8/11/2008 4:15:52 PM |
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lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
age: 51
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What is chemistry to you between two people??? What does it say to you about that other person and how does this chemistry affect your choice of partner???Why is it you look at one person and have a favourable reaction to them then look at others and go uh uh nice but no thanks........ 
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8/11/2008 4:20:37 PM |
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v2_3
McHenry, IL
age: 45
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Talk about unanswerable questions!
Chemistry is either there or it isn't. There have been times when I've met someone that I've talked to online and thought for sure the sparks would fly only to find.... nothing!
If anyone could actually figure out what it is and how to guarantee it, they'd make millions!
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8/11/2008 4:22:36 PM |
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lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
age: 51
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v23 you made me laugh everyone in reality who knows me says I ask a lot of questions and usually they are too hard to answer....just me I guess.    
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8/11/2008 4:23:40 PM |
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power2theq
Inglewood, CA
age: 21 online now!
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What is chemistry to you between two people??? What does it say to you about that other person and how does this chemistry affect your choice of partner???Why is it you look at one person and have a favourable reaction to them then look at others and go uh uh nice but no thanks........  
For guys, it's physical attributes and personality, which aren't too important anyway.
For girls, it's what the guys do to attract them. The attitude, the money, and the woman's belief in natural chemistry.
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8/11/2008 4:24:01 PM |
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v2_3
McHenry, IL
age: 45
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Ask me why the sky is blue.... I know that one! 
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8/11/2008 4:26:27 PM |
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lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
age: 51
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ok why is the sky blue????         
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8/11/2008 4:30:02 PM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34 online now!
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Good question
For me
Physical gets her in the door. Her attitude, being able to agree to disagree, the ability to have any type of conversation, and simply enjoying each other's company keeps her in the door.
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8/11/2008 4:35:24 PM |
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lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
age: 51
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I guess what i am trying to say is why are we attracted to certain looks in a person and yet know others who are nice people great people in fact but for some reason they dont do anything for us..We have no gut reaction to them...So im wondering if we are drawn to a particular type of person??? 
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8/11/2008 4:35:29 PM |
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v2_3
McHenry, IL
age: 45
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Ok... ahem....
When sunlight hits oxygen and nitrogen molecules in the air, they relay the blue wavelength of the color spectrum more easily than red or green wavelengths. (That's the short answer.... lol!)
I still don't have a clue about the man/woman chemistry thing! 
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8/11/2008 4:38:03 PM |
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lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
age: 51
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very impressive another question so is the blue easier than the other colours to relay????lol im giving you cheek now          
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8/11/2008 4:48:11 PM |
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v2_3
McHenry, IL
age: 45
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No more of that cheek now missy! 
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8/11/2008 4:59:28 PM |
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blueshand
Syracuse, NY
age: 57
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Edited for clarification and topic alignment
"Ok... ahem....
When sunlight hits men and women's nitrogen molecules in the air, they relay the blue wavelength of the color spectrum more easily than red or green wavelengths. That is the chemistry of attraction. 
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8/11/2008 5:00:39 PM |
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pwin_here_n_now
Annapolis, MD
age: 38
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fermones...Not sure if it is spelled right. Its a chemical smell that we all have which is unique to each person. When someones fermones are compatable with your senses... POOF! Attraction. I am sure there is someone on here who knows more... And I certainly am not sure thats all there is to it - but I am pretty positive its part of it.
Curious to see other posts on this!

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8/11/2008 5:05:06 PM |
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arreis
Cottonwood, AZ
age: 46
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I have heard of this too....but I'am also sure there is more to attraction than this. I have not been able to pinpoint my attraction to another either. Each seems so much different than the other...no real similarites which brings these fermones back to the forefront of possibilities.
fermones...Not sure if it is spelled right. Its a chemical smell that we all have which is unique to each person. When someones fermones are compatable with your senses... POOF! Attraction. I am sure there is someone on here who knows more... And I certainly am not sure thats all there is to it - but I am pretty positive its part of it.
Curious to see other posts on this!

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8/11/2008 5:06:36 PM |
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tazzper23
Texarkana, TX
age: 46
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damn i guess my chemistry sell like shit cause i seen to not be atractive to any one dh lol
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