| 8/7/2008 9:29:11 AM |
A Question for females 18-25 |
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44pete77
Lake Hiawatha, NJ
age: 20
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When guys send you the first message, what do you want us to say? what would catch your interest so you would reply?
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| 8/7/2008 10:42:13 AM |
A Question for females 18-25 |
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themicrochip
Garfield, NJ
age: 26
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As an addendum, why will you not respond back in either the positive or negative after we send a message? Why are we left hanging?
It would be much better if you at least reply to a message and say "yes," "no," or some other appropriate response that would let us know what the deal is. And tell us why because we will change to better ourselves. It may not serve you immediately because it won't be for you, but it may end up being for someone you may know.
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| 8/7/2008 11:12:58 AM |
A Question for females 18-25 |
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smilesandhugs
Brick, NJ
age: 46
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I can't answer for any others......but in my opinion, if someone is rude enough to not reply to a message, then why would you want to know them
When you write to someone, mention what initiially caught your eye. Maybe it was something that they said in their profile. Make it short and sweet. If they don't reply, don't take it personally, it really says more about the type of person that they are.
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| 8/7/2008 2:24:02 PM |
A Question for females 18-25 |
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csmith47
Metuchen, NJ
age: 21
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I usually try and reply to any or all that I get just with a simple hello and how are you? What I don't like is when someone asks you absurd questions, for example, last week I got an email from someone I have never talked to and he asked if I would hang out with him for his birthday. Now honestly, do you really think any woman worth being with is going to answer to something like that?
My only real response to the question is make sure a read the profile first, usually there is some kind of opener that you can use. I think it would "flatter" a girl if she knew that you actually took the time to look and read through her profile. Nevertheless, you will always meet a few girls that think that they are better then all the rest and wont give you the time of day, and for those girls I can't give you any help because I am not one of them! 
Hope this helps somewhat! 
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| 8/8/2008 8:38:49 AM |
A Question for females 18-25 |
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44pete77
Lake Hiawatha, NJ
age: 20
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i completely agree with themicrochip but i also have to agree with smilesandhugs
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| 8/9/2008 4:54:52 AM |
A Question for females 18-25 |
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u2flylyn
Blackwood, NJ
age: 34
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 i agree with smileand hugs
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| 8/13/2008 11:22:09 PM |
A Question for females 18-25 |
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44pete77
Lake Hiawatha, NJ
age: 20
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so whats the secret????
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| 8/13/2008 11:32:45 PM |
A Question for females 18-25 |
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iceblue1245
Piscataway, NJ
age: 22
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Yea honestly i hate it when you wanna get to know someone and they never reply back they just ignore you pretty much or just delete the message that we took the time and effort yo write.
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| 8/23/2008 10:13:49 AM |
A Question for females 18-25 |
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babs4023
Trenton, NJ
age: 47
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There can be a couple reasons why women do not reply.. They don't like the way you look, or they don't want to chat. So not replying is easier than letting someone down or hurting their feelings. It doesn't make that person a bad person it just means no thanks i am not interested!! 
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| 8/23/2008 11:37:56 PM |
A Question for females 18-25 |
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iceblue1245
Piscataway, NJ
age: 22
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There can be a couple reasons why women do not reply.. They don't like the way you look, or they don't want to chat. So not replying is easier than letting someone down or hurting their feelings. It doesn't make that person a bad person it just means no thanks i am not interested!!
OBJECTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Not really i rather have the person tell me then just ignoring cause i think ignoring is more painful then telling someone that ur not interested. I mean its more respectful that way then just pretty much ignoring them. 
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