asks me May I help you with your luggage? my answer was "No thank you she can walk"
well I got myself a date cause she started laughing so hard, and then introduced herself to me....and then... ahem (Clearing throat) i gots me some
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| 2/1/2007 12:09:15 PM |
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cutiepie31
Minneapolis, MN
age: 35
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I don't really know for sure. Maybe they are just waiting for the girl to make the first move cause there afraid of rejection from the girl..
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| 2/1/2007 12:29:07 PM |
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strongslowhand
Annapolis, MD
age: 49
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I used to be afraid of that first step. I live for rejection, now. Every time I'm rejected, that's just one less woman I need to wonder about, after all. And, next!! Otherwise I'd be eating alone in alot of restaurants and seeing a lot of movies alone. I mean, where does it say I have to have sex with every woman I ask out to dinner or movie? Sometimes, ladies, it's just a night out for conversation and companionship, and I don't need umm, further access, so no worries, ay?
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| 2/6/2007 2:52:27 AM |
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gawd
Appleton, WI
age: 56
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Slow and whats wrong with going to dinner and a movie alone..
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| 2/6/2007 10:09:35 AM |
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sinfulcharming
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 44
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there is nothing wrong with that.....it's the rushing of blood from one head to the other that is the problem
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| 2/6/2007 10:55:46 AM |
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jondalar
Reno, NV
age: 56
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I am afraid to invite a woman for a date. If we go on a date and I do not feel attracted to her at the end of the evening then I have to take the chance of hurting her feelings by not being as interested as she is. It is like starting something I can't end. I have been divorced twice and am still the best of friends with both x's. It is not the fear of my being rejected that holds me back it is of not knowing how to end it or make it clear that I can only be a friend.
Monday101
new day
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| 2/6/2007 1:28:16 PM |
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traumadez
Westminster, CA
age: 47
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So Jond...just what makes you so irresitable that women want more than friendships with you????
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| 2/6/2007 4:47:49 PM |
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strongslowhand
Annapolis, MD
age: 49
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you see him ride that bull, dez? hell, i can't hang on like that no more.
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| 2/6/2007 5:16:55 PM |
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traumadez
Westminster, CA
age: 47
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hmmm....I can!!! lol
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| 2/7/2007 2:04:22 AM |
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sinfulcharming
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 44
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LMAO.....Dez now that was an original classic one liner
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| 2/7/2007 11:30:30 PM |
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jondalar
Reno, NV
age: 56
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I do not think it is about being irresistable. I think it is more often that I look like a life preserver. A last chance at what they think they want. I am 52 and I find that women over forty-five are in a phase of life that makes them aware that being single could be permenent. Thus any guy who is not a real jerk deserves careful concideration. When women set their sights on me or any man they often misread the subtle or obviouse lack of interest on the guys part. For me that creates a problem of trying Fifty ways to leave your lover. Some of this is my fault and I will admit to being part of my own problem. I have studied and practiced many ways to please my wife over the years. Tantra, massage and variouse relationship skills like listening, not trying to fix things or giving advice unless ask for. I am also practiced in the ways of the superior man. I have made it a point to learn how to please a woman long before I take her to bed. this exzudes confidence and women are naturally drawn to confident men. I have shared four bedrooms of my home with women and an occaisional guy for five years. Most stay six months to a year while they are getting thier life on track. That adds up to many personalities I have had the oppertunity to interact with. In that time I have only slept with one of them and I have learned what it takes to not be thought of as a jerk, at least not too often.
Back to the topic in this thread, Why don't men take the first step.
I think roles of men and women are unclear and a smart guy is hesitant to take the chance of poking a venus flytrap. For the twenty somethings a date can be just a date trying to get lucky and never remember her name. I have seen many of my room mates hurt by careless guys so I take a responcibility for how a date feels after the date as much as that she has a good time while on the date. For me, my ten has soft body hair and likes to cuddle. I'm gun shy so even if they look like my seven, I smile and keep walking.
Jondalar
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| 2/8/2007 10:09:24 AM |
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chefmedic
Birmingham, AL
age: 50
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jond is very insightful, lots of good word to fashion ones self after.......
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| 2/8/2007 1:09:23 PM |
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traumadez
Westminster, CA
age: 47
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Well Jond...maybe my friends & I are just the exceptions to the norm but...none of my friends and definatly not me, are looking for "life preservers" to keep from being single for the rest of our lives!!!! And you haven't sold me on why you'd be the catch of the day anyway!
I think if a woman is comfortable with who she is, and self confident, she doesn't need a "life preserver"...if in her travels through life, she finds a companion and the compliment each other, then it was meant to be, but if not...being lonely is a state of mind that you have complete control over.
I for one am very comfortable in who I am, I have a wonderful support system of great friends, my adult children, and now even grandbabies...if something more happens along the way, it's icing on the cake!!!!!
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| 2/13/2007 7:45:57 AM |
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universalsoul
Kansas City, MO
age: 42
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The materials of David Deida is very insightful!
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| 2/15/2007 7:40:13 PM |
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copterdriver
Saint Matthews, SC
age: 58
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That is a good question that has many answers as I have read a lot of them here. I have been asked out a lot of times and declined gracefully I hope, and I have actually been on a few dates by being asked out. Womens lib erased that stigma long ago, but I have one lady that will not call me because she says it is improper? What part of Venus is she from?
I found that for the most part if a woman wants to go out with you and asks then you are in for a good time. I have been out with a few nut cases too. Personally I like to get to know someone before I take it further than chatting or phone conversations. Sometimes I get impressions from conversations that make me reevaluate the desire to meet in person.
Sometimes I'm not interested in taking it any further than an online relationship and get asked out anyway. If I am not attracted to a person mentally then it makes for a long evening, especially if they are dumber than a box of rocks. I do have friends that I am not physically attracted to that I love dearly, and ask them out on occasion. I have been turned down too.
If you can't put a picture of yourself on here then what are you hiding and why? That makes me wonder what is behind the missing picture..... I would never ask anyone out that does not have a picture posted at least.....
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| 2/15/2007 8:11:34 PM |
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fabulousnsingle
Tarawa Terrace, NC
age: 45
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This is getting to be quite interesting...We all have our reasons for not taking the first step...Men and women alike....being raised in the deep south it was not allowed for a female to approach a male...if she did it ment she was "loose"...after being married at the age of 15, then divorced and married two other time I could say that I have been married most of my life...after becoming single again a year ago is when I relaized how times have changed...and not only times but the rules are different in different states...meaning...when I was in Bama...the guys was expected to ask you out..cause if you (the female) ask them out...then all you wanted was a "Roll in the Hay" (didnt matter if you was allergic to horse dander or hay..lol)...when I moved out west...the rules was different...it seemed to me that the guys liked having the girls to ask them out...for some not all...it was the chance to play the head game of the "Chace"...meaning it was a way for the guys to get back at the girls...now being in the Carolina's...it is most different...no one approaches any one...I have had to take a long hard look at my southern ways and make changes where necessary...I have learned to take the first step...and found out that the world would keep on turning if I did make the first step...it didnt mean that I was "Loose"...nor does it mean that I want to play head games...I would have missed out on meeting alot of wonderful guys if I had not taken the first step...but on the other hand...I have regreted taken the first step...the guy wanted more then I did...(where might I get that book on "friends on Monday 101..lol)I have said all of this to say...we are all looking for the same thing..men and women alike...we all want to meet people that we can be friends...lover...or even marry...so does it really matter who takes the first step..."If you see someone that you would like to get to know... men or women...take the fist step...you may be passing up the opportunity to have met the man or women of your dreams"...
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| 2/17/2007 8:15:37 AM |
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pleazyoupleazme
Kenosha, WI
age: 39
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times have changed,its not always easy to approach a woman .todays woman is not the same woman she was 30 years ago .todays woman is confident,strong ,beautiful, smart, and ready to compete with men on a level playing field,they also dont fall for cheesy pick up lines anymore ,lol. i guess what it comes down to is man doesnt feel like the mighty hunter gatherer anymore women can fend for themselves they have become the hunter. dont know if it makes sense i can only go of what i feel .i dont know what other guys feel .we guys generally dont talk to eachother about our feeling .
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| 2/17/2007 10:01:34 AM |
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sinfulcharming
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 44
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Times have changed and along with the time approches have changed too! women like men who are confident, and funny. .... Look at it this way what is the worse that can happen?
she'll end up saying NO....so what?
Everyone's has an element of fun in them, this construes to.... "Hi My name is ..... I would love it if you will say yes to having a cup of coffee with me" ... the answer would be either sure I'd like that, or no sorry not interested! As opposed to "Oh my, you are so fine, it ought to be a crime, do you by any chance have a socket for the rocket in my pocket" ... that one is just cheesy, goofy and it makes them laugh, it send signals that you are quick, witty and fun to be around with.
now you be the judge... I am not saying either of them will work but it's just an example of how time and approaches have changed!
On the flipside, Chivalry is not dead yet, you could end up getting a killer smile and all kinds of warms and fuzzies if you just be a gentleman and open a door for a lady.
So It all ranges from a complete gentleman to a goofy funny guy and in-between, the bottom line is "If you don't ask you don't get"
[Edited 2/17/2007 10:07:02 AM ]
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| 2/17/2007 12:01:32 PM |
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sebzalive
Pamplin, VA
age: 85
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Jondalar, you write pretty fancy, but there has been something about your writing that has bothered me. Just like I missed the last two books of the series begun with the Clan of the Cave Bear, I missed this post of yours from 2/7.
Now, I am ticked, but Dustin need not worry about a posting malfunction.
Here, you say: "I am 52 and I find that women over forty-five are in a phase of life that makes them aware that being single could be permenent. Thus any guy who is not a real jerk deserves careful concideration" What a hunk of hewey!! A jerk deserves careful observation, not concideration.
Sure, women over 45 are aware that being single could be permanent. That is one thing that many (not all!) men don't get. They just look to the younger and simetimes to those more nieve. In my circle of friends over 45, male and female both understand being single could be permanent. It could be permanent because they chose not to settle for the jerks and are quite content to spend time with themselves or friends.
Be careful of life preservers, when they have been in the sun too long they wouldn't float anyway. I used to be a synchronize swimmer and have taken life guard training. I don't need an old life preserver that is full of holes.
I have just returned from the library. I went there to pick up an old friend. There I discovered the tale had continued, beyond what I knew. One named Jondalar enters the story that I loved. No wonder your romantic date story seemed to speak to me so... even though at the same time, I felt a need for caution.
I am confused, yet again, how a person who claims to be spirit connected could be so full of themselves.
SL
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| 2/17/2007 12:02:32 PM |
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sebzalive
Pamplin, VA
age: 85
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sin, which one do you think will work?
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| 2/17/2007 12:36:39 PM |
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sinfulcharming
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 44
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I think it all depends on the kind of Lady one approaches,just can't go to serious looking woman who is mature and classy and yell "hey lady, got a socket for the rocket in my pocket" that just won't cut it. or just go ayi yi yi, hubba hubba nice pair of boom booms
Likewise you can't get too serious and use an old fashioned approach on a fun loving girl, their first impression would be "Boring" If I wanted to be bored I can stay at home and do it
Sooooo, it all depends on who you approach and what kind of game face you put on.
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| 2/17/2007 12:41:11 PM |
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sebzalive
Pamplin, VA
age: 85
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smile... thanks for the "rules" update, sin.
I am not always serious, but the rocket in my pocket thing wouldn't work even on a day I was being silly.
SL
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| 2/17/2007 12:48:38 PM |
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sinfulcharming
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 44
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I know Seb, that was just an example of a cheesy line...but you have to admit it, if nothing else it's a good laugh.
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| 2/17/2007 12:54:47 PM |
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sebzalive
Pamplin, VA
age: 85
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yeah... but do you know that some actually use that, or similiar????
ick
[Edited 2/17/2007 12:56:10 PM ]
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| 2/17/2007 2:17:08 PM |
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krazz
Whittier, CA
age: 58
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What about an innocent game of "Hide the Pickle?"
LMAO!
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| 2/17/2007 2:50:16 PM |
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sebzalive
Pamplin, VA
age: 85
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Krazz,
Actually had one ask if I might like to play hide the salami.
Mahnamahna do do dododo Love those lemons
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| 2/17/2007 2:54:29 PM |
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krazz
Whittier, CA
age: 58
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Hide the salami is so "last century!" ROFL!
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| 2/17/2007 2:56:41 PM |
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sebzalive
Pamplin, VA
age: 85
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it would have been stupid "last century", too
I just smiled and said great...
now go away
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| 2/17/2007 3:00:29 PM |
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krazz
Whittier, CA
age: 58
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Give me back my pickle!
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