| 8/10/2008 7:18:55 PM |
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wordman
Phillipsburg, NJ
age: 46
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I just had another woman dump me tonight. I never even met her. We had some very nice chats. I was unemployed when we met. She prayed I'd get a job and it worked. All of a sudden she stops returning my email and tonight sends a cryptic message that I am not the one for her.
She seemed like a really nice, caring person and I cannot fathom what I did.
What gives??????
[Edited 8/10/2008 7:19:56 PM]
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| 8/10/2008 8:06:51 PM |
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notfit1
Titusville, FL
age: 47
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Yes, wordman, we can. We can keep getting up when we get knocked down. There isn't a standing 8 count in life. There are no rules as in Marques of Queensbury, in the wonderful world of cyber-dating. All you can do is be yourself and try to paint an accurate portrayal of who you really are within the small confines of the computer screen. As long as you are still trying, you are still living. Hang in there, and best of luck to you!
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| 8/11/2008 8:38:51 AM |
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y2blegend
Tuckerton, NJ
age: 23
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how could u consider yourself dumped from just having some nice chats with someone?
idk..if thats considered dumped..it just meant she found something better in her mind anyway...i try not to get my hopes up i guess it makes it easier haha..
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| 8/11/2008 8:58:06 PM |
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easygoin68
Crawford, NE
age: 40
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wordman, 52% of the population by birth is women, 48% men. Move on, plenty of fish in the sea. Look a little deeper, you might of missed something in your conversations. Just keep goin forward.
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| 8/13/2008 7:07:05 PM |
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jimirayclapton
Denver, CO
age: 49
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It's not you buddy. She found another. It's as simple as that. Dust yourself off and move on.
JRC
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| 8/13/2008 7:40:24 PM |
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wordman
Phillipsburg, NJ
age: 46
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But why does it keep happening?
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| 8/14/2008 5:50:40 AM |
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jimirayclapton
Denver, CO
age: 49
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I can't say why. I don't know you. Sounds from your post like this is not the first time and you are on a bad luck streak. It happens. Move on.
I'll lend a word of advice. You won't find happiness and be personally complete just by adding a woman to your life. You have to find that on your own. Nobody else is ever going to make you happy. Happiness is an inside job. Women don't want a guy that is needy, insecure, lacking confidence, unsure of himself. When you don't NEED a woman (but would like to add one to your already established life), when you are secure in yourself and know who you are and confident in what you are about, that will be something women find attactive and your luck will change.
Good luck
JRC
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| 8/23/2008 12:59:18 AM |
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sedonaphotofan
Sedona, AZ
age: 44
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I just had another woman dump me tonight. I never even met her. We had some very nice chats. I was unemployed when we met. She prayed I'd get a job and it worked. All of a sudden she stops returning my email and tonight sends a cryptic message that I am not the one for her.
She seemed like a really nice, caring person and I cannot fathom what I did.
What gives??????
One step closer to sucess, better now than later. The thing that you can do rith is not to call her, let iot go, everything is going to be alright. i have had my share of that, I don't deserve you, I am too broken, whatever that means. Let's all work on a drama free year.
Karl in Sedona
PS trhe best one was a Black gal told me i was not black enough and i spoke too proper, whatthe heck was that. Did i just say heck, hell maybe she was right lol
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| 8/30/2008 11:13:42 PM |
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wordman
Phillipsburg, NJ
age: 46
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It may have just happened again!!!!!!
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| 8/31/2008 8:04:15 AM |
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imtaken
Olathe, KS
age: 53
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If you can not take rejection, then pehaps you need to quit trying so hard. If you feel that you have been dumped twice in one topic, you are expecting thing too fast. Try to look for a freind. Someone to talk to onece ever two weeks or so. Don't be so needy. No one like that!
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| 9/3/2008 5:51:50 PM |
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sdcentaur
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 48
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Nope
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| 9/16/2008 8:26:35 PM |
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neverever99
Cabot, AR
age: 52
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No - the answwer to the question is no. Do not expect women to think anything you do is right. If they say they do, wait till tomorrow and they will change their mind.
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