| 8/27/2007 10:54:25 PM |
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browneyedgal
Sheboygan, WI
age: 43
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OK.. well it seems as if the men I'm attracted to don't give me a second glance.. (or atleast I think that..) but the ones I'm totally not interested in wanna fall all over me.. I'm learning not to settle at the ripe old age of 43.. and just wonder why it is that some men will later tell me that they're very attracted to me.. and usually it's "after" I'm dating someone. Do men have anxiety about approaching women? and what's the best way to approach that seemingly un approachable man?.
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| 8/27/2007 11:05:22 PM |
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theviking
Dahlonega, GA
age: 54
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Being a tall man sometimes has been a deterent to finding a woman, however I base my opinions on intellect, wit, charm, humour, sexuality, kinkiness, and matters of the heart. When those pieces of the puzzle connect then no matter who or how unapproachable one may seem should only be a shadow....
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| 8/27/2007 11:23:00 PM |
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browneyedgal
Sheboygan, WI
age: 43
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very cool.. thank you.. I'm not a real shy person.. but also have never been one who blatenly hits on a man either.. if he approches me of looks my way I'll take the opportunity to smile and say hi.. or tak to them.. but never have been a man chaser
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| 8/27/2007 11:46:22 PM |
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theviking
Dahlonega, GA
age: 54
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As cute as you are...I'd chase you around to keep warm on the frozen tundra of the great Cheeseland....LOL
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| 8/27/2007 11:49:35 PM |
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browneyedgal
Sheboygan, WI
age: 43
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hehe... aww.. sweet of ya.. I'm actually a southern gal with a lil northern exposure ..
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| 8/27/2007 11:51:26 PM |
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theviking
Dahlonega, GA
age: 54
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How quaint...I am a Northern Man living in the Gentlemanly Hospitable South....and it is nice to make your acqaintance.....
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| 10/7/2007 12:25:12 AM |
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tailpipes
Winfield, KS
age: 40
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most guys are intimidated by the fact they might be rejected. they know that but when your with someone already they feel like it's safe to say what they feel about you,
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| 10/7/2007 12:35:26 AM |
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mishkabacci
Duncansville, PA
age: 42
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you snooze you lose...no guts no glory...well a lot of men tend to be apprehensive about love in a way... asking or to be asked at that... sometimes as a new person on the site people shy to see whats happening and who is with who and who might be interested in who etc...but up until its known that a person is taken...even if written in a profile sometimes can be overlooked...they may like what they see and start to have feelings for you...but its hard to tell...jmo
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| 10/17/2007 12:03:19 AM |
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crawdad
Columbia, LA
age: 45
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you usually do want the unapproachable men it is especially the ones that tell you later you just have to look for the signs like catch them looking at you out of the corner of their eye then look away the best way to approach them is just come out and say hey lets go out for a movie or just for fun other than that go to a bar and have a few drinks let your hair down and let your hand go where it needs to be put and you will find your answer there
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| 11/5/2007 8:25:07 PM |
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rosannachanna
Fort Dodge, IA
age: 57
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Crawdad, that's a helpful tip. I have always took that quick glance away, to mean not interested. Maybe you guys could hold that eyecontact just a few seconds longer, add a half suggestive grin..when you might be interested enough to talk at least. Thankx, Channa
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| 11/5/2007 8:32:26 PM |
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axlrose2502
White Pine, TN
age: 31 online now!
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if i meet you on the street i will smile and say high but if you watch i'm looking at your ring finger to see a ring but that is usually as far as i go don't want to either make an ass out of myself or the turn down
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| 11/5/2007 8:57:56 PM |
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navyflyer
Wahiawa, HI
age: 42 online now!
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I've found that the women that I'm attracted to....are the ones that actually seem to be enjoying themselves....in whatever situation we happen to be around at the time. I enjoy approaching ..and talking to a woman that is not actively out looking for a date...boyfriend...or hook up. I get the chance to actually hear her views on what she would like to see or hear or do......other than jump my bones......
Women that see me as a notch in their lipstick case are usually the last ones that I'd want to really spend any time with.
Just my opinion.....Be yourself.....have a good time.....and don't fixate on a guy. This is 2007...if you find a guy attractive...send him a drink....wait a little while and if he hasn't come over to thank you...go over to him and ask him if he enjoyed the drink. From there you can make small talk or try to get him on the dance floor...where body contact can come into play......But keep his attention with some light conversation.
don't just grind yourself into him and expect him to want to propose.
My best advise...Be yourself....have a good time....subtlety let him know you're there ..and interested.....but if he don't bite......look on the other side of the room...there will be another one there just as cute....maybe with a different outlook
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| 11/5/2007 9:02:56 PM |
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vavocalist25
Hayes, VA
age: 25 online now!
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For browneyed: I have the same problem with women....I think it's just a human thing.
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| 11/5/2007 9:11:23 PM |
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composerman
Beverly Hills, CA
age: 44
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survival mechanism, we are programmed to date out of our class
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| 11/6/2007 8:38:39 AM |
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exfirefighter
Inverness, FL
age: 55
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Browneye what a pretty lady you are
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